SPIN: How many sexless dates before you move on

[skokiaan]

Before I was married, I didn't take a chic out in public unless I had already smashed

this is the correct answer.

 

[StretfordRed]

As many as is required and how much I like the girl.

But some pure male toxic masculinity is present in this thread.

 

[King Poetic]

3 if it’s a serious relationship u looking at

At least by the second date u should be at least on 3rd base

random hoes u don’t go out

 

[Deman]

None

 

[Kenny West]

Women need to choose better if a woman don't let me smash in 2 dates, I'm moving on.

One is in your control, the other isn't

 

[Marezzy]

3 after that you get the night invite to the crib. You say no to that it’s bushes.

 

[AngryBaby]

Definitely 4. But usually by 2-3 I’m in there and of course the occasional first link clip. Tbh if they’re feeling you they want to have sex on the first date but some of them don’t want to look like hoes


I was talking to an old flame over the summer and she made her current boyfriend wait a month that wouldn’t be an issue if he didn’t take her out on 2-3 dates A WEEK during that time. Even slept over and didn’t let him hit until she felt “ready” Could never be me.

I usually smash quick, and i usually have attractive girls approach; however for the first time in eons, I had a chick really try to pull this on me...she just got out of a relationship apparently but holy shyt, she wouldnt like....smash lol

And she approached me...lol always made comments about my looks. Etc

One time we went to her place and when I went to do the usual initiation moves she retreated to another couch and started asking me about my motives and shyt.

Never smashed before it ended, weird for me. Because I'm not that guy that doesn't know how to...make it happen. Proceed ti smash other chicks immediately after to make up for it, but that girl had me feelin some type of way lol