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Why people run from connecting with someone these days? I've met some amazing guys, everything on point, personality is real but getting past their defenses has been like trying to dig ur way to Antarctica.
Breaking thru to try to get them to be themselves or let people see who they really are is taboo.
Literally been getting hit with the "u a good chick, u don't want these problems" line.
Or have had dudes literally come out and tell me they don't trust me. Lmao! I'm an open book!
Its really harder for dudes to deal with than alot of people really give mention too, like when we like a woman the whole game changes. Especially if its a good woman and we feel feels.

Alot of dudes can keep a guard up love there chick and work around that but usually those are the same men that find it easier to cheat too.


When a man finds a good woman who is open and honest its like "whats the catch" the small thing become bigger things.



I literally just told my girl today I was feeling :hamster: simply because everything is to good between us and life.


She was like :ehh: :yeshrug: "I understand":mjlol:


"We are going to be just fine"



:mjgrin:





As a man when you really care for a woman or can see yourself getting attached it spooks us. Any man worth his salt in any meaningful relationship has felt this. Its one thing to really like a chick and just be sexually attracted to them....but once feelings get invested :wow:


Most dudes aren't trying to mess over a woman they consider a good woman by there standards. So we exit early or get spooked later on.
 
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Why people run from connecting with someone these days? I've met some amazing guys, everything on point, personality is real but getting past their defenses has been like trying to dig ur way to Antarctica.
Breaking thru to try to get them to be themselves or let people see who they really are is taboo.
Literally been getting hit with the "u a good chick, u don't want these problems" line.
Or have had dudes literally come out and tell me they don't trust me. Lmao! I'm an open book!
Why wouldn't they trust you? Are you shady :wtb:
 

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Cum popsicles

Period cookies

Whoever negs @Prima Donna I will rep, sweater God
:dahell:
Yall was really talkin about water sports and period blood food last night

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Glad I logged off when I did. Good morning :mjlol:
Wait what? :skip:
I'm glad I went to sleep too because I would been on
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I'm in this situation right now. It's probably best that I take you all back to the beginning. I had a female friend whom I used to be close with a long time ago, and then in 2013, she basically got this boyfriend and quit talking to everybody including myself, etc. etc. In that time period - she got addicted to drugs, got pregnant, had a kid, borrowed money and pestered all of her friends until they dropped her, realized her boyfriend was a drug addicted/abusive piece of shyt, and finally dropped him. For awhile late last year, she tried every which way to hit me up for money and I knew what was up so I would always tell her no. Finally, she quit and I was like "Better to be a loner than deal with that bullshyt. :blessed:" and things were quiet for a few months. Now, she's back at it again, got a new number, wanting to hang out, and I'm still weary because of everything, and while I've been very nicely avoiding her, she's really starting to get to me. I'm losing my patience with this whole situation. :skip:
 

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I'm in this situation right now. It's probably best that I take you all back to the beginning. I had a female friend whom I used to be close with a long time ago, and then in 2013, she basically got this boyfriend and quit talking to everybody including myself, etc. etc. In that time period - she got addicted to drugs, got pregnant, had a kid, borrowed money and pestered all of her friends until they dropped her, realized her boyfriend was a drug addicted/abusive piece of shyt, and finally dropped him. For awhile late last year, she tried every which way to hit me up for money and I knew what was up so I would always tell her no. Finally, she quit and I was like "Better to be a loner than deal with that bullshyt. :blessed:" and things were quiet for a few months. Now, she's back at it again, got a new number, wanting to hang out, and I'm still weary because of everything, and while I've been very nicely avoiding her, she's really starting to get to me. I'm losing my patience with this whole situation. :skip:

You sound weak, so you might as well let her take advantage of you.
 

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I really really really really love @Ahyurea
Yall don't even know, I cant even think of enough words to fully describe how much I do. One of the kindest souls I've ever come across. I would do anything for her. Her light overwhelms my darkness. :wow:

@Prynce is a young GOAT for real. So much ambition and drive that its almost infectious. Not even an exaggeration to say he has a heart of gold. Definitely the nicest person Ive talked to on here. Very self aware, very wise and very inspirational. :wow:

@Prima Donna is an amazing person. Like I know she sometimes antagonizes some people on here for fun but she has such a big heart for people. So understanding and open-minded. She has so much to offer to this world. The type of person that only comes around once a millennium. Once you get to know her, you would never forget her. A true goddess(albeit demonic) in every sense of the word. I love that woman :wow:

@Coco has a lot of wants, dreams, and desires. She deserves all of them. She has a lot of love to give and deserves it back equally, if not more. So much potential that it worries me that no one else sees it. A flower just waiting to blossom. :wow:

Yall all have helped me and given me advice. Whether you know it or not, I appreciate yall. :mjcry:
 

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I'm in this situation right now. It's probably best that I take you all back to the beginning. I had a female friend whom I used to be close with a long time ago, and then in 2013, she basically got this boyfriend and quit talking to everybody including myself, etc. etc. In that time period - she got addicted to drugs, got pregnant, had a kid, borrowed money and pestered all of her friends until they dropped her, realized her boyfriend was a drug addicted/abusive piece of shyt, and finally dropped him. For awhile late last year, she tried every which way to hit me up for money and I knew what was up so I would always tell her no. Finally, she quit and I was like "Better to be a loner than deal with that bullshyt. :blessed:" and things were quiet for a few months. Now, she's back at it again, got a new number, wanting to hang out, and I'm still weary because of everything, and while I've been very nicely avoiding her, she's really starting to get to me. I'm losing my patience with this whole situation. :skip:
Just ignore her breh. Block that new number. She choose to act brand new with her baby daddy, so that's her problem to deal with it. That's why I surround myself with people who tell me if I do wrong, I'm wrong or I tell em the same. That's what friends are really about. We not just because we hanging out and with somebody to get attention from, but to make sure your OK, and to warn you of things you may of missed seeing they that saw quicker that may be bad for you. It's tough sometimes tho because they might take it as you hating on them or you don't wanna "share" with anybody else.
 

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I really really really really love @Ahyurea
Yall don't even know, I cant even think of enough words to fully describe how much I do. One of the kindest souls I've ever come across. I would do anything for her. Her light overwhelms my darkness. :wow:

@Prynce is a young GOAT for real. So much ambition and drive that its almost infectious. Not even an exaggeration to say he has a heart of gold. Definitely the nicest person Ive talked to on here. Very self aware, very wise and very inspirational. :wow:

@Prima Donna is an amazing person. Like I know she sometimes antagonizes some people on here for fun but she has such a big heart for people. So understanding and open-minded. She has so much to offer to this world. The type of person that only comes around once a millennium. Once you get to know her, you would never forget her. A true goddess(albeit demonic) in every sense of the word. I love that woman :wow:

@Coco has a lot of wants, dreams, and desires. She deserves all of them. She has a lot of love to give and deserves it back equally, if not more. So much potential that it worries me that no one else sees it. A flower just waiting to blossom. :wow:

Yall all have helped me and given me advice. Whether you know it or not, I appreciate yall. :mjcry:
Stop....What has you like this?
 
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