So if a female says she needs space that =

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This is the best thing to happen to you....

Look at it this way

Freedom is underrated...

You might have loss financially,spiritually,and mentally,but that can all be rebuilt...

Your freedom cant...

Imagine somehow getting this broad pregnant on a "mistake"?

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YOOOO this whole thread is fukking hilarious :bryan:

So this is what ive been missing in TLR since I moved to Tha Booth :wow:
 

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I was with you until this. I guess to most of you, it isn't impossible for women to evaluate life without it being about getting "fukked" by another "nikka." Maybe with maturity many of you will learn that life isn't always black and white.
that shyts just reality babyy, I'm not some bitter ass dude just making this stuff up, I've seen it play out exactly like that plenty of times, even had a female or 2 try to take me down that road. Maybe you'd have to be built for it to understand it but thats exactly what I'm gonna tell any man who tells me his woman came to him talkin that "I need space" shyt, don't trip but tread softly because those the words have a history of leaving the door open for a lot of bullshyt to come in behind them

The story of my life. My brother calls it playing mechanic. These women come to you. Broken. Battered. With a billion sob stories. You fix em up. They get nerve and run out thinking they know better now. Then try to come back broken and battered. Repeat process.

Precisesly what I was talking about, trust me breh its a cycle you don't wanna be caught up in, it can reduce a stand up dude to down to a lil whimpering boy if handled improperly
 

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I wrote this in another thread, but I'll post it here since I'm sorta going thru the same thing.

I got dumped over the weekend and I still don't even know why. She just said "you don't care about me anyways" I'm like nah not true. Then I'm like so why you pushing me away? She says "Isn't that what you want?" :wtf: I'm like when did I say that? She's like it's your action. however when I call her....she's busy with her start up business, and I'm not the type of dude to be calling some chick every hour. Then she text me "I am hurt", I'm like :wtf: nikka you the one that dumped ME!!!! Then when I text back " can I at least get a reason?" she writes "we'll discuss about it later". :mindblown: I'm like ok, well, you're not talking so you clearly want me to leave you alone, she's like "it's what you want" and then something about "I respected you alot, maybe it's a misunderstanding or something I dont know". wtf kind of woman code is this? wtf is she talking about :wtf: It's like she has something to say, and wont say it. like she heard something (no I have not cheated, but I wouldnt be surprised if a hater lied to her) but cant come out and say it, and I can't defend myself if I get no clues.

I should be hella sad, but this whole episode turned me off so bad, I dont even care, haven't even hit her up. :pachaha: I can't deal with someone that doesn't want to communicate, open your stupid fukking mouth and tell me what is going on.

WHEN she calls, and I know she will, I feel like I should just end it and be like "you know what, I just wanted to let you know I went on a date last night" even tho I didn't, but just so she a) kicks rocks b) realizes she took me for granted.

I think I am going to go on that date, but this wednesday tho. :yeshrug:
 

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That's called shifting the blame. Someone got in her ear or she just seen something and feels like she wants to explore, so she's going to move on from you by shifting the blame to you. "We need to talk", "you don't love me anymore", "I've been so busy"... you know the lines. Ain't no need to trip. When a woman wants space, send her into orbit.
 

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That's not even a big fall, homie had to live! :damn:
 

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She wanna fukk other men?
Maybe. Usually, it means she met one dude who impresses her more than you.
The other reason is you're no longer a Fabio. You are sick and flabby but she would rather say something less hurtful like "I need space" rather than "Get out fatso".
 

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your situation is different than asking for space. If you break up with someone it's final in your mind, and it should be in thier mind as well. But by bringing up space your giving the other person hope that ok time apart and he/she will come back......... when in reality you already left the relationship and you have your eyes set on for the most part someone else. But don't have the courage or you are not at the point of fully emotionally detaching to drop them thangs on them.
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That's called shifting the blame. Someone got in her ear or she just seen something and feels like she wants to explore, so she's going to move on from you by shifting the blame to you. "We need to talk", "you don't love me anymore", "I've been so busy"... you know the lines. Ain't no need to trip. When a woman wants space, send her into orbit.


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