Walk me through the mind of nikkas that create single mothers or cheat on their wives

[Ugo Ogugwa]

I'll never understand the logic of some men...they'll tell you they are natural leaders but then turn around and tell you they can't even lead themselves past their own dikk. Lol

You can't have it both ways. Either you have disciple or you don't. What's the point of building if you're just gonna tear it down with bad decisions.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I know a bunch of y'all roam on here.

Two very common things that I've never been fully able to comprehend. Why get a lifelong commitment with a woman if you're not going to take your vows seriously? Why not just get a divorce instead of cheating?

It's just pure stupidity to me. I haven't gotten married because I know I'm not ready to remain faithful or in other words haven't found a woman that would make me remain faithful.

The creating fatherless homes thing is just pure scumbaggery to me. Bringing a child to this world is an incredibly selfish act so ditching the kid is just pure evilness. Every kid deserves a 2 parent home.

Y'all nikkas are a huge reason why the community is all sorts of fukked up.

oh ...i get it

you're young....

let me guess....you're younger than 25 right? got it all figured out huh?

you're still under the illusion that life is ALWAYS black and white...instead of the shades of grey that most of us reside in 99% of the time

 

[Will Ross]

You should be asking what is the mindset of the woman that choose the man that cheats and makes kids he don’t plan on taking care of.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I'll never understand the logic of some men...they'll tell you they are natural leaders but then turn around and tell you they can't even lead themselves past their own dikk. Lol

You can't have it both ways. Either you have disciple or you don't. What's the point of building if you're just gonna tear it down with bad decisions.

remember this...always

anyone that has to TELL you they're a leader is NO leader

that said....MLK....notoriously cheated on his wife....was he not a leader?

one thing has nothing to do with the other....

its a CHOICE...you choose to stick with one woman or you choose NOT to

its not really that deep

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I know of more than a few brehs who was comfortable being with a super freak, then they locked that freak down and the sex slowed down some. They figured it was a phase so they got married and the sex slowed down even more and she started not doing the things in bed she use to do. Then they had kids and the sex only came a couple times a month and only in missionary or doggy. Imagine this being you, what would you do if you wasn't getting what you was getting at first and she has no plans of fixing it for you.

breh i was there....

sex was plentiful while we dated.....

the longer we were together the less we did it....towards the end it was literally ONCE month....

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Anybody who abandons their child is a walking monster and a soulless human being.

 

[Knowledge]

breh i was there....

sex was plentiful while we dated.....

the longer we were together the less we did it....towards the end it was literally ONCE month....

What happened afterwards? Did y'all talk about it? Was there any improvement if y'all did talk it out? Did you end up cheating?

 

[The Fade]

Some of these women want to be single moms, even in the white community. Even other women call them out for it.

Some of them purposely move across the country or get fallacious court orders against the father

 

[010101]

biology

humanity would be extinct otherwise

ha

*

 

[jadillac]

Some ppl make a mistake.

The problem is if you continue to make it over and over

 

[VertigoKnight]

Cheating is a two way street both men and women do it. For a variety of reasons.

The reality is after a while every relationship loses its lustre.

Whether its through finances, you both start to begrudge each other and the love inevitably fades.

The sex turns from a flood into a drip and when you do get some its seen as more of inconvenience rather than something she wants to do.

You know it and she does to. That just makes a sour situation even worse.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

remember this...always

anyone that has to TELL you they're a leader is NO leader

that said....MLK....notoriously cheated on his wife....was he not a leader?

one thing has nothing to do with the other....

its a CHOICE...you choose to stick with one woman or you choose NOT to

its not really that deep

You're comparing leading people who have no emotional or financial obligation to you to leading people who depend on you. Big difference. How can a man with low discipline and morality lead his wife in morality in any way? shyt is hypocritical and fake. And most men are not natural leaders. If they were they wouldn't be in the situations they're in.

 

[Gold]

Alot of issues stem from lack of communication.

Imma bold this cuz i need everyone to understand.


WOMEN DO NOT NATIVELY REALIZE HOW IMPORTANT SEX IS FOR MEN. Many say they do, and think they do, but they are truly deluding themselves as theh tend to greatly undervalue it. Any woman reading this, if you arent having sex with your man, yall friends
(assuming you're both able to slam ass)

Now for the other shoe...

MEN DO NOT NATIVELY REALIZE HOW IMPORTANT SECURITY IS FOR WOMEN. And not just physically, this is also mentally, spiritually, financially, and most importantly emotionally. And emotionally is where we men usually drop the ball, i know i do all the time. Im just not used to dealing with sensitive people so i look at my wife sometimes like "Man up "


A woman will cheat and feel vindicated if she doesnt feel secure with u (financial, emotional, physical etc)

A man will cheat if he feels a lack of respect for his sexual needs. If your man asks you to try something new in the bed and you laugh at it... he gonna find someone who will

 

[BaggerofTea]

Why get knocked up by a scumbag then. Shyt goes both ways.

I'll never understand the logic of some men...they'll tell you they are natural leaders but then turn around and tell you they can't even lead themselves past their own dikk. Lol

You can't have it both ways. Either you have disciple or you don't. What's the point of building if you're just gonna tear it down with bad decisions.

This cant be emphasized enough.

Any man finding an excuse is not a man, they are a woman with a reverted clit

No offense to women

 

[MJ Truth]

I can't front. The cheating shyt, I can completely understand that, and it doesn't even bother me much at all.

But the fathering a child and then just leaving it to fend for itself, that's some shyt I will never be able to comprehend. I don't have kids so it's possible I could see the reasoning once I do, but I simply can't imagine getting someone pregnant and then not being around to at least help raise the kid and be in his/her life. Like, if you're a deadbeat dad, I would hope that's all you could think about 24/7, is how you're failing your seed(s). But apparently, it's an easy thing to do since so many dudes do it.