The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Arishok]

I never said all black women

You didn't have to

 

[Blackout]

You didn't have to

The nerve of you to accuse me of such c00nery

 

[Gold]

I had no idea about computers when I started and still barely do

It's still impressive regardless

 

[Consigliere]

Do you really believe all that boils down to "black nerds don't try hard enough".

Yeah, for the most part.

They see white women as the path of least resistence and so that's what they pursue.

 

[Neil Tyson]

I"m just going to say this and I'm done.

Before I met my boyfriend, I was dating a black male nerd who gussed over the fact that I was interested in anime, comic books, video games, built my own gaming computer, etc and how he doesn't meet black women who are into that very often. A month later, he's not interested in a relationship so whose fault is that


Another instance, I was dating this black guy who wasn't necessarily a nerd but also wasn't a thug either and he gave me the for a hood chick but I guess that's because I like thugs, oh wait


But believe whatever helps you sleep at night/get through the day. Everyone's experience is different.

It's probably you if it lasted only a month.

 

[Mr. Negative]

What a lot of you guys are missing is that young girls never have the best taste in men. That's youth, not some grand conspiracy against socalled upstanding black men. Kids will be kids. As we get older we should mature but truth is most black are slow to mature with regards to dating. You got men and women in their mid 20s and beyond still chasing media images.

How about you let kids be kids but expect adults to be wiser and made better choices in every aspect of life.

dudes miss that point in these discussions because we're too busy being bitter about not being chosen when we were kids like them. Society really does literally try to program us to chase the wrong kind of people.


I say it all the time. We never figure it out until we think that we're so much damaged goods that the right kind of people don't want us no more.

 

[Claudex]

Nobody in this life is owed anything. You get what you get and you make the best out of it, whether it be using your talents or just enjoying your blessings/laurels.

All men/women must learn this essential aspect of living. Awkward black boys and girls included.

/thread

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

-I'm gonna assume 4150-4350 on stock air. It runs very hot and has a huge TDP

-Nothing wrong with a geforce card unless your cpu is actually an APU. If so, you are missing out on free hybrid crossfire that is probably worth about 2 to 10% performance gains.

-8gb on a quadcore with a system running a 64-bit OS is a serious bottleneck. Double that ram
-Full tower
-1 TB hdd drive should be a secondary data drive, invest in a SSD boot drive

sorry about your PSU.. we've all been there



Breh you can do it on the cheap. I spent a lot on mine but that's cuz I have a spending problem...

I honestly could have spent 1500 less and gotten similar results .

All depends on what you are trying to do really

I don't want to derail this thread tho... I can talk about this shyt forever

Now we're talking!
I had my company buy my gaming rig for my 5-year anniversary.

 

[FSP]

Yeah, for the most part.

They see white women as the path of least resistence and so that's what they pursue.

I don't agree. I think effort itself is pretty subjective. Especially when it comes to dealing with personal issues

 

[CinnaSlim]

I agree, but I think this is expounded upon because even nerds at some point have to go out to that bar, or club or football game or whatever. And usually that 1st experience makes or breaks how they feel they can interact with women for years too come. If as a nerd you go out and literally never can seal the deal or get attention from a woman while the rest can and its because you as a "nerd" enjoy wearing a mario shirt and blue jeans and talking about the last episode of Agents of shield over all.... While everyone is might be in a some kind of name brand tee and jeans and talking about Real house wives or sports.... You get scarred.

Well their problem is that they need to stop comparing themselves to everyone else. That's why they use that seperate mentality as a shield. Just be yourself. Most of the class clowns in school are weird, but they joke around and make people laugh so they're tolerated or known. I just hate self-defeatist attitudes, especially from men, since men are basically defined by action not whining.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Yeah, for the most part.

They see white women as the path of least resistence and so that's what they pursue.

BINGO!!!

 

[Arishok]

It's probably you if it lasted only a month.

Would you say this if I was a black male nerd talking about how a black woman chose a hood dude over me?

 

[Mr. Negative]

The thing is that in our current predicament if we let black men and women be kids in their 20s the black community will fall.

that's another programmed flaw. We're trained to chase trends and ignore time.

It's why you see 40 year olds lying like they're 30 year olds dressing like and chasing 20 year olds while in the club listening to 17 year olds tell them how they should live and making them feel like shyt because they cant.

 

[Gold]

Now we're talking!
I had my company buy my gaming rig for my 5-year anniversary.

word?


I run the NOC where I work and all they would let me take home were a couple of decommed 24' screens


I tried to tell them we on that 4K now but they aint hearing me


Congrats on the 5 Year breh

 

[Queen]

You have to get rid of this 'they don't want me anyway' attitude that you have. I think the aura you give off is the reason for your women troubles. Who wants to be around someone who doesn't have confidence in themselves? Just because they don't like your comic books doesn't mean they won't like you. I have no interest in these PS5 game consoles or whatever the F is out, but I have dated guys who liked that stuff.

A lack of confidence is the issue with most of these complainers. I don't care about most of my husbands interests, and some of them I find to be quite stupid and immature. But I like him as a person. He is not defined by his hobbies, he is more than that. He is also not depressed, bitter, or socially awkward. While we may not connect on the hobby thing, we connect on a much deeper level - values. Our values are the same.

But we never would have gotten that far if he came to me on some "woe is me, no one likes me, I imagine myself to be so superior and I can't relate to black women" BS. Men might not say that, but it seeps through their pores which leads to the

There's nothing I can say about this if an attractive non black woman comes up to you expressing interest when black women aren't then

But this doesn't mean black women are turning you down or chasing thugs, just that they're more reserved and that's black women's fault.

There are always exceptions, but most black women are not going to approach a man, act overly interested, and then offer to suck his dikk within 10 minutes. It's not impossible, but it is not likely to happen. That is not a fault of black women. Just because there are other women who are more likely to behave in this way, it doesn't mean that black women don't like black men or they only want thugs, etc. Nor does it mean that other women love black men so much more. It means that in general black women expect men to initiate, that should not be seen as an issue or a fault.

If a man needs a woman to finesse him with her words and make the first move, then I agree, he will be waiting a long time for a black woman. But be careful, because the good book of Proverbs warns us about women whose words drip with mental seduction but they actually lead you to death.