Walk me through the mind of nikkas that create single mothers or cheat on their wives
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These answers are trash
Mike Nasty
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Why get knocked up by a scumbag then. Shyt goes both ways.
ThrobbingHood
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Cheating I can understand. There are a lot of men in sexless marriages.
But abandoning your own flesh and blood? Nah... you have to be a real scumbag to do that.
But abandoning your own flesh and blood? Nah... you have to be a real scumbag to do that.
macadomusic
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Edit. I dont believe in abandoning kids tho. Never an excuse for that UNLESS your in a situation where YOU let the mom brainwash your kids to disrespect you , then hey .....
They were in their feelings in my thread. Let's see how this goes.
BmoreGorilla
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I put more responsibility on the man tho. We supposed to be leaders and shyt. nikkas on here everyday brag about not using condoms. Playing with fire. Even if she asks you not to use one doesn’t mean you don’t have to. Even if she asks you not to pull out doesn’t you don’t have to. At the end of day once consent is given we are now in full control of how sex goes down
I'll never understand the logic of some men...they'll tell you they are natural leaders but then turn around and tell you they can't even lead themselves past their own dikk. Lol
You can't have it both ways. Either you have disciple or you don't. What's the point of building if you're just gonna tear it down with bad decisions.
You can't have it both ways. Either you have disciple or you don't. What's the point of building if you're just gonna tear it down with bad decisions.
Fillerguy
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Its the womans fault for choosing my dusty ass
Being a single mom isn't always the case of being solely on a man. There are countless examples of couples being together and having kids. But for whatever the reason they break up.
So it isn't the same as a dude who makes kids and straight up abandons the woman. On some dead beat dad shyt.
I have a female family member that had a child out of wedlock she and the child's father were messing around. She gets pregnant and he wants to marry her. She says naw I don't want to get married and settle down (her feeling was she was too young). So what was the child father suppose to do? Hold a gun to my counsin's head and force her to marry him?
We say women should be able to make their own decisions and control their own life. But then for certain situations we want to treat women like little kids. Men do not own women...we can all agree on that. So we need stop with the whole its all a mans fault every time a woman is single or a single mother. Every situation is different for why she is single or a single mother.
I said this same thing when serena married the white boy and folks started blaming brothas. I was like so what you'll are saying is that any black man could have made serena marry them....like Serena has no say so in who she marries.
So it isn't the same as a dude who makes kids and straight up abandons the woman. On some dead beat dad shyt.
I have a female family member that had a child out of wedlock she and the child's father were messing around. She gets pregnant and he wants to marry her. She says naw I don't want to get married and settle down (her feeling was she was too young). So what was the child father suppose to do? Hold a gun to my counsin's head and force her to marry him?
We say women should be able to make their own decisions and control their own life. But then for certain situations we want to treat women like little kids. Men do not own women...we can all agree on that. So we need stop with the whole its all a mans fault every time a woman is single or a single mother. Every situation is different for why she is single or a single mother.
I said this same thing when serena married the white boy and folks started blaming brothas. I was like so what you'll are saying is that any black man could have made serena marry them....like Serena has no say so in who she marries.
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I know of more than a few brehs who was comfortable being with a super freak, then they locked that freak down and the sex slowed down some. They figured it was a phase so they got married and the sex slowed down even more and she started not doing the things in bed she use to do. Then they had kids and the sex only came a couple times a month and only in missionary or doggy. Imagine this being you, what would you do if you wasn't getting what you was getting at first and she has no plans of fixing it for you.
I mean I agree, but shyts complicated most times. Yes some people ain't shyt, but others really didn't mean for things to end up that way, sometimes a woman can just drive you mad, sometimes people just change.
That's why you have to find the "right woman" to have children with and marry, otherwise your screwed
That's why you have to find the "right woman" to have children with and marry, otherwise your screwed
BmoreGorilla
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If she ain’t willing to improve than get a divorce. Why stay in something that your miserable in? Why step out and make shyt even more complicated?
Selfishness. When shyt gets rough folks think about how to make themselves happy not thinking about how their actions affect others. Or sometimes some thing falls in your lap and you don’t exercise good judgement.
