Those who are in a relationship with a single mom..

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Dated a single mom and then she tried to trap me with a baby. Then when I was involved she wanted more child support than the legal limits. She then said if I didn’t pay her she will get the child to say I molested her. If I didn’t get her


Had to pay 20k for a lawyer and now years later she wants me to be involved. Nope never


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I once dated a single mom for a year whose baby daddy was locked up. He got 11 years. I remember her posting a pic of him on IG saying “Happy Birthday! We love and appreciate you!”. I left lol.

Got involved with a single mom of 3. Two baby daddies. Ignored red flags. Beautiful but very immature for her to be 30+ years old. Reposting Justinlaboy memes and showing cheeks online. She would go silent or storm off when she was mad lol. Piss poor communication and emotionally unavailable. She dealt with rappers/sketchy nikkas and her mentality was that if she went half with a man she wasn’t submitting.

Her daughters were just like her. Early teens listening to Nardo Wick and Pooh shiesty. Always in some mess with other kids and bragged about fighting. “nikkas ain’t shyt” mentality probably got that from listening to rap. Always on Social Media and taking tik tok videos. Reciting rap lyrics. It was their life.

her son was like 6 or 7 had anger issues and was super messy (left trash and food everywhere) and hard headed. He would be on YouTube listening to King Von and Lil Durk. Knew every word. I told her that he shouldn’t be listening to that shyt. Boy, why did I do that?… :francis:

Needless to say I’ll be dealing with younger chicks over 21 with no kids. I rather deal with their growing pains than that shyt again. :yeshrug:

what did she say when you said he shouldn’t be listening to that
 

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Dated a single mom and then she tried to trap me with a baby. Then when I was involved she wanted more child support than the legal limits. She then said if I didn’t pay her she will get the child to say I molested her. If I didn’t get her


Had to pay 20k for a lawyer and now years later she wants me to be involved. Nope never


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If you in a serious relationship with one, I'd imagine you'd want to build a bond with her kids. If you aren't serious aren't living together of course not
 

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A man in his 20-30s and 40s should only be looking to start their own families and create their own legacies. There aint no benefits to step daddying. Same goes for women. If you in your late 50s your kids are grown and you looking to datw half ylur age and she got kids maybe swing that. But always start your own
 

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A man in his 20-30s and 40s should only be looking to start their own families and create their own legacies. There aint no benefits to step daddying. Same goes for women. If you in your late 50s your kids are grown and you looking to datw half ylur age and she got kids maybe swing that. But always start your own
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Dated a single mom and then she tried to trap me with a baby. Then when I was involved she wanted more child support than the legal limits. She then said if I didn’t pay her she will get the child to say I molested her. If I didn’t get her on tape my life could have been over.


Had to pay 20k for a lawyer and now years later she wants me to be involved. Nope never
So she did trap you?
 

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Dated a single mom and then she tried to trap me with a baby. Then when I was involved she wanted more child support than the legal limits. She then said if I didn’t pay her she will get the child to say I molested her. If I didn’t get her on tape my life could have been over.


Had to pay 20k for a lawyer and now years later she wants me to be involved. Nope never
So do you have a kid by her or no?? If you do this situation is horrendous breh.
 

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yeah I have a kid by her and she is on her third kid.

Im letting you brehs know from me I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

SAY NO TO SINGLE MOMS
Damn! I’m sorry to hear that happened to you. So you don’t have any dealings with your seed?
 
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