there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

Busted_Toes

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How does that quote say that I'm above threads like these? How did you POSSIBLY you infer that?

When I say I'm not around you...it means that this is a virtual world. I'm not a fukking around you. You have no parts of my world. You have no influence over my life. We have NO RELATIONSHIP. I don't fukking know you and you don't know me.
:dead: oh comon, this is pathetic :dead: :laff:

Every thread like this you present, dapping up bed wenches and black feminists. Then when you asked, "are you a Black feminist?" you like :whoa: but you seem to agree with everything they say, which is primarily Black men ain't shyt :lupe:. Women stick together :whew: I won't hesistate to call out a bum nikka but yall protect these dusty bytches, Why won't you call out the dusty bytch? Every male point in this thread has been overlooked. Yall amaze me :banderas:
 

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Props to the OP, I been saying this for years. Yeah there are deadbeat and just completely irresponsible dudes and then there are the women who are continuously attracted to those men, at least enough to spread they legs and let a man go raw. Takes 2 to tango.

But what do I know, I don't even care how women think or what they do. Lay down with whoever you want and then dodge any responsibility or blame.
 

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:dead: oh comon, this is pathetic :dead: :laff:

Every thread like this you present, dapping up bed wenches and black feminists. Then when you asked, "are you a Black feminist?" you like :whoa: but you seem to agree with everything they say, which is primarily Black men ain't shyt :lupe:. Women stick together :whew: I won't hesistate to call out a bum nikka but yall protect these dusty bytches, Why won't you call out the dusty bytch? Every male point in this thread has been overlooked. Yall amaze me :banderas:

First of all, I don't dap or type post talking about "black men ain't shyt" so you can go somewhere else with that bullshyt. I will happily dap a post that says many of the coli male posters aren't shyt, but I don't think you represent black men. Just because you agree with somethings doesn't mean you agree with all things related to a movement or ideology.

Also, y'all lames asses get mad because I won't dap your dumb ass posts generalizing all black women. I have made and I will be happy to make qualified statements that SOME black women choose the wrong men, but that's not going to stop me from stating that neither one of them were shyt anyway or that IT TAKES TWO.

Continue to be amazed (I'm use to doing that to people in real life too).
 

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I don't even agree with the concept of one gender inherently being better leaders so I'm really not the one to ask :ld:. Its about the individual relationship. Not every woman is a follower and certainly not every man is a leader or even capable of understanding what it means. This thread and the countless others on this site make that abundantly clear.

I do know personal responsibility would definitely be one of the traits a leader should have though. A so-called leader should have their own moral compass and their own actions should not be directed by what their follower "allows".

Ok cool I can rock with that.

I personally believe that some modern women are not prepared to be lead and some modern men lack the leadership skills of yesteryear. Both sides have some work to do.
 

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Even though none of this is relevant when you're talking about taking care of your child, I would like to note that your own logic fails you. 99% of the time before any interaction happens between man and woman, its the man who, as you said, hollers at the girl. So basically a man initiates every other encounter that happens between a man and a woman thereafter and admittedly chooses the woman to approach in the first place. But, the blame lies mostly with the woman because she chooses second? Thats stupidity.

You are either not dating at all or you're lying through your teeth. The dating game is 100% the woman's world, why the fukk do you think men are doing shyt like paying for dates, sending women flowers, splurging on Valentines, and shyt like that? Why do you think average looking girls get more messages than good looking guys on internet dating sites? Cuz you have such interesting personalities? :childplease:
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Sweetie. I don't even watch her show. She is not the first and last person to use that phrase. You are the person who probably fits the stereotype of one of the dead beat men or women on that type of show...not me.

Look, miss me with the juvenile arguments trying to attack my character. You don't know me personally so you have no idea what type of person I am. So your attempts at any type of character assassination towards me are futile. You used a phrase that normally is related back to her, not me. Now, do you have anything left to debate in regards to the original point of my post or do you have just more childish responses left in you? Either way I'll do you a favor and actually stop responding to you instead of just claiming to do so.

:camby:
 

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Look, miss me with the juvenile arguments trying to attack my character. You don't know me personally so you have no idea what type of person I am. So your attempts at any type of character assassination towards me are futile. You used a phrase that normally is related back to her, not me. Now, do you have anything left to debate in regards to the original point of my post or do you have just more childish responses left in you? Either way I'll do you a favor and actually stop responding to you instead of just claiming to do so.

:camby:

Child you tried to implied that I was a chicken head like Evelyn Lozada. Stop trying to play the damn victim talking about character assassination! You get what you give. Bye negro!
 

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First of all, I don't dap or type post talking about "black men ain't shyt" so you can go somewhere else with that bullshyt. I will happily dap a post that says many of the coli male posters aren't shyt, but I don't think you represent black men. Just because you agree with somethings doesn't mean you agree with all things related to a movement or ideology.

Also, y'all lames asses get mad because I won't dap your dumb ass posts generalizing all black women. I have made and I will be happy to make qualified statements that SOME black women choose the wrong men, but that's not going to stop me from stating that neither one of them were shyt anyway or that IT TAKES TWO.

Continue to be amazed (I'm use to doing that to people in real life too).
I've seen you dap that black feminist devil numerous times and CAC worshipping bytch anotherc00n. I can make the same assumption that you aint shyt by the way you align yourself on this forum. But you'll backtrack, "no no i agree with somethings not everything, please like me" . I'm not amazed by you, i'm amazed at ignorance of the women on this forum. Your not going to find a messageboard of Black men like nobammerweed that warp cape for women . This is what black men feel like but yall dismiss it when we tell you what it is.

Be ignorant brehs
 

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I've seen you dap that black feminist devil numerous times and CAC worshipping bytch anotherc00n. I can make the same assumption that you aint shyt by the way you align yourself on this forum. But you'll backtrack, "no no i agree with somethings not everything, please like me" . I'm not amazed by you, i'm amazed at ignorance of the women on this forum. Your not going to find a messageboard of Black men like nobammerweed that warp cape for women . This is what black men feel like but yall dismiss it when we tell you what it is.

Be ignorant brehs

Dude I don't even agree with most (or just about any) of what Anothergirl posts so I know you are lying. She doesn't just talk crazy about black men she talks crazy about Americans (the women included) too. I don't want you to like me. If you haven't noticed, I don't give a damn what you think about me. You can kiss my ass for all I care.

I'm dating a black man and he doesn't feel like most of bummy dudes complaining about black women on this board. So :yeshrug:
 

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Dude I don't even agree with most (or just about any) of what Anothergirl posts so I know you are lying. She doesn't just talk crazy about black men she talks crazy about Americans (the women included) too. I don't want you to like me. If you haven't noticed, I don't give a damn what you think about me. You can kiss my ass for all I care.

I'm dating a black man and he doesn't feel like most of bummy dudes complaining about black women on this board. So :yeshrug:
How them feelings :umad: Like you said i don't know your real life, don't try to validate yourself to me, we in a virtual world remember :pachaha:

"bu bu but i'm dating a black man, he never told me things like this, please like me"

Maybe in another life i'll be born with a cape and i would agree with everything women say no matter how nonsensical :banderas:
 
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