Successful Women Are Unhappy That They Have To Date Down

[O.Red]

When a woman marries a queen she becomes a queen consort.

When a man marries a queen he becomes a king consort.

At that point they become a part of the same socioeconomic class.

If a woman making 150k marries a man making 40k they'll be a class down from that same woman marrying a man making 150k and they will have noticeable differences in their lifestyle unlike the terrible king example.

People have the right to choose what they want. If women don't want to class down that's on them. I still don't see why this has y'all nikkas in your feelings.

Who's in their feelings?

I've already said woman can choose whatever path they want, but you can't have everything you want

There's simply no room for all these career minded ambitious women to have what they deem a man on their level. They made a trade

 

[Skooby]

Anybody think that black women have been OPPRESSED by the black men read this book . To many facts that say other wise

I don't see anything...

Edit...nevermind. It's just not showing on Chrome.

 

[O.Red]

And who made these rules?



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Men did

Point of question?

 

[Mr. Glass]

I make 6 Figures, and I would love to deal with females who made more than me. No Cap.

 

[Youseenmywork]

She got her degree and her future husband watched a train get ran on her in college ....now that is support .

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

How much are these women making. I read these threads and watch videos several times. Not once has anybody dropped the figure these women are making.

 

[Cadillac]

I love the fact that women think SUBMITTING means shut and make me a sandwich and if I cheat you just have to deal with ....

some do, but others dont. They know what "submit" means they just don't want to.

for whatever reason that may be.

 

[Cadillac]

Bing-O.

@Booksnrain just made that long and winding post expounding on dudes' point that supposedly women are seeing "The Rub" and their just fine sitting out the marriage game...even though it ain't men that are making these news reports and panel shows about how they need better women etc, so what the fuss?

she just talkin just to be talkin

 

[Youseenmywork]

some do, but others dont. They know what "submit" means they just don't want to.

for whatever reason that may be.

I've talked to a number of black men young and old "submit" to a black male is cooperation and agreeableness .... going 50/50 with a black women a lot of times mean run this relationship how I(the women) think it should be ran ....

 

[#1 pick]

In one thread you guys said you want a woman who offers more than just her looks and brings something to the table but in this thread you guys are saying you don't care about what she brings to the table and only care about her looks.

Men and women are more alike than some of you think.

When I was dating, I care about more than looks and what a woman brought to the table. That said, I think the woman in the video is such a turn-off from a mental standpoint. Like when ya'll see men who say shyt that makes you sick, this is the equalivent.

 

[#1 pick]

Personally, a person that works at Dunkin’ Donuts and has not shown any effort at doing better for themselves is not someone I would want raising my children.

But that’s me.

I rarely see nikkas working at DD, but a nikka who don't got his money right just ain't in the position to marry any women in modern America. This ain't the 60's.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

I don’t care if a woman has 5 degrees from 3 Ivy League schools. If she is an insufferable, narcissistic, complaining bytch on wheels I, as well as any man with dignity and self worth, don’t wanna be around her. I’ll hang with the woman with a high school diploma who is kind, sweet, thoughtful, funny asf, and isn’t afraid to be feminine and leave the masculine energy in the relationship to me.

women are projecting. They see men only as walking ATMs and look at men mostly for what they can do for them financially. Men aren’t like that. Most of us just want a good woman. Someone who we enjoy being around. We can work out the other shyt. But, if I don’t like being around you because of your fukked up attitude and your resting bytch face or your obsession with materialistic shyt or your untrustworthiness, then ain’t shyt to talk about. bytch, you can find the next sucker willing to put up with your shyt. Because it won’t be me.

There’s nothing wrong with being accomplished. But when you use those accomplishments as a weapon and you think those accomplishments give you a lifelong pass to be a pretentious, arrogant c*nt, then bytch. See if those degrees can rub your feet, cuddle with you, listen to your problems and fears after a stressful day, impregnate you, kill that spider, or get up and grab a baseball bat when there’s a bump in the night

 

[bubba scotch]

How much are these women making. I read these threads and watch videos several times. Not once has anybody dropped the figure these women are making.

Bruh they do this every time . The"successful" tag goes to anybody with a degree regardless of income. They can never mention income because it tanks the entire "successful" narrative.

 

[#1 pick]

most men want a woman that respects them and is humble

i don't care about your two degrees, house and career

Can't lie. I cared about your background, degrees, goals, etc. I don't know how brehs say they didn't. This helped cancel out so many bad candidates.

 

[#1 pick]

I made no such inference, what you should have taken from the comment, given the context of the thread, is that women who do choose to seek out partners for marriage will have much higher standards than women that preceded them. This isn't about women not being able to find partners, it's about them not being able to find qualified partners, there's a very clear distinction here.

I know it sucks, but dudes, if you don't qualify, you gotta figure out what you need to do to improve. I remember that stage where I might have qualified on looks but I could never get a serious look because I was making peanuts and women just didn't see me as a viable marriage candidate. I had to realize, I needed to better myself. I don't have an issue with the OP chick complaining. She went to Vandy. I think that's @Gold homegirl. From what I remember of her, she was well accomplished. Why would she want a dusty ass nikka? Why? I know I wouldn't want a dusty ass female.