So what does a man do when he is looking for his wife...

[Diondon]

How do you know the marriage-minded ones from the ones who just say they are?

Her actions speak volumes
She won't be content with the relationship not heading nowhere

 

[Taadow]

You don’t. Women do the choosing. Then you just gotta have a woman that’s choosing up that you actually like like that. shyt is a dead mission for men looking for love like girls and shyt. That’s a set up. Gotta live your life and shyt be matching up sometimes. nikkas be trying to force shyt. Being gay and using cognitive dissonance, knowing damn well shorty ain’t the one. We all been there. Don’t do that.

You pursue these hoes but don’t be pursuing love. Then you know how it go, the bytches who be really into you and wanna be on some wifey shyt.

Fascinating.

 

[the bossman]

How do you know the marriage-minded ones from the ones who just say they are?

You let time do its thing and observe

 

[85 East]

How old are you? Just do you. Maybe clean yourself a little bit, but just do you. She'll come. 1 thing I would suggest is just go out and be yourself. Either alone or with a crew, a shorty will gravitate towards you, but you gotta be out there living.

 

[Taadow]

You let time do its thing and observe

How times does one do this before they stop wasting time?

 

[Hoodoo Child]

1) Change your social circle
2) Date and vet

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

Kind of related but I will never forget when my cousin came to kick it for a weekend right after he had his son. He just wanted to get away for a second. We was talking about the bachelor life compared to marriage. I’m giving him the pros and cons from my perspective and he giving me the pros and cons from his perspective. This nikka told me the best way he could describe marriage was that you a full time simp But he love his wife and shyt but at that time, he just needed a break

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Op can you describe the types of females you’ve encountered. I know a butt load of chicks who are marriage minded and dream of walking down the aisle but outnumber men in their areas.

we gotta get to the root of these missed connections.

 

[Taadow]

Her actions speak volumes
She won't be content with the relationship not heading nowhere

But you can be in a relationship and it is “going somewhere”, perhaps even towards marriage...

...and they can decide they like you but don’t want to be married.
Seems like this is happening all the time - or at least, more than I would’ve thought.

Then what?

 

[Hungerpain]

Does the nature of women change from country to country so much that it’s worth going to a whole different country?

Nature no.
Upbringing,morality,Cultural and social influence yes.

Long story short American women aint shyt and you would be a fool to attempt to make a traditional family with one.
The bytches themselves know it and are doing you a favor.
Look elsewhere.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You don’t. Women do the choosing. Then you just gotta have a woman that’s choosing up that you actually like like that. shyt is a dead mission for men looking for love like girls and shyt. That’s a set up. Gotta live your life and shyt be matching up sometimes. nikkas be trying to force shyt. Being gay and using cognitive dissonance, knowing damn well shorty ain’t the one. We all been there. Don’t do that.

You pursue these hoes but don’t be pursuing love. Then you know how it go, the bytches who be really into you and wanna be on some wifey shyt. You don’t be feeling them like that. The ones you be feeling and all infatuated with, them hoes don’t be the one and you know it. Real nikkas accept the game for what it is, and just be in the game getting they stats up. The everlasting cycle of, being on these hoes, and these hoes getting on your mothafukking nerves. And in between you might find the one...or not

Ain't none of these soft lonely dudes gone listen to you. I bet that shyt is a turnoff to women too.

I ain't never fell in love with a woman, they always fall in love with me.

 

[the bossman]

How times does one do this before they stop wasting time?

Different for every man. If it's what you really want it won't take long to attract what you're looking for

 

[Sniper]

Then they’re not the woman for him.

 

[Taadow]

Op can you describe the types of females you’ve encountered.

As mentioned, this is rhetorical and theoretical.
This is a spin from another thread.

 

[jdubnyce]

Never settle...keep looking