Suicidal people are so selfish it’s disgusting

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More justification. As long as they don’t have kids or a wife/husband… So parents, siblings, cousins, friends… fukk all them right? :comeon: There’s an immeasurable amount of possibilities by living on, finding yourself, etc. Things you’re way too deep in a slump to even imagine. There’s only outcome with suicide. That shyt is final.

In some cases the person might have tried to seek help but those same family, siblings and friends didn't hear them out. Didn't care until after the permanent decision was made. While in some cases the person just can't be saved regardless of their support system. Every situation is different.

The point is you never know what someone is going through, can't call them weak or pathetic unless you can walk in their shoes. Sure there's possibilities things can get better, but they could also get worse too. shyt, maybe that's the breaking point that makes them call it quits :francis:

I'm not cool with the act but it would be crazy for me to say they should tough it out. Not everyone is built the same and I'm in no place to judge.
 

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nikka are you retarded?

To think someone committing suicide is selfish is a selfish act within itself. You're not considering their pain or mental state.
No, suicide is not considering the pain or mental state you’d put others thru. Y’all are talking as if that the only way and as if people aren’t/wouldn’t be willing to do what they can to prevent something like that.

I think those that feel that way get a little too used to people trying to appeal to their emotions and empathize. They need somebody to get on their ass. That survival instinct and self esteem kicks in. If you’re willing to push back on this kinda input then what’s stopping you from pushing back on your feelings to end it all?
 
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Why would Regina King feel embarrassed, OP? I'd imagine that's low down on her list of emotions right now.

Also, how would you prevent a suicidal person from feeling suicidal? I don't think glibly admonishing them with "yOu bEtTeR gEt oFf tHaT fukk shyt" would work.





I'm just imagining somebody holding a gun to their head crying, about to end it all, and OP is sent in to talk them out of it and all he says is ":damn: you better get off that fukk shyt!!!!!:birdman:"




Person that was about to commit that might seriously pause for a min like :dwillhuh::ld:




:ehh:
 

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We still have this remedial ass opinion on suicide?

Some of these people have severe depression and/or mental health problems that for them the solutions becomes killing themselves.

i met a dude at work whose brother killed himself also. He was schizo and some other shyt. Long story short the voices told him to off himself. It always told him to do it but he never got it right.

sometimes your mind and body are actively fighting you at every turn.
 

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I’m sure this perspective, a rare one at that, makes everyone who’s suicidal or has lost someone to suicide feel better.
:francis:


Ain’t gon lie tho it is pretty fukked up if you go out shooting people up or knocking down a power line or some sht tho.

:manny:
 

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Even at my darkest moments, I never considered suicide. When I was broke and penniless, suffering from a shattered heart, or at a loss for my purpose in this world, not once did the possibility of ending my life cross my thoughts.

I’ll never understand the mindset that drives a person to kill themselves, and I hope I never do.

:francis:
Good for you but people go through much much more serious shyt then the stuff you named...
 

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More negs :blessed: stop hiding and chip in, I promise I won’t call you out.
Fight back and I’ll show you how alive you really are.
 

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I don't understand how folks with KIDS do that ish.

Babies gonna be haunt haunted by that ish rest of they lives!


Possibly blaming themselves...

shyt, if you don't want to be here, at least go out doing some courageous ish... Be a volunteer fireman and run in Burning buildings to help folks or something...

Go out a god damn hero!
 

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Thank you for this thread OP.

I also believe that committing suicide is the most selfish and cowardly way of ending your life.

People that does that do not be thinking of the long time grief that they will cause to their family and other loved ones.

I'm sorry that Regina King lost her son, but was he even thinking about what pain he would cause her before committing suicide?
 

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Think about it. Self preservation is the first law or rule of life. Someone who commits suicide has been going through shyt for so long that doesn't even exist in them anymore. They feel as tho the light has been closed on their life and there is only way out
 

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We still have this remedial ass opinion on suicide?

Some of these people have severe depression and/or mental health problems that for them the solutions becomes killing themselves.

i met a dude at work whose brother killed himself also. He was schizo and some other shyt. Long story short the voices told him to off himself. It always told him to do it but he never got it right.

sometimes your mind and body are actively fighting you at every turn.
This is a good point. OP opinion comes off as if all people who commit suicide are mentally competent
 
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