there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

[EA]

I actually read this whole thread

Maybe I'm too young to have a well rounded opinion but it really is a 50/50 problem. Guys who ain't shyt should fix up and women who ain't shyt should fix up...it's that simple.

Practice safe sex and actually get to know who you're about to have sex with before you have sex with them. Less chance of having unwanted babies, less chance of kids growing up in broken homes, less chance of creating more people who ain't shyt.

Also, women stop putting all the blame on men for unprotected sex. If you really wanted to protect yourself from risk, you wouldn't allow it.

 

[Blackout]

Even though none of this is relevant when you're talking about taking care of your child, I would like to note that your own logic fails you. 99% of the time before any interaction happens between man and woman, its the man who, as you said, hollers at the girl. A man initiates every other encounter that happens between a man and a woman thereafter and admittedly chooses the woman to approach in the fist place. But, the blame lies mostly with the woman because she chooses second? Thats stupidity.

So the man chooses to holler at the girl most of the time. Women still run the dating game.

Take some responsibility miss.

 

[Busted_Toes]

Busted toes is the worst! Dude is a pawg worshiper. I don't understand how black men who have no affiliation with black women have so much to say about them.

You trolling My girl is Nigerian . I made 1 pawg thread and numerous black women threads bu but you notice the pawg thread .

clown.

 

[Will Ross]

Negro, I'm not around you. This is a damn message board. I click on it when I am bored and procrastinating. I can click X on this website at anytime. Half the time I ignore most of you so again #logicfail

No you don't half of your post are in threads like this.

 

[Donald J Trump]

Any black male that groups our women and continually bashes them is a loser...point blank.

The OP hasnt fukked a girl in years, why does he even have an opinion?

 

[SouthernBelle]

No my post consisted of debating the fact on who was primarily responsible for the abortion decisions made. My replies would have been the same regardless of who the OP was. But I guess when you can't actually debate against someones point the alternative is to just claim they are caping for someone else.

You didn't say anything profound NOR was I even debating your above point. You are a non factor who has consistently TRIED to get responses in a thread that you didn't even take the time to read. Considering that fact, you aren't even worth talking to.

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

That doesn't prove anything considering the fact that I would never date any of you. Posting on a site to offer a counter opinion to the idiotic shyt that some of you (you are apart of the some Will) post everyday does not prove your point.

. If you seent me in real time live in hd and had a conversation with the kid. Lets just say we'd be at the abortion clinic 3 months from now.

 

[PartyHeart]

What's your definition of a black male leader? How should men lead Black women?

I don't even agree with the concept of one gender inherently being better leaders so I'm really not the one to ask . Its about the individual relationship. Not every woman is a follower and certainly not every man is a leader or even capable of understanding what it means. This thread and the countless others on this site make that abundantly clear.

I do know personal responsibility would definitely be one of the traits a leader should have though. A so-called leader should have their own moral compass and their own actions should not be directed by what their follower "allows".

 

[SouthernBelle]

No you don't half of your post are in threads like this.

Sir, I haven't really even participated in threads/posting (period) other than a response or two for almost two months now. Second, in threads like these I normally skip right over your post and don't even respond to you specifically because half the stuff you say doesn't even make sense. Finally, if half of all my posts are in thread like these, then the other half isn't so

I've tried to be nice to you the entire time I've been here. That's why I've typically ignored you (because I thought you were a nice enough guy), but I'm honestly sick of your self-pitying can't take responsibility, blame black women, blame white men ass. BYE!

 

[Busted_Toes]

Negro, I'm not around you. This is a damn message board. I click on it when I am bored and procrastinating. I can click X on this website at anytime. Half the time I ignore most of you so again #logicfail

no you don't. Your known for going back and forth in absolutely pointless debates. From weave threads to these threads you always in here dapping Black feminists and defending women that can't even be accountable. With you it's the same "Quote me, find where i said this", you acting like you above these type of threads but you always in them.

 

[SouthernBelle]

. If you seent me in real time live in hd and had a conversation with the kid. Lets just say we'd be at the abortion clinic 3 months from now.

I'll take your word for it...

 

[SouthernBelle]

no you don't. Your known for going back and forth in absolutely pointless debates. From weave threads to these threads you always in here dapping Black feminists and defending women that can't even be accountable. With you it's the same "Quote me, find where i said this", you acting like you above these type of threads but you always in them.

How does that quote say that I'm above threads like these? How did you POSSIBLY you infer that?

When I say I'm not around you...it means that this is a virtual world. I'm not a fukking around you. You have no parts of my world. You have no influence over my life. We have NO RELATIONSHIP. I don't fukking know you and you don't know me.

The only person I consistently reply to is Marcuz and that is because I like busting his chops.

 

[Rawtid]

Any black male that groups our women and continually bashes them is a loser...point blank.

The OP hasnt fukked a girl in years, why does he even have an opinion?

 

[Numpsay]

You didn't say anything profound NOR was I even debating your above point. You are a non factor who has consistently TRIED to get responses in a thread that you didn't even take the time to read. Considering that fact, you aren't even worth talking to.

Y'all don't handle someone disagreeing with you very well. I'm not on here to try and come across as some sort of aristocrat or claim some sort of profound knowledge. I had an opinion on the subject I replied in reference to and shared it. But I guess I have been talking to myself since I first posted in this thread since I am only "trying" to get responses. I guess the next thing to do when you can't formulate an argument against someone is to claim them as a non factor and suggest you'll stop responding all together. Do you learn that at the school of Evelyn Lozada?

 

[SouthernBelle]

Y'all don't handle someone disagreeing with you very well. I'm not on here to try and come across as some sort of aristocrat or claim some sort of profound knowledge. I had an opinion on the subject I replied in reference to and shared it. But I guess I have been talking to myself since I first posted in this thread since I am only "trying" to get responses. I guess the next thing to do when you can't formulate an argument against someone is to claim them as a non factor and suggest you'll stop responding all together. Do you learn that at the school of Evelyn Lozada?

Sweetie. I don't even watch her show. She is not the first and last person to use that phrase. You are the person who probably fits the stereotype of one of the dead beat men or women on that type of show...not me.