I know its all jokes but on a rather serious note.
Too much time and misdirected energy to hate. And its too much like giving someone power over you in terms of emotions. Which is where about 80% of these 'e-beefs' spawned from. Someone trying to 'play you', you feeling 'played'. You have to know how to filter somethings on this site in particularly the nonsense and the he say/she say, "heard it through the grapevine" rhetoric. Ish is rather childish. That leads to the snowball effect. 50 pages of back & forth that don't amount to a damn thing at the end of the day. Best thing any human being can do is gain mastery of themselves. Even with the back and forths i have had in the past with people (like Gunshi, Nigerian,Big Mel), you have lessons in all of that. Negative or Positive.
I take the initiative that if i have a problem w/ anyone i'll PM them and i feel they should do the same. Or Twitter, for the few people i function with that have my twitter account. That is if you REAL about yours. and by Real im talking real man and woman. Contrary to popular Coli.com belief, im not some boogeyman that you can't talk to. I understand ever cat doesnt have my mindset. Quiet As Kept, i kept certain things from popping off with both males and females as a sort of mediator. I won't expound on that. But it could been some shyt on this site a couple of years ago. Talking real grande. Lucky i rock with both parties.
With me i avoid individuals hypocrites and fake people - hypocritical should be self-explanatory. Just Unloyal people in general. Loyalty is everything IRL.
Fake people ------ thats a entire different thread. I will say this if you allow someone get in your ear ......Which is a factor in the 'beefs' about this or that person and you cant for whatever reason cant think yourself, it applies to you. I say that in regards to something i seen in that thread a couple of weeks ago.