Spin: Should women go on dates with men they aren’t romantically interested in?

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The problem with the assumption in the first thread was not romantic interest but the expectation of sex.

You can have romantic interest in somebody and have no intention of exchanging fluids with them. And someone paying for dinner does not obligate that. The purpose of dating isn’t to get a free meal or fukk. It’s to get to know somebody.

So yes. A woman should date a man to get to know him romantically and sex doesn’t even need to enter the equation while that is happening. And no, the guy doesn’t/shouldn’t have to break the bank on a date.

But the idea that sex is an automatic expectation after a date is stupid.

Especially since we live in a society that also still slut shames women as less valuable for sexual experiences they may have. But that’s another topic for another time.

 

[Taadow]

Isn’t the point of dating to gauge romantic interest?

No.

 

[Taadow]

No.

 

[Mowgli]

Bum ass bytches do it all the time so they can say they got a free meal

 

[WaveWhisperer]

No

 

[NoirDynosaur]

No. However, a guy with charisma and leadership can finesse a woman to being interested in him. Same with a woman with a fun and positive outlook. Personality is key!

What I learned is that women want a man with traits they lack. If a man lacks confidence and isn't flirty, she's going to reject him. It's all about the energy being transferred.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

This a dumb question. It's a waste of time for both parties.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

NO. UNLESS SHE EXPRESSES THAT UP FRONT.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Don't see why not.​

 

[Bossino]

They shouldn't but most women have boring lives with very little going on outside of male attention. Most women aren't "grinding" or "building" or spending their free time working towards serious goals. So they use casually dates as entertainment basically and for the free validation. And until men hold themselves to a higher standard they'll continue to be used

Monumental facts, you can't convince a broad to desire you either she does or she doesn't

 

[Rawtid]

No.

We don’t agree about anything, ever. It’s so amazing.

 

[The ADD]

Isn’t the point of dating to gauge romantic interest?

Well that’s the issue with a lot of these discussions, everything is black and white.

Looking at it a different way:

• Should women go on dates if they aren’t generally open to it developing into more on some level? No.

 

[acri1]

The problem with the assumption in the first thread was not romantic interest but the expectation of sex.

You can have romantic interest in somebody and have no intention of exchanging fluids with them. And someone paying for dinner does not obligate that. The purpose of dating isn’t to get a free meal or fukk. It’s to get to know somebody.

So yes. A woman should date a man to get to know him romantically and sex doesn’t even need to enter the equation while that is happening. And no, the guy doesn’t/shouldn’t have to break the bank on a date.

But the idea that sex is an automatic expectation after a date is stupid.

Especially since we live in a society that also still slut shames women as less valuable for sexual experiences they may have. But that’s another topic for another time.

That's not the topic of this thread though.The topic is "Should women go on dates with men they aren't romantically interested in", sex wasn't mentioned.


That said if a woman already has decided she's not attracted to a man then she's not really romantically interested anyway. I don't buy that a woman would be romantically interested in someone they're unattracted to.

 

[Rawtid]

Well that’s the issue with a lot of these discussions, everything is black and white.

Looking at it a different way:

• Should women go on dates if they aren’t generally open to it developing into more on some level? No.

How do you know if you’re open if you don’t go on the date? To me that’s the equivalent to saying you don’t like a food and you’ve never tried it. You just looked and decided.

Not that anything is wrong with that, just not how I’ve been taught to go about things. Try it and if you don’t like it’s fine.

 

[acri1]

How do you know if you’re open if you don’t go on the date? To me that’s the equivalent to saying you don’t like a food and you’ve never tried it. You just looked and decided.

Not that anything is wrong with that, just not how I’ve been taught to go about things. Try it and if you don’t like it’s fine.

Again, women know when they meet somebody whether or not they're attracted.

If they aren't attracted to a dude then they never will be for the most part, even if they decide to settle.