There's such a big epidemic of Young dudes living with their girlfriend

[Action Mike]

Men are incredibly loyal to other men, but when nikkas fall on hard times, they don't look to these men to shelter them.

100% the truth.

Shelter from a side piece for two weeks vs your boys couch...brehs know what they'd choose.

 

[The Up Right Man]

Anyhoo, being strongk is something a lot of blk women take false pride in. Yet they have this uncanny inability to apply this “strength” to improve the quality of their relationships. I’ve seen even the hoodest, hardest, self professed Shea butter, man hating blk chick seemingly rendered brain dead over some bum ass nikka she allows to dog her out.

In fact, I’m willing to bet a lot of the blk online female toxicity comes from bitter chicks getting used in real life. They pop that shyt online but can’t confront the nikka using her car to pick up bytches in real life, or put that Hotep nikka indoctrinating her in place. That shyt comes from a place of hurt.

White supremacy has functioned to make blk women the caretakers of the world and easily preyed upon. Our self-esteem is broken down in the media, many grew up in homes and communities where they were used and abused and so some blk women take this trauma into adulthood and their dealings with men. How is a chick that grew up in dire poverty, got sexually assaulted and BLAMED FOR IT, while navigating the psychological burden of growing up in a racist white society that devalues her, supposed to magically make great relationship decisions.

Black Women are socialized to accept ANYTHING in a relationship. We get the least in alimony and child support, high rates of physical and sexual abuse, and we are told to be quiet b/c anything is better than being by urself, although ironically, many take all of that shyt and still end up in that condition anyway b/c they make desperate choices in men they deal with that manifests the cycle of abuse they grew up with.

But there is hope on the horizon. I am seeing glimmers of blk women literally saying “fukk it” to everybody and being unwilling to be the workhorse caretaker of everybody while getting blamed for everything. Birthrates in our community are actually plummeting. And for every dude living with a blk woman, many can’t get a blk chick to even look their way. Not as many people are fukking these days as we think anymore. A lot of blk women are abandoning the American blk dream and living the “childless, comfortable auntie” life. What we are seeing is the closing of shop of quality blk women. Now the only ones men are left to deal with are the mentally unstable, diseased birdbrains. That’s why a lot of men complain about these chicks. It isn’t that all or most blk women are pieces of shyt. But the only ones left that will let u buss em down pretty much are. And they got 6 kids by different men with their coochies out on the gram next to a 3 year old. Those are the only ones left birthing kids and dealing with dudes. Other blk women are exiting stage left or are already gone.

No fight, no arguing. No nothing. They making homemade conditioner outta rice water, becoming entrepreneurs, hustling, and working and focusing on themselves. Blk chicks pooling together to provide revenue for each other’s businesses and shyt out here. Forming their own culture of positive reinforcement. And that’s a good thing b/c once blk women take their enabling crutch of support away from sorry male and female elements in our community, them jokers will be forced to grow the hell up.

so we is our own worst enemy?

Rice water

 

[Matt504]

"no one cares about Black men" *jeopardizes section 8 housing voucher to shelter Black men*

 

[Rawtid]

1. Women getting paid less for the same work in today’s age is a myth.
2. Black men outearn women due to occupational choices. There aren’t many women in certain fields that pay higher (engineering, IT, trades, etc) as opposed to hospitality/medical industry.


I see you’ve taken the same talking points of cac feminists. But next time do your research and realize you’re just a mule to them.

how is it a myth when there are actual studies and numbers as proof? Stop trying to pick and choose what is true.

A black female engineer will make less than a black male one, regardless of the details. Of course an engineer is going to make more than a janitor, regardless of gender or race.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Had a friend talk about a coworker who always complains that her son is 23, living with his girlfriend in an expensive apartment, hot tempered and can't keep a job

A family friend was talking about her son who's 26 and is more focused on his girlfriend then finishing school or getting a job

Another family friend, who's son is 27, was living in a nice neighborhood with his parents. Then got the girl pregnant, now living in the hood with his girl, and he can't keep a consistent job

A next door neighbor talking about his son who's 26 and was living with him for 5 years, then just decided he loves his girlfriend so much he wants to live with her and get an apartment



What the hell is up with brehs in their 20s shacking up with a girl before they even have a consistent job/career? . Starting a family too early is the number 1 reason your career gets halted, and limits your earning potential
Bet you these the same dudes who in a couple years gonna be like life ain't fair and I can't catch a break

Ain't no p*ssy like in house p*ssy and these no job have g dudes,need not mooch off their parents. Go shack up with a bytch. Too many women outchea will take care of a man so let them

 

[Astroslik]

how is it a myth when there are actual studies and numbers as proof? Stop trying to pick and choose what is true.

