So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

[kevm3]

Messaging a married woman is a dangerous game period, but if you absolutely must message one that is your friend, then ALWAYS include the husband in some form or fashion in the convo... for example, " I hope you and the family are doing well." NEVER send any pics of yourself. Also, if she starts telling you problems about their marriage, you should tell her something along the lines of, "Have you talked to your busband about this first/ I hope ya'll can work it out."

Even if you didn't 'say' anything inappropriate, sending a picture of yourself and just having general banter with her can, in his mind, register you as someone who is waiting for his chance. When a man is married, has kids with a woman and has his finances tied up with her, he isn't going to play around with you and take the chance of you hovering around. You're not in the pimp game with a bunch of coli pimps and they'll give you a dap and a smile and tell you, "You got me playa" when you get their woman. Even if you have no intentions with her, his perception of you being a threat can be enough to trigger him, and in regards to your homegirl, tell her, "Look, I want to respect your household, so I'm going to chill on messaging you." If she gets mad, oh well. Your life is more important.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

A lot deranged simps low key justifying the crazy husbands actions. You can control a woman.

Whose the real simp here?

Mr. Starbucks & Chat or the Husband?

 

[Voice of Reason]

Whose the real simp here?

Mr. Starbucks & Chat or the Husband?

The husband 100% only a weirdo simp would think otherwise.

 

[Peak]

A lot deranged simps low key justifying the crazy husbands actions. You can control a woman.

Which is why he never confronted his woman

OP (hopefully) knows whats good for him going forward. The husband achieved the desired effect.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Which is why he never confronted his woman

OP (hopefully) knows whats good for him going forward. The husband achieved the desired effect.

if OP was a different type of guy that encounter would have increased the likelihood of fukking that simps wife.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

The husband 100% only a weirdo simp would think otherwise.

Cool. So being a reasonable person, based on what OP posted and what most of us inferred, you don’t think texting a married woman and sending her photos is simping?

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

OP..

If dude was really with the bullshyt, then he would have followed through with his threat.

Do you really think he would risk going to prison for the rest of his life over you? You know that if he would have shot you, that his wife will divorce him, move away and life as he knows it would be done?

I don't like insecure dudes! Next time dude shows up @ your job, get security involved!

I dont think he plans on going to prison afterwards, sounds more like a psychopath that would kill his wife, drive to OPs workplace, kill him and then commit suicide

 

[MikelArteta]

End up like fruit in the wire brehs

 

[Voice of Reason]

Cool. So being a reasonable person, based on what OP posted and what most of us inferred, you don’t think texting a married woman and sending her photos is simping?

No if the shyt is 100% work related. You possessive husbands are running to the grave with these weirdo stunts.

 

[Peak]

if OP was a different type of guy

But he isn't

 

[Cat piss martini]

this hits like a (if something happens to me) letter.
get a strap on you man.......the husband may be a problem.

 

[etrofllenrod504]

I'm sorry the husband a clown for this. His wife suppose to be the one to shut this down. Dude can only do as much as she allows. If he didn't like it then he need to let his wife know. Only time you as a husband should be taking things to this level is if she said she asked him to stop messaging but he refused. On that note it's possible she lied but who knows what happens in they household. As a man this why you avoid married women at all cost. Outside of some hi bye shyt or direct business. You don't know what type mental state husband they have connected to them.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

No if the shyt is 100% work related. You possessive husbands are running to the grave with these weirdo stunts.

Nothing about ops post gave inclination that he was having a work related relationship with this woman. Homey was full blown simping. You never shyt where you eat.
Voice of reason huh?

 

[Pressure]

You gotta just clap them cheeks now, so you don't end up dying for nothing..

Sig worthy

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Cool. So being a reasonable person, based on what OP posted and what most of us inferred, you don’t think texting a married woman and sending her photos is simping?

OP stated it was a group photo and the wife asked him to send it her after it was taken. How is that simping?

OP needs to stay away from this broad since the husband has shown himself to be an unhinged simp liable to do something deranged, but if we're taking the OP at his word, then the OP did nothing wrong that led up to this event.