So what does a man do when he is looking for his wife...

[Taadow]

Then they’re not the woman for him.

Who says there is a woman for every man?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

As mentioned, this is rhetorical and theoretical.
This is a spin from another thread.

My bad, you did mention that.

So then I guess that’s where I’d start. By asking the single where they are looking and what types they are interacting with.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Op can you describe the types of females you’ve encountered. I know a butt load of chicks who are marriage minded and dream of walking down the aisle but outnumber men in their areas.

we gotta get to the root of these missed connections.

Where you stay at? Are they all fine?

 

[Taadow]

Never settle...

doesn’t everybody “settle”, though?

Honestly, who (even those who find a mate) finds the person who is just what they wanted?

 

[Diondon]

But you can be in a relationship and it is “going somewhere”, perhaps even towards marriage...

...and they can decide they like you but don’t want to be married.
Seems like this is happening all the time - or at least, more than I would’ve thought.

Then what?

So the relationship is going good
then they switch up?
or they just wanna be BF/GF in perpetuity?
In any case, sounds like they are weighing their options
You should too

 

[Sniper]

Who says there is a woman for every man?

Who says there isn’t?

 

[Ziggiy]

All these excuses and bullshyt.


If a man can’t find a woman to marry in 2021 then guess what? HE is the problem.


Hell if a man can’t find at least three women who would legitimately marry him in 2021 then HE is the problem.


This shyt ain’t rocket science. Any man who has a job, is reasonably hygienic, isn’t a creep, and has a modicum of self confidence can find a woman who will be into him. The test isn’t finding a woman to marry, the test is finding the RIGHT woman to marry. And even then there are plenty of dope black women in the world who are marriage material.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

You don’t. Women do the choosing. Then you just gotta have a woman that’s choosing up that you actually like like that. shyt is a dead mission for men looking for love like girls and shyt. That’s a set up. Gotta live your life and shyt be matching up sometimes. nikkas be trying to force shyt. Being gay and using cognitive dissonance, knowing damn well shorty ain’t the one. We all been there. Don’t do that.

You pursue these hoes but don’t be pursuing love. Then you know how it go, the bytches who be really into you and wanna be on some wifey shyt. You don’t be feeling them like that. The ones you be feeling and all infatuated with, them hoes don’t be the one and you know it. Real nikkas accept the game for what it is, and just be in the game getting they stats up. The everlasting cycle of, being on these hoes, and these hoes getting on your mothafukking nerves. And in between you might find the one...or not

well said breh.

 

[King Poetic]

Change his environment

 

[Paper Boi]

just tell us what answer you're fishing for breh

and then do it.

it's your life.

 

[Taadow]

So the relationship is going good
then they switch up?
or they just wanna be BF/GF in perpetuity?
In any case, sounds like they are weighing their options
You should too

It could be either of those

 

[Hollywood Co]

First a man must understand what marriage really is.. a covenant with the creator. Once you pray then bring your request to the Lord, he will hear plea and you will be molded to find, meet and build with your future wife.

Anything relationship that forms outside that covenant is at risk for destruction IMO

 

[Taadow]

Who says there isn’t?

I’ll say that, based on the fact that everybody doesn’t find a mate.

 

[Taadow]

First a man must understand what marriage really is.. a covenant with the creator. Once you pray then bring your request to the Lord, he will hear plea and you will be molded to find, meet and build with your future wife.

Anything relationship that forms outside that covenant is at risk for destruction IMO

This ain’t in The Bible...

 

[seabreeze80]

doesn’t everybody “settle”, though?

Honestly, who (even those who find a mate) finds the person who is just what they wanted?

Everybody doesn't settle. That's something those that settled tell themselves to feel better about their choices