A black female engineer will make less than a black male one, regardless of the details. Of course an engineer is going to make more than a janitor, regardless of gender or race.

Post the numbers and proof.

and there’s so many variables of why someone could be making more or less. But I don’t expect you to have the critical thinking skills to see that.


And for the bolded you’re full of shyt. (Regardless of details?) are you okay? A black male engineer with 1 year of experience is not making more than a black woman wkth 5+ years all other variables equal.

I’ll just drop this link from the national economics editorial.
America's Gender Pay Gap Is A Myth | National Economics Editorial

 

[Rawtid]

Post the numbers and proof.

and there’s so many variables of why someone could be making more or less. But I don’t expect you to have the critical thinking skills to see that.


And for the bolded you’re full of shyt. (Regardless of details?) are you okay? A black male engineer with 1 year of experience is not making more than a black woman wkth 5+ years all other variables equal.

I’ll just drop this link from the national economics editorial.
America's Gender Pay Gap Is A Myth | National Economics Editorial

The bureau of labor statistics provides a different view than what you’re arguing.

The article you posted takes in account of different variables, which it should, but it does not prove it’s a myth. I bet you’d have no problem agreeing with my scenario if I used a white male making more than a black male, but somehow when its black women y’all refuse to acknowledge it. Acknowledgement doesn’t mean anyone is wrong, but it’s the truth.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Homie there’s dudes in their 30s and 40s shacking up with these females eating the females kids fruit loops and playing ps4 , smoking weed while the chick is out there working and going to school

but u know what... it’s these females fault period for having bum dudes as live ins

Some of these chicks have zero self esteem.They want a kept man because it gives them a sense of control/security.

Lots of undiagnosed traumas/mental illnesses involved, to.The young men are in a slump.Females patching their crumbs

together doing the "Wonder Woman"(Female captain save em) because the image "She got her own" /

"I.N.D.E.P.E.N.E.D.E.N.T" is what's hot in these streets.The rulers of this world are wickedly wise.It's sort of a gender reversal

going on.Chicks tricking harder than ever nowadays.Even some of the chicks that y'all trick on are tricking on a nicca like this.

Society's as warped as ever.MAD MAD public

 

[Astroslik]

The bureau of labor statistics provides a different view than what you’re arguing.

The article you posted takes in account of different variables, which it should, but it does not prove it’s a myth. I bet you’d have no problem agreeing with my scenario if I used a white male making more than a black male, but somehow when its black women y’all refuse to acknowledge it. Acknowledgement doesn’t mean anyone is wrong, but it’s the truth.

Imagine the legal ramifications of a corporation paying women less than a male counterpart (all variables equal)
It’s suicide and HORRIBLE for business.

im talking positions 6figures+ FYI

this is a obsolete talking point that cac feminists often spout. Why don’t you see that black women are purely mules for them? They’re the 2nd most privileged group on the planet.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

too much realness in this thread

exactly why i deaded my bytch and working solely on me

 

[Gunz&Butta]

At 33, Id rather live with my gf than live with my mama.

These women have to prove their worth before getting the ring

 

[Originalman]

At the end OP, IMO these kats and the women are playing house.

But playing house with no real commitment (marriage) gets you no where.

Most married people will tell you getting married is a commitment on another level. Where even the spouses act different responsibility wise once they walk down that aisle.

Oh and this just aint a bum dude deal too. I have seen many occasions of bum women taking advantage of a situation (usually with a kid or kids) living with an older dude who is taking care of her and her kids.

My ex manager was like this. His wife dies he meets some young broad (ex stripper) two years later with kids. Moves the heffa and her kids in and she sucks him dry. Once the money ran out she moves on to another old kat to suck dry.

 

[Gunz&Butta]

Alot of these dudes are just looking for another mama.

Young dudes get ur shyt together. You shouldn't even be in a relationship with a woman until u CAN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. That means a job, a place to stay, and a reliable means of transportation.

Ain't no woman alive gonna respect you living off her dime.

This is just a coli narrative. That is not how it is in the real world

 

[Gunz&Butta]

being lonely can kill off your motivation tho

kinda soft ass men walking around today?

 

[Originalman]

Young
dumb
Thirsty for p*ssy
Want to do shyt they can’t do at moms/dads crib

This is a big piece of it. shyt dudes go off to college just to shack up with girls and get p*ssy cause they can't do it at home. Also there is no longer a stigma on men or women living together before being married.

So if there is no stigma then of course young kats gonna move in with their girl even if they aren't even financially ready.