Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

[Yup]

It's 2014. She could always spend some money, too. Maybe if she isn't willing to spend some money, she does not need to have a man, period.

But who is approaching who when it comes to the dating process?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

OP is 1000 percent correct. I'd never take a female out to dinner unless she's paying for her own food and drinks.

should be 50/50...
get to know each other...

then im not forced to try and smash




but if i gotta pay 100% of the meal
make ur ass laugh

ya im gonna want to smash

 

[Peak]

It's not that, you meet someone for the first time, its not safe for a girl to go to some strangers house. I would save that for later in the relationship.

 

[Turbulent]

This is solid advice, you can only really live this way if you have fukked a lot of women tho or if u have self control because its hard not to adopt a fake personality if u know the girl u dealing with will fall for it.

But once you dun fukked a lot of bytches and are more comfortable with yourself and not pressed for p*ssy like that, then you can relax and be u and that's when you start really working on ur own pace.

Me for example I qualify women now, and I fukk with them if they benefit me, for instance if I have to go get a bytch it's a certain distance I won't exceed etc and other things like that. Even still with my experience and knowledge and all that it still get to a point sometimes where I break a code here and there because the bytch was to easy, or fine to pass up so I can imagine how hard it is for the younger dudes that still coming up will have it to just be their self.

A solution I will offer is have self discipline, if u gun spend, have a limit and don't go over it, that way if it don't workout at least u know u tried.

exactly. i see it the exact same way. even the part where you talk about playing the game a little. no one is 100% perfect and never compromises.

i read this analogy about the matrix. it's like that scene when Neo asks Morpheus if one day he'll be able to dodge bullets. and Morpheus tells him one day he won't even need to dodge them. he'll just stop them. when you really get to know yourself and you just genuinely love yourself more than you love p*ssy it's almost like everything clicks.

shyt just clicks like

 

[Yup]

should be 50/50...
get to know each other...

then im not forced to try and smash




but if i gotta pay 100% of the meal
make ur ass laugh

ya im gonna want to smash

That's backwards thinking...you are not dating her then you want a sex buddy.

 

[mamba]

thats cause men knew that once you drop them off at home..some other nikka wasnt waiting in the parking lot waiting for that 11pm text

"okay im home now...come in"

see back then females were loyal


today


you know how many times i seen a simp drop off a girl, get lame kiss....and some other dude who never spend a dime on her went to her crip and smashed

It's so demonic outchea, breh. As I always say, don't be the nikka paying for something some other nikka is gettin' for free.

 

[Yup]

It's so demonic outchea, breh. As I always say, don't be the nikka paying for something some other nikka is gettin' for free.

If that's how you think about women than good luck finding a wife. I can understand not wasting money but not want to put any effort in tryong to court someone is mind boggling to me.

 

[Turbulent]

You said you don't want to get married right, grt with girls with similar mindsets why complain about girls who do not share you knew did not share your values frim the beginning.

Likewise, don't approach girls who would demand you to court them before getting in their pants. Y'all want to invest the least and want a high return on your investment, thats called bejng a chump.

where am i complaining though?

since the beginning of the thread i've been saying not to date chicks that are not into you and to get to know the chick before you take her out on a date.

 

[mamba]

i'm trying to avoid awkwardness too. he would never hear the end of my mouth if i paid especially if we haven't dated awhile. men are paid more. him paying is fair. plus i know he's going to want me to do all types of traditional things. why should i pay for food, cook AND clean. i like doing none of those things.

You all aren't married yet. Why would he expect you to cook and clean?

 

[mamba]

If that's how you think about women than good luck finding a wife. I can understand not wasting money but not want to put any effort in tryong to court someone is mind boggling to me.

Yes. It goes both ways. Courting is a two-way process, brehette.

It's 2014. The game has changed. Women have to start breaking open those purses.

 

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[Malcolmxxx_23]

That's backwards thinking...you are not dating her then you want a sex buddy.

We want sex...
You guys are after our time

Good trade off

 

[mamba]

But who is approaching who when it comes to the dating process?

Men do 100% of the approaching and 100% of the planning most of the time. If men never approached, most of you women would never get taken out.

You all should at least show a nikka you appreciate the effort by picking up a tab or two.

 

[mamba]

I've had women come chill with me right after leaving a date with another simp ass nikka. I didn't spend a dime. shyt is so demonic now that I think about it, brehs.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Men do 100% of the approaching and 100% of the planning most of the time. If men never approached, most of you women would never get taken out.

You all should at least show a nikka you appreciate the effort by picking up a tab or two.

breh we do everything

they too coward to get what they want..too shook to approach

so a nikka finally pulls up on them

makes all the initial moves
sets the planning
gives her a ride
entertains her
feeds her
takes her home safely


but get clowned when u attempt to smash