I'm constantly at home or at work listening to shyt some people I know wouldn't bump because of some weird overly-masculine fear of femininity.
I remember when I was 15 there was this girl I liked (she was fine as shyt, had really dope taste in music, too). She asked me if I had ever heard D'Angelo's
Voodoo since it was before both of our times. I said something like "Nah, I don't listen to R&B and singing and shyt" thinking I was being cool.
Swear to God, she squinted her eyes like

and quietly asked me "Are you a virgin?" but it wasn't like she was clownin' me, she seemed hurt or something

. Of course I lied.
Couple years later (after I had heard it, and after I'd been fukkin'

) I was like "Yo... 'member you put me on to D'Angelo. Finally heard it, it's dope" and she just looked at me like

and was like "Really? OK.... word... good for you"
Thinkin' back on those days what I know now that I didn't know then was I was 45 minutes worth of D'Angelo away from gettin' those drawers