The rise of OPEN RELATIONSHIPS [a HOT TOPIC] [Is the movement that will TAKE OVER 2016?!?]

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why any man would agree is beyond me unless they don't care about stds or getting another person's baby pinned on them
 

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Ok, sounds to me like a "when you here, we kick it with each other. And when you're back home, you do what you do." Well, if that's what it is, then I know alot of people in open relationships. "When I'm in Detroit, we smash and kick it" type sh#t.

I guess it would depend how long distance and how often you see each other. If you see each other every few months or a couple times a year, then I can see it. But if that's the case, you might as well end it and just mess around whenever the other's in town.

If you see each other every weekend, then yall two just want to f#ck other people period.

So, when your dude is in town, you stop smashing other dudes? You just turn it off when his plane touches down? :jbhmm:

Peace

You're makin it sound like he is just a bro in another area code when in fact he's one of the only men I've ever seriously considered having a baby with.

I don't wanna have babies with just anyone and I'm definitely not tryin to have kids with fukk friends.

This guy is my #1. No next man can come along and replace him.

Our connection is deep and spiritual. Our souls have an infinitely strong bond. So strong that I know that if he died before me he'd be waiting for me on the other side.

The main reason why we fukk other people is cuz we both love sex and couldn't possibly abstain from it while we're apart for such long period of time.

We both recognize that we're human, we love to fukk, and we need sex.

If we didn't agree to an open relationship we'd just be cheating & lying all the time and what good would that do for our relationship? None. It would destroy us completely.

Relationships are built on trust, so we choose to be honest and open and it works wonderfully for us.

Although we're physically apart, we stay in touch year round with voice & video calls. We love and care about each other year round, not just while we're together.

And yes I can "turn it off" and behave.
If we were together right now, I wouldn't even be thinkin of other guys.

This is going nowhere, peace :camby:

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:ucku:

:manny:

Your choice to be close minded will limit your experience here on Earth.

(I'm speaking generally, not just in reference to open relationships)

Whatever though, do you.
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So is an open relationship just about fukking other people? Because thats the main reason i hear when this discussion arises. I never here a discussion on family dynamics, how they'll be perceived by society, love, future goals plans, nothing. Just having the ability to have sex with others. It's not for me and like someone else said i'd rather be alone.


this is all about mating.
you have to know how to mate and be successful with a mate of the opposite sex.
to create the ability to lead to a long term committed relationship.

we are past the point in society.
where you need to have an ever lasting dying human connection with the opposite sex to mate with one another.

the problem, is white men being soft john's and creating a virtue damning system of interaction between male and female.
of which we are all a prisoner to in a white man's world.
white men still by tradition are playing the john provider role.
even though, they actually passed laws.
that eliminate the provider role, they continue to perpetrate via traditionalism to society members who are not in power.


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So is an open relationship just about fukking other people? Because thats the main reason i hear when this discussion arises. I never here a discussion on family dynamics, how they'll be perceived by society, love, future goals plans, nothing. Just having the ability to have sex with others. It's not for me and like someone else said i'd rather be alone.


this is all about mating.
you have to know how to mate and be successful with a mate of the opposite sex.
to create the ability to lead to a long term committed relationship.

we are past the point in society.
where you need to have an ever lasting dying human connection with the opposite sex to mate with one another.

the problem, is white men being soft john's and creating a virtue damning system of interaction between male and female.
of which we are all a prisoner to in a white man's world.
white men still by tradition are playing the john provider role.
even though, they actually passed laws that eliminate being a provider.
they still champion via tradition.
making everyone have to subscribe to soft john based traditionalism of the provider.
when, they passed laws so equality was created.
which also shows they have to operate in a soft john capacity to create relationships.


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I can't be the only one... :russ:

I haven't always been in open relationships, in fact I used to hate the idea of them (without ever having experienced what it's like to be in one. I just thought "I hate the idea of sharing, I would be too jealous, I couldn't deal with the person I love fukkin other people" etc).

Then I found myself in a situation where the only thing that made sense was being in an open relationship due to the circumstances between my man and I. Our relationship would never have lasted if we were in a closed relationship.

This may sound crazy to you if you're against the idea of open relationships but remember that you don't know all the details & circumstances. Every human being is different and every relationship is different.

What works for you will not work for everyone and vice versa.

There's a movie by Woody Allen called Whatever Works featuring the homie LD :ld:

It's about doing whatever works for you/your situation.

Open relationships aren't for everyone. :yeshrug:

And just because I'm in an open relationship doesn't necessarily mean I will be in one for the rest of my life.

You never know what will happen. All I know is that I'll always choose to do whatever works best in whichever situation I find myself in.

My adaptation skills are on point.

