The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[LadySimone]

It's obviously a different issue than that if you admit people well into their adulthood are doing the same thing

But it's across genders. I'm not choosing the same men I did when I was 19. Too many black people are.

 

[Neuromancer]

Question who controls the sexual market place?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

There are brehs in here that do that, that still believe that the issue has to be addressed. It's like enabling white supremacy, but with current gender wars.

Nobody said that a man shouldn't work out and do their best to improve themselves, just that when we do, we have the right to call out the bullshyt, from both men and women.

Just cause you off of hoes in dysfunction, doesn't mean that you can stay in silence and let this shyt continue...unless you want it to be like it for more sinister purposes.

You're a miserable ass nikka

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

That is what it all balls down to. Blame yourself, but I see it's easier to blame women. Some of y'all are insecure. I don't even know you all personally, but I notice from some of you all posts, that some of you lack confidence. I can name a few, but I ain't going to go into all of that.

You basically just ignored the bigger picture because you're too hard headed and stubborn to hear the truth. I'm not going to go in circles with you continue to contribute nothing to the black community but defend faulty practices for vain reasons and watch it dwindle to nothing.

 

[Wild self]

I really, REALLY hate these extremes of describing black people.
As if you can only be some awkward, introverted nerdy sycophant or a raging,
emotionally abusive thug.

It's VERY problematic to describe and look at black people in this way.

I hate those extreme labels too. But we got far too many people with social power labeling people one of 2 categories. And it's been going on for the last few decades.

Most black folk are in the middle, but only one small portion eats. Like capitalism where the majority suffer and a few wealthy people have and control everything.

 

[Gold]

Question who controls the sexual market place?

Women, we agree there.... but you also have some control of your destiny.

 

[Luck]

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I already know what this thread devolved into so I'm not reading any of this shyt.

If you're an "awkward" male you deserve to get what you get blaming other people for your inadequacies is some straight bytch made shyt. Nobody should choose a person that can't even understand basic communication skills

c00n it out with the popped white chick or get the "ran through" black chick. You should be happy you're getting that option.

Meanwhile men that keep themselves together, open their mouth and socialize normally but we'll label those guys thugs

 

[Insensitive]

1. The bad boy became the in style during the mid to late 90's. I hate when people act like the 90's was one year.
   
2. As someone who is far from a thug, conservative demeanor, reserved attitude irl, good grades but not a nerd I never had a problem with women. Then again I'm not ugly. I'm not a male supermodel dime (pause) but I'm not Flava Flav either. So I guess life balances things out. Besides that the girls that like only bad boys were never my type. I like a more balanced and sensible female who was raised with a strong and active father or at least a strong and active father figure in her life.
   
3. This woman has major issues ... I don't even need to say more ...

"Bad boys" have always been "in style" James fukking Dean starred in this movie
in the 1950's.

Guess who had young women collectively losing their shyt ?

Rockstars ?
Rap stars ?
etc.
All of these guys epitomize "Bad boys" who engage in risque behavior, the problem
is people don't literally like "Bad boys" very rarely are women turned on by violent or
just generally evil people.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

You can't deny that bw more times than not chose the most unreliable bm to procreate with.

What does that have to do with "nerds/lames" gettin or not gettin p*ssy from black women?

 

[Neuromancer]

Women, we agree there.... but you also have some control of your destiny.

Of course destiny is to be laid out. Again I do not think men should be focusing on what women think of them and start carving out the road on their own.

 

[Wild self]

You're a miserable ass nikka

Nah, you running with labels and propaganda. I ain't miserable. I never said anything about a woman crushing my confidence (which ain't true), and I never said anything about me being lonely.

I just said that people who benefit from it are negligent because they right now, similar to all non black groups in white supremacy, but in the dating scene.

 

[marcuz]

breh dude could revive the role

 

[Neuromancer]

Nah, you running with labels and propaganda. I ain't miserable. I never said anything about a woman crushing my confidence (which ain't true), and I never said anything about me being lonely.

I just said that people who benefit from it are negligent because they right now, similar to all non black groups in white supremacy, but in the dating scene.

I feel you.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

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I already know what this thread devolved into so I'm not reading any of this shyt.

If you're an "awkward" male you deserve to get what you get blaming other people for your inadequacies is some straight bytch made shyt. Nobody should choose a person that can't even understand basic communication skills

c00n it out with the popped white chick or get the "ran through" black chick. You should be happy you're getting that option.

Meanwhile men that keep themselves together, open their mouth and socialize normally but we'll label those guys thugs

you summed it all up breh

But you forgot to add that the awkward black male is a victim in all this becuz society has shunned him

Those poor black nerds cant catch a break

 

[VFib]

Ok, what are your real hobbies? What kind of man makes you at every turn? Be honest.

And answer the rest of that post, for the sake of your intelligence.

You really seem to think that I give a rat's ass about you or what you think. I don't exist to impress your whiny, complaining ass. YOU are the one with the dating issues and needs help. YOU tell ME what your hobbies are and maybe someone here can help you. Oh no wait, you are tall and light skinned, so that's enough.

As far as the bold, that's none of your damn business.