SPIN: How many sexless dates before you move on

[Oldschooler]

The game has no rules what are you trying to prove with this question?? The older you get the less patience you have for bs and mind games. In my late 20s i lost patience and started looking for life partner qualities. It wasn't even about p*ssy anymore.

 

[Pool_Shark]

I’m not too caught up on sex. If I like spending time and talking to you I’ll wait. It’s gonna happen eventually.

If our personalities don’t match I’ll just move on.

 

[Tom Foolery]

 

[KidJSoul]

she sees giving him p*ssy as some sort of "treat"....

Once I get that vibe, my attention goes elsewhere because she wants to be in CLEAR control

Exactly

If she truly likes you like that, she wouldn't leverage sex like that

And if you respect yourself as a man, you wouldn't put up with a woman who thinks sex is a reward

 

[jeh]

You can't put a price on her love...
I'm in no rush, after all it's only 24 hours in a day so the more "dates" the more time we spend together and I get to enjoy and value her personality, beauty, and conversation without the want and tension of having sex, after all she is sharing something with me that she doesn't have to share because it's her's and her's alone

 

[KidJSoul]

Some of y’all are so naive with this quality woman wifey talk, even the most chaste of women will give it up expeditiously if you’re pushing all her right buttons and especially if she’s been on a hellacious sexual drought.

Speed of giving up sex with non whore women is 9/10 a function of her attraction levels towards you. She wants to lock you up if you seem like you’re worth a damn and definitely worth more than the other dudes she’s been use to dealing with.

Anyway I give em one date free to think about what they need to think about. I’m gone past that 2nd get together....and by gone I mean she’ll be hitting me up and I won’t be showing no urgency or interest to get back to her.

Thank you

Too many dudes be dumb ass rocks and let themselves get played with their weird misconceptions

Men gotta understand that women can be players out here too, everyone is looking to get theirs

 

[mariahcooper]

I personally don’t like to have sex quickly so that I can properly get to know the person. Sex blurs things. Most women that have sex right away usually regret it, but you men swear you’re the authority on all things women lol. Also if she likes you, she usually will want to wait longer. If she’s looking for a quick fling then she’ll smash faster.

 

[Ain't That Something]

Before I was married, I didn't take a chic out in public unless I had already smashed

Learned that lesson the hard way

 

[KidJSoul]

I personally don’t like to have sex quickly so that I can properly get to know the person. Sex blurs things. Most women that have sex right away usually regret it, but you men swear you’re the authority on all things women lol. Also if she likes you, she usually will want to wait longer. If she’s looking for a quick fling then she’ll smash faster.

I won't speak over you, but that's not what some of us have experienced in real life

Liking is different from attraction btw, if she likes you AND is attracted to you she won't wait, same with if she likes you but isn't turned on, she might not bother

Do you split or take the initiative btw?

 

[mariahcooper]

I won't speak over you, but that's not what some of us have experienced in real life

Liking is different from attraction btw, if she likes you AND is attracted to you she won't wait, same with if she likes you but isn't turned on, she might not bother

Do you split or take the initiative btw?

If I really like and am attracted to the guy I usually wait to build an emotional connection first. What do you mean by split or take initiative?

 

[360dagod]

I personally don’t like to have sex quickly so that I can properly get to know the person. Sex blurs things. Most women that have sex right away usually regret it, but you men swear you’re the authority on all things women lol. Also if she likes you, she usually will want to wait longer. If she’s looking for a quick fling then she’ll smash faster.

Cool..

So you paying for your fair share of dates then?

 

[mariahcooper]

Cool..

So you paying for your fair share of dates then?

lol no and I wouldn’t take a guy seriously if he wanted me to pay. I don’t mind spending money once I’m your woman.

 

[360dagod]

lol no and I wouldn’t take a guy seriously if he wanted me to pay. I don’t mind spending money once I’m your woman.

You have proven our point

 

[Chopper suit n da ghetto]

tree

 

[Xavier]

They know by date 1. They’ll hold up til 2 to not look like a hoe. Til 3 or 4 if they have some manageable baggage. Anything longer than that and you’ll be trying to play her therapist in the relationship anyway.

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