:myman:



I talk to @malcolmxxx_45 & you wanna start talkin to @malcolmxxx_45

:mjlol:

I'm in an open relationship & now suddenly you want to be in an open relationship

:mjlol:


*throws dirty laundry at you*




:why: :dahell:

You don't know shyt about open relationships, grandpa :old:

FOH




:russ:

That ugly bytch can't hold a man.

Her attitude is so negative and terrible...how could any sane man want to be around that for extended period of time?

bytch gonna die lonely. :pachaha:



THOT ALERT!

You always try to call me dirty/filthy/slutty etc and look at you runnin with multiple partners like a goddamn hypocrite.

:why:

You're pathetic, for real.

:snoop:



:patrice:

I disagree.

My situation has absolutely nothing to do with being trendy or cool or "If you can't beat em, join em".

An open relationship was pretty much the only option we have to keep our relationship going through long distance circumstances, otherwise we'd just be cheating like crazy cuz we both love having sex.

It's not for everyone but it works for us.




:russ:

This is exactly why open relationships aren't for everyone: jealousy/feelings.



For you, maybe.

Remember that everyone's situations/needs/desires are different

:ufdup:



Not all open relationships are the same.

For example, when I'm with my man, we're 100% together & the relationship is more or less closed but when we're separated by distance we open that shyt up.

That's what works best for us.

We're on the same page and very open with each other and it's awesome.



You can't say that because everybody's situation is different.

You have your own opinion of what an ideal relationship should be but that doesn't mean that everyone else has to agree with you. Everybody's different.

:umad:




Having freedom = waste of time?

You haven't lived!

:umad:

It's not about settling for whatever, it about doing whatever works

i bet cho gooflame ass don't get not one place of actual brick and mortar residence.
while you are in your idea of what a open relationship is, tho.

when, i already actually been given a house by a woman and was in a strictly mating capacity and had not seen said woman for a year prior to that.
she showed up an dropped a whole crib.

now, i don't wanna say shyt about the details of your relationship.
all cause i am not a hater and won't break kayfabe.
to damage the guys situation.
that is how much more experienced i am in this.
yet, i know one thing.
if you ampersand me one more motherfukkin' time with this bullshyt.
you getting that coli screen treatment and you gon learn what and who the fukk i am all over the internet.
so, you can hear me coming without me physically putting my dikk in yo ear, yo little goof ass girl.


fukk'n play if you want.
When, you not knowing.
all i gotta do is reply in smilies and you gon be mad.
like nikkaz who wanna incest their moms following me around .
imma table yo goof ass in long hand and short hand to show you and the forum.
how emotionally damaged, i have made motherfukkers around here.

now, move the fukk around, bytch.


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Open relationships aren't healthy, at some point someone catches feelins and what do I look like Netflix and chillin with a broad who is dripping creampie on my carpet from the hood nikka she was just fukkin around with an hour before :pachaha:
 

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I would love to be able to sleep with other women behind my s/o's without tip toeing, but I have too much pride and am too possessive to willingly share my woman with another man.
Maybe after 10 - 20 years of marriage when she's out of her prime & the relationship has gotten mundane I'd be more open to it.

:manny:
 

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a few months back i met this euro cac chick , she was telling me she was in a open relationship 3 with guys, kept telling me one was "so immature" but kept fuking him, honestly i just smoked her weed , left and never answered her messages :mjlol: fuk i look like b
 

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Shou out my nikka Lou Williams I want an open relationship with the same 2 hoes he had :salute::salute::salute:

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I actually thought about this throughout the year last year as I talked to more and more people in passing at bars and stuff (I dont really go out that much) that were in open relationships or had "friends" even though they had boyfriends.

Funny how on one end you had the gay's and lesbians fighting for the right to get married and then on the other end you have people determining that marriage is "old fashion" and doesn't work. :mjlol:




Bunch of confused children we are.

In another 30 years, this country gonna be a ratchet version of Amsterdam
 

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To each his own, and if an open relationship works for you than do ya thang.

However I just can't get down with one. You might catch feelings foe shorty,I could easily fall for ole buddy, not to mention STDS and babies and all that good stuff. Which is what most of the responses in this thread have all had in common but even deeper than that ...


... If I'm in a relationship with someone, it's not just for sex. We're are working toward a future with each other and a commitment between you and I. I would be ALL yours and I can't respect you as a man if you don't mind me giving YOUR p*ssy away every now and again.
 

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Most dating now is tinder personafied- you're always waiting for the next best thing- thinking someone more attractive is just around the corner and is easily accessible. Why wouldn't you keep your options open when there's a plethora of people to enjoy, each one better or with different things to offer than the next? This girl is exciting and the other likes to relax, this guy is emotionally appealing while the other is funny. Together they all make the perfect person but separate leaves you wanting. This is what dating has become and how it will stay for a little while.
 
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