Spin: would you get an abortion if...

[Vice Queen]

It's easy for me to say that I would have the abortion, and that would be my answer. However if I'm extremely far along in my pregnancy, I'm talking late second trimester, third trimester, I might as well go on and deal with it. Even as a hypothetical, too many variables come into play.

 

[DrX]

I don't know ..

Our generation r cowards

 

[DrX]

Exactly, that is one of the biggest things when you have a special needs child. Who else is going to have your patience? You hear about adults being abused all the time. Even at those special needs adult day cares. It's like having the worries you would of an infant for 30, 40, 50+ years. My friends brother died a few years ago, he was in his early 30's and honestly I know it was a relief to his parents. They were getting old and he was heavy and still strong. You should never want to outlive your child. That's horrible.

Aye @Raedawn07 u wanna make a baby?

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Nope.

A lifetime of suffering for both us and the kid? I'll pass. I'll get over it.

 

[scarlxrd]

Abortion. No apologies.

 

[keepemup]

I couldn't do/encourage it. I have family members that are disabled, and despite their life not being what I imagine to be ideal they are still valuable members of their family who's existence I cherish.

On top of that, I think it's better to not shed innocent blood. It's not an easy thing to answer, but if I am trying to adhere to my principles I believe that I can deal with a level head.

 

[Splash]

This is too deep guys

I think I know what I would do though

 

[BujuBoombastic]

Abort. Wouldn't have to think twice about it.

I see now.....

Honestly, if I had a major accident and were on life support, I would probably ask that my family pull the plug.

No...

 

[Detroit Wave]

I would do it.

 

[LurkMoar]

Nope.

A lifetime of suffering for both us and the kid? I'll pass. I'll get over it.

More like a lifetime of inconvenience huh be honest



How would the kid know hes suffering if thats the only way hes lived?But hey im sure he would rather die as well

 

[Steezy]

if karma is real..may god have mercy on our souls

 

[skeetsinternal]

I don't know the little nikka yet so I would go thru with the abortion

 

[BaldingSoHard]

More like a lifetime of inconvenience huh be honest



How would the kid know hes suffering if thats the only way hes lived?But hey im sure he would rather die as well

Of course. Suffering is inconvenient. It's also painful, taxing, and expensive.

And I'm not sure what your 2nd question means. How would a kid born w/o legs know he's suffering? Probably by spending his youth watching other kids run and play. That might be ya know... not great... as an example.

 

[Raava]

Aye @Raedawn07 u wanna make a baby?

so you can change your mind and go off on us?

 

[DrX]

so you can change your mind and go off on us?