SPIN: What are some DealBreakers you have for Friends?

[Critical Distance]

But you're mean....

no im not

 

[Aphrodite]

no im not

You're not sweet.

 

[Raava]

Well that explains a lot

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

- don't insult me on my insecurities
- have similar interests as me
- don't be an a$$hole(it's kinda broad but it means don't steal from me and a whole host of other things that you expect people not to do even to strangers)

- I can't be friends with anyone who takes drugs that make you go psychotic like PCP or Bath salts

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Drama, and that can manifest itself in different ways. I just decided to cut someone off because it was always something. Like, an issue with us she felt a way about something I said or did. It has always felt like more of a relationship than a friendship. I feel like it shouldn't have to be that hard. How many times do we have to have a long drawn out conversation about some issue


Also negative and shady people.

I found myself in the same situation..
If we talk about something once and then you go do the same damn thing again, then cop pleas, I can't anymore..
I loved him like a bro but I'm done...
Held him down longer then i should have..
That's my fault in believing people change for the better..
Also the bum ass bish stays with the lies and redirections..
shyt i feel like calling him up to run my fade..
I should have stayed my ass outta here

 

[BocaRear]

1) unmotivated

2) gossiping about other people

3) can't have deep conversations

 

[Raava]

I found myself in the same situation..
If we talk about something once and then you go do the same damn thing again, then cop pleas, I can't anymore..
I loved him like a bro but I'm done...
Held him down longer then i should have..
That's my fault in believing people change for the better..
Also the bum ass bish stays with the lies and redirections..
shyt i feel like calling him up to run my fade..
I should have stayed my ass outta here

Me either I'm going over situations in my head like I love her but, it times I should have cut her off but didn't.
It was so much stuff dating back to the year I met her. I also felt like I was the only one who was going to tell her the truth and I guess I felt motherly towards her.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Me either I'm going over situations in my head like I love her but, it times I should have cut her off but didn't.
It was so much stuff dating back to the year I met her. I also felt like I was the only one who was going to tell her the truth and I guess I felt motherly towards her.

i feel you..
i stopped talking to him for like five years because i was going through a bad breakup and couldnt deal with his bullshyt..
a mutual acquaintance reconnected us but this shyt has always felt like a one sided friendship..
i dont stay in relationships/friendships long(been hurt alot) so i was trying to change and rediscover our friendship but this figga has been nothing but dead weight..
i cant lie, i enabled some of the behavior because of my sabbatical( i felt guilty for getting my shyt together)..
just tired of him..
i love his sister like my own, so i will miss her but fukk that figga

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Deal breaker for me is when you won't be there for me when I was there or always there for you.

 

[Micron]

Those who don't respect themselves cannot respect others, and people like that are a waste of my time.

 

[Ol’Otis]

I don't have friends.

commit that

 

[RandomDudeOnColi]

commit that

Ok.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

I don't have friends where I live now.
I move too much.
All of my old friends live in the states.
I don't drink or have promiscuous sex anymore, nor do I respect nikkas converting into male feminists to remain in a social group, especially after 30.

 

[Marc Spector]

reading this thread makes me glad that I deaded a very toxic friendship some years ago (of course i see all the bad in retrospect)

shytty thing is that the times I had with those old friends were the defining moments of my 20s. And they were like family to me. So the nostalgia hits hard.

But it was for the best though. The saying that "some people are a reason, a season, and a lifetime" is more real than you will ever know.

 

[Shadow King]

If you a dude don't call me or FT me, text me. And don't be texting me all the fukking time like a thot either. I had this white boy friend that I knew since hs that would always hit me up on some annoying shyt. Like he wanted attention me. And he would just pop up at my house and ring my doorbell without letting me beforehand, I'm like


Don't be an annoying friend basically

Calling ain't a big deal but I don't understand for the life of me why nikkas need to FaceTime each other.