This cac tried to expose my introversion at work today

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Very true, but if they have nothing to contribute maybe they don't belong in the room.

The art of bullshytting will never lose value.
what if everyone has already said what he was thinking? and yes, human being love to be lied to. just about everything around us is a lie. the truth has never been in style
 

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I dunno why people think that introvert means sitting in the corner by urself and never talking with anyone. Thats called anti social not introvert. Im an introvert but I socialize at work and play along when I gotta even tho inside Im sometimes like "mayne I dont give a fukk about ur life story :snoop:". But it makes life in general a lot easier for u without all that tension so why not :yeshrug:
Most people are like this. Everybody plays a role :manny:
 

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I force myself to talk to people when I'm really an introvert. I find something that they're into to make conversations go smoother. If they're into the NFL, and I don't watch NFL. I watch a few games and I shoot the shyt with them when I come into work and share my almost non-existent knowledge about NFL. That's just an example.

I ask about their kids, but I don't care about their kids... You can't be a fly on the wall especially at these meetings you gotta make a move, you have to be the best at what you do. And not only that, you have to be irreplaceable. You can have the best skills but there's always gonna be someone better.

Form a 'bond'. Be their friend. That's what they really want. If they're white, perfect. Every white guy wants a black friend.
 
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I force myself to talk to people when I'm really an introvert. I find something that they're into to make conversations go smoother. If they're into the NFL, and I don't watch NFL. I watch a few games and I shoot the shyt with them when I come into work and share my almost non-existent knowledge about NFL. That's just an example.

I ask about their kids, but I don't care about their kids... You can't be a fly on the wall especially at these meetings you gotta make a move, you have to be the best at what you do. And not only that, you have to be irreplaceable. You can have the best skills but there's always gonna be someone better.

Form a 'bond'. Be their friend. That's what they really want. If they're white, perfect. Every white guy wants a black friend.
Maybe suck their dikk as well huh? :childplease:
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OP, please never go to another meeting without saying anything. You are giving people the impression that you are not engaged and have nothing of value to add. It can be hard, but you must speak up at least once. You can ask a question, or cosign something said by another person. Being an introvert is no excuse for not stepping out of your comfort zone and asserting yourself more.
 

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So I been on the coli since June 2012 and I have 112 posts, so im the definition of a lurker.. on the coli and in real life.
So our department was having a meeting with this guy from another company. He wanted to understand how our supply chain works, so we in a team of about 8, im the only black guy, the meeting lasts about an hour with everyone in our team going back and forth with the guy and im just
sitting there like :shaq2:, I said nothing the hol meeting… When the meeting is about to end the guy says “Double Up, one more word out of you and yourre outta here”. Everyone is like :lolbron:

I just give him the :beli: .
I’m just the type of guy that only talks when I’m adding value or when I have to, I won’t just talk for no reason. Why do outspoken people feel like everyone should be like them?


Society has changed since the old times. With so much business around, the pressure is on to sell. And extroverts do much better than introverts in that regard. But they also tend to be more obnoxious.

This video is worth a watch.

 

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I force myself to talk to people when I'm really an introvert. I find something that they're into to make conversations go smoother. If they're into the NFL, and I don't watch NFL. I watch a few games and I shoot the shyt with them when I come into work and share my almost non-existent knowledge about NFL. That's just an example.

I ask about their kids, but I don't care about their kids... You can't be a fly on the wall especially at these meetings you gotta make a move, you have to be the best at what you do. And not only that, you have to be irreplaceable. You can have the best skills but there's always gonna be someone better.

Form a 'bond'. Be their friend. That's what they really want. If they're white, perfect. Every white guy wants a black friend.

This

Bullshyttin with people who you don't really want to talk to will help you have better conversations with people you like
 

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:mjlol:

I'm just imagining the OP mad as fukk after the joke like:

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Fake laugh and give them the :demonic: face





They'll get uncomfortable quick as fukk and be on some:whoa::sadcam: shyt.



I'm an introvert but I'm also kinda an a$$hole. I got this cocky white kid working for me now and I just ignore everything he says or hit him with the:comeon::camby:everytime.


Not even on purpose, but he's one of those white dudes that can't be satisfied with how shyt is run, complains, and tries to "be a leader" despite everything he says being something stupid.
 

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You didn't seem like an introvert, you seemed like an incompetent.:ld:

Glad I don't work in no fukking corporate white america, them cacs make targets out of you. And I damn sure aint turning into that token c00n ass nikka, fukk that.
 

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I'm shol glad I don't work in corporate America, it seems like a bunch of fake smiles, conversations, and ass kissing. I'm glad I can come to work o my job and go home without the pressure of being the entertainment. You still could of bullshytted a response though.
 
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