So what does a man do when he is looking for his wife...

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Nobody’s perfect, though...I don’t even think people expect this.

Nobody’s perfect, but a person can be perfect for you.

Every person in a relationship or getting married is somebody’s ex. So what wasn’t perfect for someone else, is perfect to them.
 

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Hey man, people get married hoping it lasts forever. But what are the chances those same people will be married for 50 plus years and die together?

You gotta take a chance, live life and do the best you can with what you have.

I see what you’re saying...but it could be said the chances for that scenario are actually very good,
if those people want to stay together. Therein lies the rub: if a person doesn’t find anyone to stay with them,
what is the best course?

Do they keep staying the course with what hasn’t been working, so they “don’t settle”...
or should they change up their goals?
 

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I don't know what type of women you are looking for, but if you looking to marry a Black woman then I would start in the South. My experiences have been that the mental makeup of Southern Black women is more conducive to marriage. Even if you are into White women then the South is still probably the place to meet marriage minded women. I think that it has something to do with the Bible belt mentality of this region.
 

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I see what you’re saying...but it could be said the chances for that scenario are actually very good,
if those people want to stay together. Therein lies the rub: if a person doesn’t find anyone to stay with them,
what is the best course?

Do they keep staying the course with what hasn’t been working, so they “don’t settle”...
or should they change up their goals?

Maybe it’s the woman one is interested is that’s the issue, they type of woman etc.

Now if a man is in a relationship and all of the woman don’t want to get married, it might be him or the type of women that he’s choosing.

It’s many variables, there’s no one answer.
 

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Let’s throw another skew on the Bar-B:


How many of y’all know women who have been engaged more than once?
 

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But here’s the thing:

you cannot go into a marriage covenant with someone if they don’t want to get married -
which is the point of this thread.

I answered that with what I said earlier. You go to the creator with your requests earnestly and in time you can indeed be the man that a wife wants and needs you to be and vice versa.

If you’re not finding that the women you meet and like are looking for marriage then I have to question where you’re looking.

I had this issue myself before the Lord showed me who my wife was. Forcing the thought of marriage on women that don’t share your views or faith is a waste of time.
 

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I answered that with what I said earlier. You go to the creator with your requests earnestly and in time you can indeed be the man that a wife wants and needs you to be and vice versa.

If you’re not finding that the women you meet and like are looking for marriage then I have to question where you’re looking.

I had this issue myself before the Lord showed me who my wife was. Forcing the thought of marriage on women that don’t share your views or faith is a waste of time.

Fammo - it don’t say anywhere in the Bible to pray for no wife and God will help you get one.
 

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That doesn’t mean they want to be wives, or cuffed by him...

This is the feminine social order of the new age, you’ll have a very very tough time finding a woman that wants to be a wife and actually understands what that actually means in its most purest and traditional sense. At best you’ll find a female “partner” that you bow on a knee and put a ring on. After the wedding most likely on a time clock before you’re ruined.
 
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