SPIN: How many sexless dates before you move on

[Bumblebreh]

Yea but how long has it been a thing that men are expected to spend money on a woman the very first time he meets her?

Bro, as a man, you make the conscious decision to ask her out. You plan the date and you pay. It is not that deep. You feel entitled to her time and body and yet you cannot even make a simple effort? Come on breh. You are acting like every woman is expecting to be taken out to that salt meme guy restaurant and spending thousands on a first date.

 

[JQ Legend]

Bro, as a man, you make the conscious decision to ask her out. You plan the date and you pay. It is not that deep. You feel entitled to her time and body and yet you cannot even make a simple effort? Come on breh. You are acting like every woman is expecting to be taken out to that salt meme guy restaurant and spending thousands on a first date.

Nowhere in this thread or on this site have I ever said I have a problem taking a woman out

All I said was a man should not be obligated to spend money on a woman the very first time he meets her. A man and woman can get to know each other much better chilling at each others crib than sitting in a restaurant anyway. And just because we at the crib don’t mean we have to have sex. I’ve had plenty women come to my crib and we just chill with no sex right away. A dinner date is a lot better after y’all already got to know each other and established some sort of connection, not 2 complete total strangers meeting for the first time.

And I don’t see a woman giving me her body and/or time as doing me a favor, so no I don’t feel “entitled” to anything. I would much rather a woman don’t share her body or time with me if she feels it’s some sort of reward she’s giving me

 

[BaldingSoHard]

This makes absolutely no sense

Just because a woman made you wait a month don’t mean she ain’t ever give it up right away, she just wasn’t as attracted to u as the dude she gave it up right away to

Either that or she got a long history of giving it up right away and working on projecting a different image of herself to dudes who don’t know her that well

For me, 2 dates max and even that’s pushing it

Or... or....?

She has learned to avoid instant gratification... which is very much a wifelike quality, imo.

 

[JQ Legend]

Or... or....?

She has learned to avoid instant gratification... which is very much a wifelike quality, imo.

In other words she’s fukked dudes right away plenty of times and now wants to be different or at least be seen as different by a particular man

Which is exactly what I said in the post you’re disagreeing with

 

[BrothaZay]

2 if she boring

3 if shes cool

 

[BaldingSoHard]

In other words she’s fukked dudes right away plenty of times and now wants to be different or at least be seen as different by a particular man

Which is exactly what I said in the post you’re disagreeing with

 

[Swahili P'Bitek]

0.5

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

Yall be putting hella work in. Im not going on 4 dates to find out if the p*ssy trash or not just because i know these hoes will and have given it up for less.

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

My take is

1-2 dates: nothing is expected, but if it happens cool
3-6 dates: If she feeling you it'll happen
7+ dates: It’s time to move on

7+

 

[Red11]

2 if she boring

3 if shes cool

This /thread

 

[Mass]

Definitely 4. But usually by 2-3 I’m in there and of course the occasional first link clip. Tbh if they’re feeling you they want to have sex on the first date but some of them don’t want to look like hoes


I was talking to an old flame over the summer and she made her current boyfriend wait a month that wouldn’t be an issue if he didn’t take her out on 2-3 dates A WEEK during that time. Even slept over and didn’t let him hit until she felt “ready” Could never be me.

Never.
Especially knowing that it’s dudes who was in there in way less time. Nope u got the wrong one sis.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Depends on how i view a future with the chick




If she seems like a wifey type

I can wait it out



*if she a cool regular chick I like to be around i let it go awhile and then determine if we gone smash or just better off on some platonic friends shyt



Regardless i have a roster of other hoes I'm already fukking so im not pressed

 

[Luke Cage]

Two, and only if I really liked her.


If she didn't come up off it on the third date...

this

 

[HabitualChiller]

The majority of you nikkas really must not be getting cheeks on even a somewhat consistent basis if 1-2 dates is your maximum.

Edit: or the women that you nikkas fukk with aren't shyt. If you drop a woman over not fukking on the first or second date, then that just tells me that she had no other qualities besides having a p*ssy.

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

I call hookers to cuddle.