@Rawtid, I read your post that Black men shouldn't compare their salaries to white men as though a white man that makes 50k has a much higher ability to earn 100k or more with a MUCH greater rate so it's doesn't make sense for BM to make that statement when we say, how she can want a 6 figure nikka but settle for a 40k cac.
Here is my opinion: You are dead ass wrong. The amount hurdles it took for that brotha to get to 40k which isn't small to cacs giving to brothas in any form of business or effort even in bigger cities like DC for example is a lot harder than any cac. If that cac is making 40k, it's not the fact that by being white he could make more. It's the fact that he don't want to do the shyt which ain't even that hard to make 60k or more as a cac. That's why he's happy just doing a basic job and would rather make loot off of sistas like Miss. Jessie daughter who got stuck up by a cac. She was on that cac is great rah rah shyt too and killed herself as she lost everything to that cac. I have no sympathy for that. I even told my friend that, when you married that cac, you signed up for fukk shyt. but but... she a democrat too.
nikkas don't understand racism or white supremacy. Hell, even when you tell em, they get scared like Finn from Star Wars.
If a white man making 40k wanted to do make more. He will do it. I see them do it ALL the fukking time. It's normal in their world to do so. There are no blinded barriers that we as Blacks (M/F) deal with on that level.
I've said this once and I will say this again. For
@The Wave. If she/he has extreme standards for their race and low standards for others, they have no interest in their race. It's not that she ain't ready, is that she just don't like Black folks like that. Something turned her off and it's going to take that wake up call to turn her on. She was born in 86 so she needs to start soon and fast. 30 is next year. My friend was no different. He loves being Black but he doesn't. He's considers his self conscious and I consider him unconsciously conscious. What does that mean?
It means that he is aware of stereotypes and perceptions. He is aware of underlying racism to a degree. He understand some forms of Black history, most definitely not African history and the Black history the cacs hide from us. He is aware that the Black male is sexual appeasing to most races and when in-shape can generate interest from the opposite sex of all races. He's taller and was a talented college athlete so he knows sistas would date him. But... he always dated cacettes. He always had sex with them which was the norm for desirable BM in my small town growing up. They use little things like white girls can suck the skin off of the dikk till saying shyt about sistas who they wasn't really fukking with outside of sex of course. You know nikkas, we fukk everybody for the most pt. So in reality, I asked him, what type of Black woman do you want. He said, she CANNOT be a golddigger. I said I know a lot who aren't. She has to be fine as hell. That was much tougher, he was only facially average for the most pt regardless of being built, 6'3 225 pounds like a LB. She had to be wife material. You know code for a good girl. She had to be in shape and found it nasty when a Black girl is out of shape. I was like okay. She had to be loyal. I was like, I know some sistas but it's gonna be hard. The really fine sistas have a bevy of opinions and your mouthpiece has to be tight. I looked. I found some who said, they will consider. Tried of dating so called players who always have more options than them when it comes to truly committing in terms of women of their perceived level. He turned them all down.
He was just married. His wife was a 5'2 220 white woman who is cac nice but I didn't find her mother to be even cac kind at all but she knew the deal. Only white men who want a fat white women is PURELY for sex or they are massive losers. When it comes to Blks, she could hit a home run and get one with a career, a great height and weight and is willing to commit. She had a Black friend with a Marilyn Monroe tat. I warned you guys about ANY woman with Marilyn's shyt on them or on their wall or shirt. That's a sign of the bad girl seeking approval and for sistas, that means she's likely a c00n too. For her, she would have bedwench but she's too stereotypically Black for that shyt. Looks like she has a attitude. She is only comfortable around cacs. She went to a SEC school. She date nikkas but from what I hear, the feelings on the guys she likes aren't mutual. My friend's wife practically has a slave quarters type of shyt which my girl noticed off the bat. My girl is just as woke as me. I couldn't have it any other way. I am not trying to marry a broken flower stem. Sometimes the shyt is fukked up, Marcus Garvey even talked about it about how some ppl just fukked up and you can't changed them.
When he got that wake up call maybe 3 months after their marriage. He called me, I told him, you signed up for this shyt. You gonna have to swallow your pride or leave with nothing in terms of material possessions. I swear we don't get it. Whites are still playing white supremacist games with us even when they with us.
It's gonna take a lot to change it. They were raised this way and the system and culture assures it will be successful. As a BM, I don't know what to say. Everything I mention here has a lot to do with the thread I created even though all of the ppl mentioned above aren't Black. Because at the end, we are in a system of white supremacy in the eye of the satanic storm. Our problems would be exclusively our problems regardless if we were directly with each other or without each other. We can be poison to anyone we touch but a white supremacist and we can be controlled at the neck by them which is why so many swirlers, especially the men run back to sistas. It ain't the age thing either as some like to say. It's the lack of control and the slick remarks like... well since your Black, they might not give us the house if they see you or I could call the police right now and have your life turned upside down or if you are a fukk boy, they can have little and make you sign a prenup that your Black ass doesn't get shyt if we end and don't think a judge will agree with you as a BM that it is unreasonable. Cacs do completely different shyt to sistas but with the same purpose of control.
We got issues. We have a myriad of issues. To overlook our system and culture and put the blame of BW or BM is disingenuous. I created this thread telling you in the tag, it's a platinum thread. If you read my posts in here, I played both sides of the fence strategically. I knew where I was going with this thread yesterday. My point is this. White supremacy is what is purely affecting our relationships. Start talking to your family to learn your family history. Reading books to learn your heritage and acting on bettering yourself, nothing will be possible that will seem feasible. This will not come over night. Please understand that most will not come along for the ride initially. Please understand it will be a bittersweet journey. Please understand that their has to be an end game and a fight for freedom or else you really aren't free. As BM/BW, being sick on this place is normal. Pain cuts deep. Our explosive reaction to each other is not learned behavior but it's a language of the languish. All I can ask of you is to take the effort. It will not be easy but it will be fruitful. I love you brehs and brehettes. I'm out.
F*ckin' Jay Electronic from the worst slums of New Orleans is dating a f*ckin' Rothschild and these women all like "OMG, yes we're so intimidating" 
. I get that we all have guilty pleasures such as cars, shoes, expensive pets, clothes, and etc but that is insanity. People really have to be very careful about who they hang around. When you die you will not take all of those things with you. Enjoy life, but be very careful. Even if I end up making $100,000 career wise or become a best selling author I wouldn't even live off of $100,000. Live off of $50,000 save and invest the rest.
. I can understand falling for it at 18, 20, 21, 22, but 28, 29, 33, 36?
