I can't be the only one...
I haven't always been in open relationships, in fact I used to hate the idea of them (without ever having experienced what it's like to be in one. I just thought "I hate the idea of sharing, I would be too jealous, I couldn't deal with the person I love fukkin other people" etc).
Then I found myself in a situation where the only thing that made sense was being in an open relationship due to the circumstances between my man and I. Our relationship would never have lasted if we were in a closed relationship.
This may sound crazy to you if you're against the idea of open relationships but remember that you don't know all the details & circumstances. Every human being is different and every relationship is different.
What works for you will not work for everyone and vice versa.
There's a movie by Woody Allen called Whatever Works featuring the homie LD
It's about doing whatever works for you/your situation.
Open relationships aren't for everyone.
And just because I'm in an open relationship doesn't necessarily mean I will be in one for the rest of my life.
You never know what will happen. All I know is that I'll always choose to do whatever works best in whichever situation I find myself in.
My adaptation skills are on point.
I talk to
@malcolmxxx_45 & you wanna start talkin to
@malcolmxxx_45
I'm in an open relationship & now suddenly you want to be in an open relationship
*throws dirty laundry at you*
You don't know shyt about open relationships, grandpa
FOH
That ugly bytch can't hold a man.
Her attitude is so negative and terrible...how could any sane man want to be around that for extended period of time?
bytch gonna die lonely.
THOT ALERT!
You always try to call me dirty/filthy/slutty etc and look at you runnin with multiple partners like a goddamn hypocrite.
You're pathetic, for real.
I disagree.
My situation has absolutely nothing to do with being trendy or cool or "If you can't beat em, join em".
An open relationship was pretty much the only option we have to keep our relationship going through long distance circumstances, otherwise we'd just be cheating like crazy cuz we both love having sex.
It's not for everyone but it works for us.
This is exactly why open relationships aren't for everyone: jealousy/feelings.
For you, maybe.
Remember that everyone's situations/needs/desires are different
Not all open relationships are the same.
For example, when I'm with my man, we're 100% together & the relationship is more or less closed but when we're separated by distance we open that shyt up.
That's what works best for us.
We're on the same page and very open with each other and it's awesome.
You can't say that because everybody's situation is different.
You have your own opinion of what an ideal relationship should be but that doesn't mean that everyone else has to agree with you. Everybody's different.
Having freedom = waste of time?
You haven't lived!
It's not about settling for whatever, it about doing whatever works