The rise of OPEN RELATIONSHIPS [a HOT TOPIC] [Is the movement that will TAKE OVER 2016?!?]

[patscorpio]

couldn't do it....not for me

 

[Diondon]

FOH with this cac shyt
nikkas signing up to be cuckolds
While your wife get banged out by a line of dudes
You're struggling to seal the deal

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Open relationships sound like a waste of time and takes away much of the purpose of being in a relationship in my opinion. Some of these people probably gave up on the opposite sex being faithful and are settling for whatever. I'm sure some will break eventually.

 

[Dzali OG]

I'm married and there's times we open our marriage...

How long do you against it think monogamy have been the norm? It's a lie from the inception and the ultimate conceit.

I mean the BALLS of anyone to actually think they can fulfill someone's everything. Now you can lie to yourself and state it's possible but no.

Surprising thing is we commonly think women were the strongest advocates for monogamy. I'm thinking more than likely it were men. Men who couldn't bear to think of another pipe sliding in their woman.

Love is about so much more. You don't know what love is until you can share that person. Love goes beyond sex. It sounds strange to most of us because of our programming but it's true.

A lot of it stems from the incorrect dogma that a woman loves whoever is sliding in her. That women don't enjoy sex. That a woman can't fukk someone and tell them to gtfoh. Social engineering by men to keep women from playing their full hand.

 

[Strawberry]

*secretly having a sidechick / sideguy / person on the bench does not constitute as an open relationship

As many of you know, we have several posters on thecoli (who will be tagged below) who are currently in open relationships. I myself noticed that significantly more people are more open to the idea nowadays and some people who call themselves 'poly-amorous' will only function in open relationships. In my city they damn near constitute as the majority of females in my age bracket. Where do you reside? Are you for/against it? What are your experiences with them?

@[B]Strawberry[/B]

I can't be the only one...

I haven't always been in open relationships, in fact I used to hate the idea of them (without ever having experienced what it's like to be in one. I just thought "I hate the idea of sharing, I would be too jealous, I couldn't deal with the person I love fukkin other people" etc).

Then I found myself in a situation where the only thing that made sense was being in an open relationship due to the circumstances between my man and I. Our relationship would never have lasted if we were in a closed relationship.

This may sound crazy to you if you're against the idea of open relationships but remember that you don't know all the details & circumstances. Every human being is different and every relationship is different.

What works for you will not work for everyone and vice versa.

There's a movie by Woody Allen called Whatever Works featuring the homie LD

It's about doing whatever works for you/your situation.

Open relationships aren't for everyone.

And just because I'm in an open relationship doesn't necessarily mean I will be in one for the rest of my life.

You never know what will happen. All I know is that I'll always choose to do whatever works best in whichever situation I find myself in.

My adaptation skills are on point.

I just recently met a woman in an open relationship.

I think about it at times.

I talk to @malcolmxxx_45 & you wanna start talkin to @malcolmxxx_45



I'm in an open relationship & now suddenly you want to be in an open relationship




*throws dirty laundry at you*

You are not in committals or a relationship if it is open.
You are just mating.
When real talk it is a bout mating first, anyway.
You have to be with a woman who satiates your libido and then,...
you can fill in the social interaction and match principals.
To one day create a committal based relationship with that woman.
The old days of courtship without full intercourse and intimacy is dead and it should have died.
When, condom use was wide spread marketed as birth control during the aids epidemic.
The only problem with this Gen is.
They are spoiled and feasting on gains made by previous generations in the male/female dating dialectic.
That they don't understand the concept of BC.
All because unprotected sex was made as a thrill seeking component in the birth control or else days of the aids epidemic.
So, now after a Gen removed who practiced safe sex.
You run into the same issues as previous gems who did not practice safe sex.
Plus, women and men do not understand virtue in this day and age.
So, slippery slope for fukkery is vast.


Art Barr

You don't know shyt about open relationships, grandpa

FOH

are you in a current relationship?

That ugly bytch can't hold a man.

Her attitude is so negative and terrible...how could any sane man want to be around that for extended period of time?

bytch gonna die lonely.

I wouldn't all any of them that.

THOT ALERT!

You always try to call me dirty/filthy/slutty etc and look at you runnin with multiple partners like a goddamn hypocrite.



You're pathetic, for real.

You may see a rise of "open relationships " in 2016 because people
Want to seem cool or edgy or maybe follow the "can't beat em, join em"
School of thought
It still won't be widespread and I think for most it will be a very short term arrangement.


Most people truly don't have it in them to successfully navigate that type or relationship,
Then to bring 2 or more other people into play and want them to be on the same page?

I disagree.

My situation has absolutely nothing to do with being trendy or cool or "If you can't beat em, join em".

An open relationship was pretty much the only option we have to keep our relationship going through long distance circumstances, otherwise we'd just be cheating like crazy cuz we both love having sex.

It's not for everyone but it works for us.

i want other women tbh but the thought of my girl gettin pounded by another dude would kill me
i thought about it tbh

This is exactly why open relationships aren't for everyone: jealousy/feelings.

