Movie theaters should ban them, but they are afraid more people will stop going.More Cellphones should be banned from places.
People are addicted to these things like crazy.
Movie theaters should ban them, but they are afraid more people will stop going.More Cellphones should be banned from places.


This isn't social media's fault at all, snapchat has just revealed something that's been happening before the existence of social media.
Pre social media, the only way someone who wasn't at a party knew you were there is because of all the post party conversations and depending on the party, being there would increase your social standing among your peer group, e.g. "yeah I saw Matt in the cut getting danced on", this is no different than the getting likes on an IG video, only difference now is that IG is proof that "Matt got danced on by some chick last night".
People in here talking about fun are doing so dishonestly in my opinion, they may even be oblivious to it. "Fun" is a side affect of parties, when you cut through all the bullshyt, the purpose of these parties is to increase ones social ranking or use your present social ranking to receive benefits which may include access to women, sex, and attention, which is another reason why many of these parties are very exclusive, if your social ranking isn't at a certain level, you're literally not wanted at the party, and if you do manage to get in, you're practically shunned by the people with higher social rankings.
Parties are politics under the guise of having fun. Social media is simply a tool that people can use to increase and even artificially inflate their social ranking with the goal of receiving benefits based on that ranking.
The only thing "no-cellphone" parties would do is increase the number of people making pre-party videos. People would literally be snapping seconds before they had to give up their phones and once they did hand them over, they'd spend a lot of the time regretting it because they can't see how many likes, views or DM'S they may have gotten during that period.
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Of course you don't attend parties with a large "urban" crowd
Minimize conflict amirite?
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I'm not deflecting at all because I stand behind my statement 100% and it's because I love Black people.
I'll ask again: tell me what you think of our people and our current collective state in North America.
I disagree that it's presumptuous to suggest people who use to deception to trick women into sex or guilty of some kind of moral depravity, the reason they weren't completely truthful is because they know the truth would greatly reduce the probability of them having sex with the woman. If she later finds out that he lied and continues to have sex with him, that doesn't make the male any less guilty, he's still lied to acquire sex, but she is now complicit because she knows he's in a relationship with someone else and may not care because they've already had sex once.
A woman who wears makeup isn't necessarily doing so for male gaze nor is a woman who wears spanx, a push up bra or a waist trainer. If a male takes a woman home who has on spanx, a push up bra and a waist trainer on, items that can be perceived as deceptive, once it's time to have sex and clothing comes off, all the cards are laid on the table and the male decides from there if he wants to continue and have sex. The same cannot be said for the girlfriend he's hiding because she doesn't suddenly appear when he removes his shirt and pants.
Yes, I have Black people on Instagram at a community event that I was hired to film, it was a constructive Juneteenth event and fights STILL broke out.
here's the event coordinator explaining to the all Black crowd that in spite of the limited resources they have, they are still a community and "this is all we got"
moments later ... a fukking fight breaks out (between Black people)
and here he is discussing it very angrily, and rightfully so.
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i went to a hookah spot in astoria last night and i witnessed it.
it was actually kinda lit, but i saw mad ppl posing for videos blowing smoke and dancing to their camera![]()


