Its really harder for dudes to deal with than alot of people really give mention too, like when we like a woman the whole game changes. Especially if its a good woman and we feel feels.Why people run from connecting with someone these days? I've met some amazing guys, everything on point, personality is real but getting past their defenses has been like trying to dig ur way to Antarctica.
Breaking thru to try to get them to be themselves or let people see who they really are is taboo.
Literally been getting hit with the "u a good chick, u don't want these problems" line.
Or have had dudes literally come out and tell me they don't trust me. Lmao! I'm an open book!
Alot of dudes can keep a guard up love there chick and work around that but usually those are the same men that find it easier to cheat too.
When a man finds a good woman who is open and honest its like "whats the catch" the small thing become bigger things.
I literally just told my girl today I was feeling
simply because everything is to good between us and life.She was like
"I understand"
"We are going to be just fine"

As a man when you really care for a woman or can see yourself getting attached it spooks us. Any man worth his salt in any meaningful relationship has felt this. Its one thing to really like a chick and just be sexually attracted to them....but once feelings get invested

Most dudes aren't trying to mess over a woman they consider a good woman by there standards. So we exit early or get spooked later on.
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what kinda weak bytch gets peed on


" and things were quiet for a few months. Now, she's back at it again, got a new number, wanting to hang out, and I'm still weary because of everything, and while I've been very nicely avoiding her, she's really starting to get to me. I'm losing my patience with this whole situation. 