SPIN: How many sexless dates before you move on

[Mastamimd]

Two, tops

If she's feeling you it shouldn't take more than that. After the second date I'm moving on

 

[mariahcooper]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

 

[KidJSoul]

if all you want is sex, why not be upfront and skip the dates to begin with

Well yeah of course

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

anyone saying 1st date is wild.. That's what i'd prefer but if she sloppy on her sh-t then i can see she aint about sh-t.

i will bush most women after ive had my fun if they are that easy.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

And that's why yall end up in these terrible situations. Because you try to wife actual hoes

 

[Mastamimd]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

Oh cut the malarkey...women know within a small frame of time whether she wants to have sex with a nikka or not, so two dates is more than enough time for me to figure shyt out and find out whether she's into me or not. Every girl I dated for a while I had sex within two dates, sometimes without a date at all. Sorry but those are my rules

 

[Crude]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

You know fairly quickly whether you’re feeling a man or not. A woman that is really interested would rather move a little to fast than to slow.

If a man is investing time into you, taking you out, and talking to you on the phone/FaceTime and all that shyt you should reasonably know that he’s interested. If you don’t know whether you like him why are you even letting him take you on a date to begin with.



Maybe you just want to court his attention and not necessarily him.

If you don’t have the discernment to be able to evaluate if he sees you as just a fukk or something more then maybe you should look in the mirror and evaluate your vetting strategies along with the image you are putting out there of yourself.

Its very convenient for a woman to use a man for a few nights out on the town, conversation, and putting him in the friend zone too isn’t it?

 

[Paradoxical Tiger]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

Correct me if I’m wrong but, you would make a man wait for an emotional connection, even if you are extremely sexually attracted to him?

Does the connection build faster the more you are attracted to a man?

 

[Dwight Howard]

1

 

[L&HH]

7+?? nikka hell nah. It depends what I want out of her. If she just a joint I’m tryna fukk and not take too serious then no more than 2-3 dates.

 

[mariahcooper]

You know fairly quickly whether you’re feeling a man or not. A woman that is really interested would rather move a little to fast than to slow.

If a man is investing time into you, taking you out, and talking to you on the phone/FaceTime and all that shyt you should reasonably know that he’s interested. If you don’t know whether you like him why are you even letting him take you on a date to begin with.



Maybe you just want to court his attention and not necessarily him.

If you don’t have the discernment to be able to evaluate if he sees you as just a fukk or something more then maybe you should look in the mirror and evaluate your vetting strategies along with the image you are putting out there of yourself.

Its very convenient for a woman to use a man for a few nights out on the town, conversation, and putting him in the friend zone too isn’t it?

Women are at risk for being put in the “sex zone”, basically disregarded and pumped/dumped. Men lose interest fast after a hookup, while women gain feelings after a hookup. I don’t understand the rush for sex. Why is it important for a woman to have sex with a man quickly?

 

[JQ Legend]

Let's settle this: Coffee dates are for Low Effort Dusties & the Pick Me's who date them

I dunno breh, seems like a most if not all people were disagreeing with OP here

I especially like this comment a female made:

“This is all subjective and depends on the woman.

I had a coffee “date” that helped me to see I didn’t want a dinner date with the guy. How people behave on the phone or texting, is much different from how they behave in person. How they present themselves...

Also, I can buy my own food. So, it’s not about getting a meal. So for me, a coffee date, works just fine to help determine if I want more.”

She even put “LSA is not your therapist” as her tagline

To keep it 100 even a coffee date might be too much for a woman u don’t even know. Crazy shyt is chicks like the one in this OP will say it’s cheap but be too cheap to pay for it herself

 

[Koli_Kat]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

Cut the nonsense- Women know and have constantly said they can look at you and in a few seconds know if they want to have sex with you or not.

And men wanting sex is an issue? Where would you find a man that doesn't want to have sex ? Jupiter ?

The time period for having sex and the time period for determining exclusivity is very different. Lol at comparing the two

 

[Koli_Kat]

I dunno breh, seems like a most if not all people were disagreeing with OP here

I especially like this comment a female made:

“This is all subjective and depends on the woman.

I had a coffee “date” that helped me to see I didn’t want a dinner date with the guy. How people behave on the phone or texting, is much different from how they behave in person. How they present themselves...

Also, I can buy my own food. So, it’s not about getting a meal. So for me, a coffee date, works just fine to help determine if I want more.”

She even put “LSA is not your therapist” as her tagline

To keep it 100 even a coffee date might be too much for a woman u don’t even know. Crazy shyt is chicks like the one in this OP will say it’s cheap but be too cheap to pay for it herself

Just saying there's a culture of women out there that don't accept coffee dates . I've see it online and I've run into them on dating apps

 

[semicko82]

if all you want is sex, why not be upfront and skip the dates to begin with

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