Keep your presentation together. Your weight/actual looks aren't as important. Keep your hair cut, stay groomed, dress presentable. If you have poor skin, start drinking more water. Try getting a facial. Go to a spa.
If it's your weight, there's women who specifically only like big guys. The downfall is this can be a fetish and if you lose weight, they wont attracted to you anymore.
Everyone has issues with relationships. What's the gain of attracting hella people if you can't keep them? That's a problem that attractive people (physically) deal with ALL the time, sometimes their entire lives. They bounce around and try to fill out voids from actual people they loved.
Even if you looked like Idris Elba or Pac, there will still be issues with your relationships.
This is so much deeper than looks.
Your looks that you feel you lack may be intervening and preventing you from meeting/interacting with ain't shyt people. It's a filter.
Look at my situation....
I look good and always have. I can attract men and women. But not everyone will immediately gravitate to me when I tell them my situation. They would usually have to deal with my personality and love it to be more attracted after the confusion or disgust, if it's not their acquired preference. It filters out people who ain't right for me.
We're dealing with souls communicating here.
We can all deteriorate from an illness and lose our looks. Then what do we have? A soul.
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), is identifying the problem!
