there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

[KinksandCoils]

Yeah what breh? I asked like 4 questions in that post

I'm asking do u believe that a guy can be good at first and appear to be loving but can change....

I thought those were rhetorical questions

 

[KinksandCoils]

i know im a failure

They were expecting to much of you

 

[MAKAVELI25]

where?:

Fam, have you not been reading? The females had you looking like a fool throughout, and there's a lot of truth to what they were saying and BTW this is coming from someone who AGREED with your original premise

 

[Numpsay]

Fury? There is no fury but it takes a certain level of immaturity and stupidity to make the same mistake three times with women you did not want to have children with. He would have been a baby daddy to three b*stard children but because those women decided to kill his children, you're excusing his stupidity as just a mistake. He has no right to judge shyt with his history of horrible decision making.

My argument is not asinine, you're just on his dikk and you've probably done the same shyt.

Oh

These female posters are the worst brehs can't have an debate without throwing out baseless accusations regarding the position you have in regards to the debate at hand.

In regards to the above post, hypothetically you don't know what happens after the first child is born if the female would have allowed it to be. How do you know those other 2 still come about? So stating he would have 3 b*stard children at this point isn't necessarily true. Kids change people the majority of the time, @His_Excellence_Reincar may have become a different person than he is today if 1 out of those 3 kids were allowed to live. And I didn't refer to anything he did as a mistake, in fact I called it irresponsible but stated he was willing to man up and face the consequences of such irresponsible decisions.

And for the last time just because I disagree with you, it doesn't mean I'm dikkriding the poster you are debating with, I just don't agree with your argument. Tossing that out there as a means to validate your own argument is ridiculously childish.

 

[Blackout]

I'm asking do u believe that a guy can be good at first and appear to be loving but can change....

You know a guy that did that to a female and got her pregnant and abandoned the kid?

 

[MikelArteta]

This doesn't make you look any better. You really have no right to be having this discussion. Your decision making skills are just as bad as the women you're talking about.

your wrong

 

[↓R↑LYB]

what miistakes?

what horrible decisions?

1st girl i was engaged with


2 and 3 were just flings, so what I went raw stone me. Like I said I would have supported my seeds if they chose to keep them.

Breh, I personally don't care how many bytches you fukk raw and how many abortions them broads had.

But as a Christian to say my hands are clean cause I told them it was their choice...are you serious?

2 Cor 5:10
For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad.

What are you gonna say when you stand in front your savior and he asks you, " What did you think was going to happen to those two babies that were aborted when you told those girls 'It's your decision'"

If you weren't a Christian I'd just say fetuses get aborted every day b

But you're actually on here wanting people to take you and your faith seriously. shyt's absolutely puzzling

 

[MikelArteta]

Oh

These female posters are the worst brehs can't have an debate without throwing out baseless accusations regarding the position you have in regards to the debate at hand.

In regards to the above post, hypothetically you don't know what happens after the first child is born if the female would have allowed it to be. How do you know those other 2 still come about? So stating he would have 3 b*stard children at this point isn't necessarily true. Kids change people the majority of the time, @His_Excellence_Reincar may have become a different person than he is today if 1 out of those 3 kids were allowed to live. And I didn't refer to anything he did as a mistake, in fact I called it irresponsible but stated he was willing to man up and face the consequences of such irresponsible decisions.

And for the last time just because I disagree with you, it doesn't mean I'm dikkriding the poster you are debating with, I just don't agree with your argument. Tossing that out there as a means to validate your own argument is ridiculously childish.

thing is there acting like i wanted the abortions, the first one i had no idea. The other two I left it up to them. If they decided to not go through it I would have paid child support and be in my son/daughter life

but suddenly im a horrible person

the whole premise of this thread was telling women to pick better men to pump out kids with.

If women pumped out kids with me i'd be around and in my childs life

 

[MAKAVELI25]

your wrong

Is she though?

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh, I personally don't care how many bytches you fukk raw and how many abortions them broads had.

But as a Christian to say my hands are clean cause I told them it was their choice...are you serious?

2 Cor 5:10
For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad.

What are you gonna say when you stand in front your savior and he asks you, " What did you think was going to happen to those two babies that were aborted when you told those girls 'It's your decision'"

If you weren't a Christian I'd just say fetuses get aborted every day b

But you're actually on here wanting people to take you and your faith seriously. shyt's absolutely puzzling

Everyone sins, I've already repented of my sins and no longer live that type of life.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

there is a deadbeat problem, some are not at fault tho, they try but there aint shyt bytches who use kids as pawns so the niccas be like fucc it. and then there are niccas who just dont have the means but try to be there for they seeds.

 

[KinksandCoils]

You know a guy that did that to a female and got her pregnant and abandoned the kid?

Yes I have seen it

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I'm asking do u believe that a guy can be good at first and appear to be loving but can change....

I thought those were rhetorical questions

No they weren't rhetorical. You said equal blame can't be placed because after the pregnancy the morally upstanding dude could turn into a demon for whatever reason. Is it possible that dude could just flip? Sure. But that scenario is so unlikely to happen just like it's unlikely that a chick would meet a dude, be the best girlfriend, fiance, and mother ever, but as soon as she gets married she starts sucking every dikk she can get her hands on.

If someone doesn't want kids, they no loooooooooooooong before they stick their dikk in a bytch they didn't want kids. It's not something that just hits you once your child is born, especially if they're a stand up guy like you said.

 

[Blackout]

Yes I have seen it

So this female who dated this guy.

Did she ever talk to him about having kids before she got pregnant and kept the baby?

Did she ever see any red flags that he might not be father material?

 

[KinksandCoils]

No they weren't rhetorical. You said equal blame can't be placed because after the pregnancy the morally upstanding dude could turn into a demon for whatever reason. Is it possible that dude could just flip? Sure. But that scenario is so unlikely to happen just like it's unlikely that a chick would meet a dude, be the best girlfriend, fiance, and mother ever, but as soon as she gets married she starts sucking every dikk she can get her hands on.

If someone doesn't want kids, they no loooooooooooooong before they stick their dikk in a bytch they didn't want kids. It's not something that just hits you once your child is born, especially if they're a stand up guy like you said.

Agreed but it's not as rare as u think