There's such a big epidemic of Young dudes living with their girlfriend

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Need to be reminded that these women choose ain't shyt guys ALL the time. If he's a bum that gets it in, she doesn't expect him to spend on her like that....

But if you're a good guy with a career, all of a sudden they expect the most out of you like it's a romcom

Weird times

:whew: PREACH
 

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I work with a lot sisters rather on My level of business or in manager/supervisor roles and majority of them have bums and ex cons staying at their pad

you can tell many going through hell with them bums because many be leaving work early cause dude forgot to pick up her kids from school or dude burned up the spot or pawning her shyt

Do you work at a call center environment? I’ve worked in many different corporate environments and none of the bw were ever with ex cons. Most were with professional bm like themselves. I notice you tend to post about trifling women and trifling single moms a lot, and I’m wondering if it’s where you live. It’s not something I’ve observed anywhere I’ve lived in the Midwest, east, and south in professional corporate environments with bw. Most are with men of a similar level, not deadbeats, bums and scums, and that includes the single moms. All this to say, sheesh if you can help it, associate with better people. For instance:
My life situations

I have fukked around with so many chicks majority of them single moms who every past relationships I talk with them about is with nikkas who was bums, ex cons and I can tell when I dumped them is because they wanted love cause other chicks who don’t have kids and have a man or women with a good family have a man in the household and they think dude would be responsible and be there for they kid...

but in reality this dude is only with the chick until a better opportunity comes around..meaning a bigger bag and better scam

Why you keep dating single moms with as much as you depict them as trash, it’s weird that you keep dating the same type of woman. This is not the first thread where I’ve seen you make these comments. It’s a theme with you. All the single mom women you date seem to have similar past w trifling exes and still make bad choices. Women that you say are corporate and high level. For whatever reason you keep attracting this type of woman, its time for you to figure out why. Remember water always seeks its own level.
 
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Need to be reminded that these women choose ain't shyt guys ALL the time. If he's a bum that gets it in, she doesn't expect him to spend on her like that....

if you're a good guy with a career, all of a sudden they expect the most out of you like it's a romcom

Weird times

It’s not about women choosing ain’t shyt guys all the time. A lot of y’all are scary and insecure and won’t even approach women. But get mad when you see her with somebody that did and you think your better than him and she must just like bums.
 

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:stopitslime: ur doing too much

It's real simple

Are men making more or nah?

You can't claim victim of capitalism (70 cents for every dollar) and then say brothas need to get it together cuz women are killing it in the workplace

:stopitslime:
White men make more money than every demographic in the country, so Im really not sure what that has to do with my point. I said Black Women are getting to the bag quicker than Black men coming out of college, but understand data shows us that more people than ever are cohabitating without marriage and earning more collectively, and this is reflected in couples coming from socioeconomiclly disadvantaged area as well.
 

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It’s not about women choosing ain’t shyt guys all the time. A lot of y’all are scary and insecure and won’t even approach women. But get mad when you see her with somebody that did and you think your better than him and she must just like bums.

U know what's funny? I think u rly believe the bs u just typed. Forreal
There's always gonna be a couple guys that don't often step up to women. That's life.

But U think the majority of these "entrepreneur" women are with bums/no good guys because all the good guys around her are scared to approach/ make convo?

:what: what world are u living in?
 

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Oh, it’s coming. This next decade ain’t gon’ be nothing nice. Why did DrX get banned anyway?



A part of it is control. However, black girls are groomed to have a mentality of lack in the dating department & this drives the decisions of many girls. That being said, the decision to get with a bum is due mostly to women trying to prevent continued abandonment experienced by their fathers. That’s why the black nuclear family (defined as a black man, black woman & black child) is the #1 factor in stability & upward mobility in our community...even before money.

@Matt504 outchea preaching a whole word.

I think he just started trippin one day. I never got or found a reason as to why he was banned. While I agreed with some of his points, he was clearly mentally ill or a prophet
 

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It's pretty telling how yall take this as a personal attack when it's nothing of the sort. It's just a reality in our communities.

:hubie:

It's their reality and they refuse to accept it. They lash out with insults like children and underdeveloped adults instead of understanding reality and bettering themselves. You hate to see it
 

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:hubie: couldn't be me. Coming home to peace and quiet :wow:. Too many people take too many responsibilities too soon.

Same here. I’ve lived with a man once and never again. I was too annoyed. I need my own space, when I don’t want to be bothered, it’s annoying to have someone all up in your face. Not to mention different levels of cleanliness, having his friends over, snoring, taking up the bed—endless annoyances, few benefits.
 
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