Talk Yourself out the Drawls, Thirsty Brehs

kaldurahm

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Definitely happened to me a few years back. It's absolutely an L because you lost all chances but usually the chance woulda been slim anyways just judging off her energy. So in the end, you save time by being a bit forward. Next time though, he should relax a bit
 
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I would've took cozy clothes as sweatpants and a sweatshirt which equals fukking clothes.

Honestly, any clothes is fukking clothes if you're coming over to my place.

Breh was way too horny.

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So basically, he ruined the mood before they could even establish a vibe...

Like most dudes in here said, the thirst did it.

Didn't think of the objectifying nature of it tho, so props for the insight.
Yep! We all guilty of it too b/c people all have agendas when they interacting with the opposite sex.

It’s like going out with a chick and her rolling out a list of interview questions instead of just vibing and getting a feel for somebody.:mjlol: Sometimes just taking a step back and enjoying the ride goes a long way.
 

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So basically, he ruined the mood before they could even establish a vibe...

Like most dudes in here said, the thirst did it.

Didn't think of the objectifying nature of it tho, so props for the insight.
Word of advice : Don't listen to women when it comes to issues about women.
 

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She wasnt on shyt anyway. She thought she was gonna waste dude time, eat his food or just hang out as friends (which is cool). Dude clearly let it be known he was trying to fukk and NOT just hanging out. She wasnt coming there to fukk so she shut it down. I see nothing wrong with how either handled it. Now no one is wasting the other's time and knows what the other is on.
THIS! Once you get to a certain level of experience you realize that there isn't much you can say or do to change a womans already made up mind on whether shes going to fukk you or not. It goes both ways--if she was going to fukk you, there is nothing you can do to fukk it up, sans act crazy. And there is nothing you can do to talk yourself into p*ssy, sans something happening that puts the girl in a vulnerable state where you could have an opportunity. Of course there are exceptions to the rule, especially if you're dealing with a girl looking for something specific, such as a specific type of guy; then you definitely talk yourself out of it
 

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there isn't much you can say or do to change a womans already made up mind on whether shes going to fukk you or not. It goes both ways--if she was going to fukk you, there is nothing you can do to fukk it up, sans act crazy.
people can definitely get turned off. it's basically like when a chick says "he was cute til he opened his mouth"
 

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people can definitely get turned off. it's basically like when a chick says "he was cute til he opened his mouth"
They do, but in this instance this chick was not about to do anything. But for the most part she either is going to fukk you, not fukk you or wait until the time is right (when you're no longer a backup). One must be weary too because of women have skeletons and ghosts and at times will compared you to someone else, many times negatively. Remind them of an ex lover and any little thing you say or do will be scrutinized. Again, in this instance she wasn't going to fukk but was waiting on validation. Typically talking yourself out of p*ssy means she was waiting to validate something and wasn't going to do anything anyhow. Just my opinion.
 
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