There's such a big epidemic of Young dudes living with their girlfriend

[Matt504]

The thing I don't understand is how can you do this and be a fukk up. I think about how when I was a kid, I knew when I could fukk up and when I couldn't. If my mom was upset you couldn't catch me watching TV or lounging around because I knew she'd blow up on me. I'd just do my chores and make sure I was invisible lmao. I made sure all my shyt was in order.

These dudes out here sleeping until noon, playing video games all day, and then when their gf gets home the place hasn't been cleaned and no food is prepared. I don't care how big your dikk is (pause), you not gonna last in a relationship like that. She at work all day surrounded by men with jobs...while you at home doing nothing. Sooner or later she gonna throw you in the bushes...

Dudes in this situation are aware of this, some will plan for it by seeking out the next woman and others will become physically or psychologically abusive which is an extremely difficult situation for women to escape.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Dudes in this situation are aware of this, some will plan for it by seeking out the next woman and others will become physically or psychologically abusive which is an extremely difficult situation for women to escape.

Both excellent points. Cheating almost becomes an act of survival for them - which is fukked up to say but it's the reality lmao. And in terms of the abuse yea a lot of chicks fall into that hole...but I feel like in 2019 there are more independent minded woman than ever before, and they have the means and clout to get rid of sorry ass dudes. Not saying all or even most women are like that now, just it's more prominent to see a chick with the mentality that "if he's not doing anything for me, he's not worth my time." Some take that to the extreme (I had a female friend who stopped talking to me because I wouldn't lend her money) but in terms of relationships...a lot of chicks are bushing sorry ass dudes on the daily now.

 

[Matt504]

Both excellent points. Cheating almost becomes an act of survival for them - which is fukked up to say but it's the reality lmao. And in terms of the abuse yea a lot of chicks fall into that hole...but I feel like in 2019 there are more independent minded woman than ever before, and they have the means and clout to get rid of sorry ass dudes. Not saying all or even most women are like that now, just it's more prominent to see a chick with the mentality that "if he's not doing anything for me, he's not worth my time." Some take that to the extreme (I had a female friend who stopped talking to me because I wouldn't lend her money) but in terms of relationships...a lot of chicks are bushing sorry ass dudes on the daily now.

While it's true that there are many women with an independent mindset, they still exist within a system where their worth is tied to being partnered with a man even if it's a man they have to build.

This is why marriage for many women is a status symbol and why women will put up with all kinds of shyt to secure that position.

 

[Dr. Acula]

I learned from an early age that as a man, you should NEVER become financially dependent on a woman. Because once she gets tired of you or if you fukk up, you’re out on the streets and on your own.

shyt this is good advice for anyone. Even if you plan on being a stay at home wife and mom, probably should still have some skill outside of that under your belt to carry you incase things fall apart. I know someone who was doing just that without any skills to speak of. Their marriage fell apart and now she is a grown woman who doesn't seem to be able to live independently because she lived her whole life dependent on a man.

Never make yourself completely dependent on anyone because there is no guarantee they will always be around and then you'll be assed out of luck and be food out here in this cold ass world if things don't work out.

But that shyt is extra sad if you're a man. Call it a double standards, but men by our nature are leaders and independent and if you're a man who needs to be babied by a woman of all people to survive, you're a bum ass dude.

 

[Spectre]

The thing I don't understand is how can you do this and be a fukk up. I think about how when I was a kid, I knew when I could fukk up and when I couldn't. If my mom was upset you couldn't catch me watching TV or lounging around because I knew she'd blow up on me. I'd just do my chores and make sure I was invisible lmao. I made sure all my shyt was in order.

These dudes out here sleeping until noon, playing video games all day, and then when their gf gets home the place hasn't been cleaned and no food is prepared. I don't care how big your dikk is (pause), you not gonna last in a relationship like that. She at work all day surrounded by men with jobs...while you at home doing nothing. Sooner or later she gonna throw you in the bushes...

Oh you'd be surprised

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

A message to all HOBOSEXUALS whom don't have an exit plan for the fall/winter season

 

[Dr. Acula]

their address isn't keeping them from working on their careers. my bro & his girl shacked up and both worked on their careers

I don't think folks are talking about two people living together as more, one person is the bread winner and its not the man, and the man is just bumming off the chick.

What you're describing is normal and healthy unless you're really puritan and think they should be married first. But folks know we're talking about what @KENNY DA COOKER called "hobosexuals".

 

[Piff Perkins]

While it's true that there are many women with an independent mindset, they still exist within a system where their worth is tied to being partnered with a man even if it's a man they have to build.

This is why marriage for many women is a status symbol and why women will put up with all kinds of shyt to secure that position.

True and that becomes a pit of doom for a lot of these dudes, and is one of the reason fewer people are getting married. A lot of men are struggling out here. Lot of white dudes had the financial means to go to college but instead skipped school to get bad jobs and play videogames all night. Lot of black dudes' financial earnings are capped because they couldn't go to college, and they're working security or maintenance jobs that may pay decently but not enough to start a family. Meanwhile there are a loooot of successful black/white/Latina/etc women out here who graduated, have career paths, are building credit...and they got zero interest in dating these low income dudes. They want to marry men on their own level, or men who are more successful. They're plenty of those dudes out there and yet marriage levels are still low because people are more focused on securing financial independence than getting married....but eventually they will settle down with each other, leaving a lot of lower-to-working class dudes out of luck.

A lot of these men are the type of guys who could have worked construction or in a manufacturing plant 30 years ago and been successful enough to raise a family, have good insurance benefits, attract women, etc.

 

[SATAN]

I guess I'm the only man here who enjoys living with a woman

 

[lib123]

Has this arrangement become more common during the pandemic?

 

[NinoBrown]

Has this arrangement become more common during the pandemic?

Not sure...but if you are man that needs a woman to survive and leech off of, then you aren't a real man....

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Has this arrangement become more common during the pandemic?

I’ve definitely seen attempts, but I’ve also seen a lotta women pumping brakes lately. Even millionaires getting left. These latest generations of women are finally starting to get it. That’s why a lotta bums keep complaining about the lack of women willing to “cooperate”.

 

[UpAndComing]

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[Bigblackted4]

I learned from an early age that as a man, you should NEVER become financially dependent on a woman. Because once she gets tired of you or if you fukk up, you’re out on the streets and on your own.

 

[Bigblackted4]

Are there systematic problems stopping us from building wealth, yes are dudes lazy, also yes. Both things can be true. Plenty of decent paying jobs I know for a fact destiny dudes wouldn’t do.