SPIN: How many sexless dates before you move on

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When I was single, a potential prospect had about 2-3 dates/hangouts max before I started entertaining my other options for her position.

A lot of ladies play those games of wanting to make you wait while Tyrone and them were blowing their back out the first night.

Play them games with the lames, because I’m not the one.

Exactly . Date around not trying to fukk while ol boy can hit you up whenever to blow your back out without spending a dime.

Take ya dual mating strategy elsewhere
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A date doesn't warrant commitment
If she's a dime worth bagging..I don't stress getting the box
But I'll be sliding in something she doesn't know about

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I think 3-4 is usually where it’s time to evaluate.

like if y’all been flirting, talking about it and you can tell she’s into you etc.

If non of that is happening then it shouldn’t even make it that far.

for me, if the vibe is there, it’s usually 2-3.
 
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Split the dinner bill, ask out the guy/set up the date and restaurant

Some guys are fine with that

But personally, if I still have to pay the bill, set up the restaurant.... and it's been multiple dates with no sex... then how am I not being used? :russ:

It's easy to "build an emotional connection" when some dude is depending money and you're not. And if the connection isn't there? You just got at least 3 free dinner dates. You gained from the transaction, while I'm losing money being strung along. Plus, some chicks do this while fukking other dudes on the side on some "we're not official" time :damn:

Im not accusing you of doing this and hey if that'd what you want then do what you want, (because some dudes don't mind) but I ain't gonna play that game personally

if all you want is sex, why not be upfront and skip the dates to begin with
 
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