So what does a man do when he is looking for his wife...

[Strapped]

You have to have assets op , easy money or a dream to attract females

 

[seabreeze80]

I’ll let you tell it...but every person who I’ve ever heard say “I don’t settle” didn’t have anybody.

You've never been around married couples that didn't settle breh? Change your environment. Everyone didn't settle when they married their spouse. I didn't. I did with the boyfriends before him tho.

 

[BocaRear]

It's not about finding a wife.

You can make any woman a wife.

But look at the staggering divorce rate

Finding a true righteous wife that understands her role and obligations to her family and husband are becoming harder and harder to find.

First thing you need to look for when searching for a wife is her religiosity - marrying a true god fearing traditional woman will eliminate a lot of the problems you have.

Good luck breh, be safe out in Babylon.

 

[Taadow]

You've never been around married couples that didn't settle breh? Change your environment. Everyone didn't settle when they married their spouse. I didn't. I did with the boyfriends before him tho.

So your mate doesn’t have any flaws? Everything with him is cool?

I ain’t buying what you selling,
I don’t believe what you telling.

 

[seabreeze80]

So your mate doesn’t have any flaws? Everything with him is cool?

I ain’t buying what you selling,
I don’t believe what you telling.

Someone having flaws doesn't mean you settled breh. All humans have flaws. If you think you can do better than your spouse that's when you know you settled. I had that feeling with past boyfriends but not in my relationship now.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

You have to find a hoe. Many hoes are just looking for love. Some just ain't shyt.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

You've never been around married couples that didn't settle breh? Change your environment. Everyone didn't settle when they married their spouse. I didn't. I did with the boyfriends before him tho.

everybody settles or they alone.

 

[Gunz&Butta]

Does the nature of women change from country to country so much that it’s worth going to a whole different country?

YES!

 

[Taadow]

Someone having flaws doesn't mean you settled breh. All humans have flaws. If you think you can do better than your spouse that's when you know you settled. I had that feeling with past boyfriends but not in my relationship now.

But that’s exactly what settling means, doe. That’s a legal term.

You and the other party meet to make an agreement -
both sides understand they may not get all the want from the other party in making an agreement,
but they still can make an agreement. That is a “settlement”.
Everybody does that.

 

[seabreeze80]

everybody settles or they alone.

But that’s exactly what settling means, doe. That’s a legal term.

You and the other party meet to make an agreement -
both sides understand they may not get all the want from the other party in making an agreement,
but they still can make an agreement. That is a “settlement”.
Everybody does that.

Nah. If I feel I can do better than him I settled. I don't feel that way in any way shape or form. I did with previous men tho. Not with him. There is a difference. With an ex I knew I wasn't going to get what I wanted and felt cheated. I don't feel that way in my relationship now.

 

[Taadow]

Nah. If I feel I can do better than him I settled. I don't feel that way at all. I did with previous men tho. Not with him. There is a difference.

What it seems like is you don’t know your husband settled for you.

 

[seabreeze80]

What it seems like is you don’t know your husband settled for you.

Nah. What it seems like is you don't understand that compromising and settling are not the same. Everyone tries to find common ground and compromise with their spouse because we all have differences and flaws. Settling is when you know you can do better but won't/can't. Settling is when you want a 7 but settled for a 5 because that is all you could get. Everyone doesn't settle. Couples who fit together and met their match exist.

 

[Geek Nasty]

There are 150 million women in America.

Keep looking

You mean 150 million females

and only 7 million are black and dating age, unless…

 

[HARLEM AL]

nikka Taadow with a potent ass thread.

 

[Taadow]

Nah. What it seems like is you don't understand that compromising and settling are not the same.

But It’s the exact same gottdamn thing, though.