there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

[Malik]

so we gonna act like women don't get wet for a certain type of man.

these guys while fun and exciting tend to make horrible husbands and fathers and women find out the hard way.

its no different men wifing up a slore and expecting her to be Claire Huxtable.

 

[AtomicUse]

No longer having to deal with any of the problems mentioned in this thread directly =

Having to deal with the indirect consequences =

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I will never understand why Black men who declare how much they want to be leaders then also make it a point to tell us that they will never be responsible for where they put their dikks and if there is ever an opportunity "to fukk" they will do it and its up to the women to say no. Why would anyone allow someone with that mind set to lead them? That seems to be the very definition of choosing a deadbeat, which is ironically what they are trying to argue against at the same time

And you are absolutely correct on this, however, their are a gang of brothers who make wise decisions with their genitals....I don't believe this stance appllies to even half of the brothers in America right now.. At least not the ones that are 27 and up

 

[Malik]

What sad is we have educated black women that don't even get it.
They are really mad that we are saying choose better men to have kids with.

"How dare you tell us to be careful who we get pregnant by"

 

[SouthernBelle]

How them feelings Like you said i don't know your real life, don't try to validate yourself to me, we in a virtual world remember

"bu bu but i'm dating a black man, he never told me things like this, please like me"

Maybe in another life i'll be born with a cape and i would agree with everything women say no matter how nonsensical

When have I EVER asked you to like me? In fact, I just told you to kiss my ass. How is that trying to get you to like me?

 

[Busted_Toes]

When have I EVER asked you to like me. In fact, I just told you to kiss my ass. How is that trying to get you to like me?

you slow, i just put that in there to piss you off.

 

[SouthernBelle]

you slow, i just put that in there to piss you off.

No, but clearly you are!

 

[Busted_Toes]

No, but clearly you are!

 

[KinksandCoils]

so we gonna act like women don't get wet for a certain type of man.

these guys while fun and exciting tend to make horrible husbands and fathers and women find out the hard way.

its no different men wifing up a slore and expecting her to be Claire Huxtable.

No one purposely picks a shytty person. They may typically be attracted to a bad guy but who really says .....I want to get involved with a shytty person?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

The only reason why I feel like it can't be equal because sometimes people change after a kid is in the picture. What if he was a stand up guy before and when the kid came around he was just not feeling the situation?It happens....but other than that 2 people are to blame often.

How often does that happen though?

During Relationship: I can't wait to have a family
During Pregnancy: I can't wait to be a dad
After Pregnancy: fukk outta here, you on your own hoe

At the very least both parties should have that conversation. Every girl I was fukking with we'd have the what if you get pregnant conversation. That way there's no surprises if the dude says I never want kids and there's not surprises if she says I don't believe in abortions.

 

[marcuz]

No one purposely picks a shytty person. They may typically be attracted to a bad guy but who really says .....I want to get involved with a shytty person?

9 kids to a nikka that killed his momma. thats all i gotta say bout that

 

[KinksandCoils]

How often does that happen though?

During Relationship: I can't wait to have a family
During Pregnancy: I can't wait to be a dad
After Pregnancy: fukk outta here, you on your own hoe

At the very least both parties should have that conversation. Every girl I was fukking with we'd have the what if you get pregnant conversation. That way there's no surprises if the dude says I never want kids and there's not surprises if she says I don't believe in abortions.

I'm referring to the type who is very happy until she gets pregnant. And it does happen.

 

[MikelArteta]

my last big thread of the year

thanks y'all

 

[KinksandCoils]

9 kids to a nikka that killed his momma. thats all i gotta say bout that

 

[KinksandCoils]

my last big thread of the year

thanks y'all

Your not going to make that 50,000 post