Tichina Arnold "What can black women do to stop the aiding in the emasculation of black men"

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By being normal people. Literally. Most black men do not partake in the bullshyt destroying the black community. It is a small segment. That small segment is part of the problem, but they are coming from households or raised in cultures that are not conducive to success. One would say it is because the men are not there, which is true but the other problem is this idea that the kid, more than that, a son can be raised in these households reliably. They can't for the most part.


You're operating under the idea that some of the women are not part of this problem or are not the ones raising these men to be like this. At some point you have to ask yourself: Are women children that need to be led or full grown folk that should take accountability for their own actions and part they play in things?
Being “normal people” is not enough when you see your community tearing itself apart. Especially not from someone who purports themselves as the leaders of that community. Come on now.

You cant ask that second question after the answer you gave to my first question. If you don’t expect the men to take accountability for their actual actions as a collective how can you then turn around and expect women to to take accountability for things that they are not the ones doing? Women should “take accountability” but men should “just be normal people”? What?
 

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  1. Cut off useless forms of media
  2. Focus on what matters - your goals, finances, and health.
  3. Have constructive conversations with other Black men.
  4. If you made it, help other Black men and young Black men if you can.
  5. Build with other Black men
Birds will be birds. :yeshrug:
 

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I hear you but as a community we can get it done as well imo:yeshrug:
This ain’t a community. This every person for themselves. A community wouldn’t embrace its worst and most embarrassing elements as the standard and define what that community is about. A lot of these nikkas ain’t worth saving…yet we all need each other cause it’s a common fight. It’s just some would rather fight each other than the opponent
 

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Twitter is trash... I'm not sure why she is wasting her time.


















This is disgusting, I dated a chick kinda like these above and yeah it didn’t take long for her to show me she shared the same sentiments. I was gone like the Flash brehs real talk. I consider myself a good upstanding brotha and here she go with bashing black men I was like wtf:mjtf:


I was shocked to even met someone like this off the net. I advise y’all who are single to do the same if you encounter one these broken females.

That is some straight up warped mindset and it’s real unhealthy. After I left her I was just disgusted to even slept with a chick like that :mjlol:
 

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In the past few years - "black women" has become an ethnic group with its own culture and values.

the black race, is now just black men & black children.
Let’s be honest. Black men left behind black children a long time ago. Black Women are pretty much solely responsible for black children and have been for a while.

The community is definitely fractured but it’s black men that are over on an island alone.
 

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It’s really sad that Tichina Arnold’s plea for unity is being responded to in this way.

Really fukking sad.

This world has become too individualist. The sad part is the lack of recognition that individualism only works for you when you have power in society but if you belong to a group who doesn’t then you NEED Community if you ever expect to rise.
 

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Being “normal people” is not enough when you see your community tearing itself apart. Especially not from someone who purports themselves as the leaders of that community. Come on now.

You cant ask that second question after the answer you gave to my first question. If you don’t expect the men to take accountability for their actual actions as a collective how can you then turn around and expect women to to take accountability for things that they are not the ones doing? Women should “take accountability” but men should “just be normal people”? What?
It is enough because it doesn't feed into the foolishness that is destroying the community. I mean, we could feed all the men acting up into a literal meat grinder, but the same would have be done for the women acting up in which case, you would just end up with genocide or something far worse. That's not practical. As for actual tenable things that can be realistically done so far, being normal and actually cracking down on anti-black behavior. I will say this, being angry at men, blaming men, attacking men, fussing at men has been tried for literal decades and all we have to show for it is a backwards slide in regards to black collectivness and a rise in black male suicide. That tactic, the one we see on display in Arnold's timeline now, is not working at all and will literally be the death of the black community, at least in America.

What do you think should be done?
 

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This ain’t a community. This every person for themselves. A community wouldn’t embrace its worst and most embarrassing elements as the standard and define what that community is about. A lot of these nikkas ain’t worth saving…yet we all need each other cause it’s a common fight. It’s just some would rather fight each other than the opponent
I agree with you it is a common fight cacs want us divided that’s why I say try to unplug the ones you can but I wouldn’t stress over the ones who are set in their way of thinking
 
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