Alot of women can't handle FWB relationships after a little while, so there's few who would actually go for open relationships without drama

If you're a guy going for this type of bullshyt, the ghost of your forefathers need to kill you in your sleep


1 simple relationship is so much more easy and manageable. I understand that now. Unplanned pregnancy and the sheen are in the cut outchea

For you, maybe.

Remember that everyone's situations/needs/desires are different

I think they may become a trend the same way that homosexuality has become a trend. People simply wanting to ride a wave that they are not really into but want to be associated with for a plethora of reasons. Like Glory Johnson type sh#t....gay until the realities of that lifestyle start to mount up.

I don't believe most people can deal with being in open relationships. It sounds fun in concepts and even more fun when you're thinking of your end. You having the freedom to meet, date and have sex with someone(s) new here and there. Being able to be open about your desires and having the ability to act on them while still maintaining your relationship at home. Seemingly free from guilt and repercussion.

But, if you can do that, that means your partner can do the same. Your partner has the freedom to meet, date and have sex with someone(s) new here and there. Your partner is open about their desires to have sex with someone else this weekend and still expects you to be there when they get back.

Dudes might love the idea of being able to meet a chick at a bar and take her home. No strings attached, no lying and no guilt when they get home. But what about when their chick is the one getting picked up at the bar, getting dug out and coming back home with rearranged uterus while he's watching Sportscenter.

And chicks might like the idea of more than one man to please her. But what about her husband coming home with the smell of another woman's perfume protruding from his crotch area while she lays in bed pretending to be asleep.

It's all good until it actually happens.

Peace

Not all open relationships are the same.

For example, when I'm with my man, we're 100% together & the relationship is more or less closed but when we're separated by distance we open that shyt up.

That's what works best for us.

We're on the same page and very open with each other and it's awesome.

FOH with this cac shyt
nikkas signing up to be cuckolds
While your wife get banged out by a line of dudes
You're struggling to seal the deal

You can't say that because everybody's situation is different.

You have your own opinion of what an ideal relationship should be but that doesn't mean that everyone else has to agree with you. Everybody's different.

Open relationships sound like a waste of time and takes away much of the purpose of being in a relationship in my opinion. Some of these people probably gave up on the opposite sex being faithful and are settling for whatever. I'm sure some will break eventually.

Having freedom = waste of time?

You haven't lived!



It's not about settling for whatever, it about doing whatever works

 

[Richard Wright]

So STDs will be on the rise ? Noted

 

[ORDER_66]

Nah cause then when she get pregnant and dont know who the father is you gonna end up on maury. i'm like Nah...

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

That shyt ain't for me.

 

[Strawberry]

So STDs will be on the rise ? Noted

Being in an open relationship does not mean you fukk 500 different people raw.

Wearing condoms and being smart/safe are important...for everybody, not just people in open relationships.



@Vice Queen Thanks for the neg, looks like a really hit a nerve there.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

cuckold shyt

 

[Richard Wright]

Being in an open relationship does not mean you fukk 500 different people raw.

Wearing condoms and being smart/safe are important...for everybody, not just people in open relationships.

Stds are on the rise , period. Im not dating right now anyway, but the bolded is totally true.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Having freedom = waste of time?

You haven't lived!



It's not about settling for whatever, it about doing whatever works

My statements don't apply to you or others who like this lifestyle. It's towards people who want serious relationships and don't really want to share their partner but have convinced themselves to do so. Live your life how you want. It doesn't affect me either way.

 

[mcdivit85]

Not all open relationships are the same.

For example, when I'm with my man, we're 100% together & the relationship is more or less closed but when we're separated by distance we open that shyt up.

That's what works best for us.

We're on the same page and very open with each other and it's awesome.

Ok, sounds to me like a "when you here, we kick it with each other. And when you're back home, you do what you do." Well, if that's what it is, then I know alot of people in open relationships. "When I'm in Detroit, we smash and kick it" type sh#t.

I guess it would depend how long distance and how often you see each other. If you see each other every few months or a couple times a year, then I can see it. But if that's the case, you might as well end it and just mess around whenever the other's in town.

If you see each other every weekend, then yall two just want to f#ck other people period.

So, when your dude is in town, you stop smashing other dudes? You just turn it off when his plane touches down?

Peace

 

[Strawberry]

cuckold shyt

Close minded

My statements don't apply to you or others who like this lifestyle. It's towards people who want serious relationships and don't really want to share their partner but have convinced themselves to do so. Live your life how you want. It doesn't affect me either way.

It was not clear to me that you were only directing your post to a particular audience.

I do live my life how I want, I always have.

Who are you again and why would you think that I think that the decisions I make in my life would affect you in any way?

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Close minded



It was not clear to me that you were only directing your post to a particular audience.

I do live my life how I want, I always have.

Who are you again and why would you think that I think that the decisions I make in my life would affect you in any way?

This is going nowhere, peace