Walk me through the mind of nikkas that create single mothers or cheat on their wives

[Thurgood Thurston III]

When you choose a guy with a lot of options, he MIGHT want to explore those options.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

What happened afterwards? Did y'all talk about it? Was there any improvement if y'all did talk it out? Did you end up cheating?

talked about it multiple times breh....always ended up with her getting pissed

we had problems....

we werent meant to be....

i hope she's happy wherever she is

 

[jwonder]

I know a bunch of y'all roam on here.

Two very common things that I've never been fully able to comprehend. Why get a lifelong commitment with a woman if you're not going to take your vows seriously? Why not just get a divorce instead of cheating?

It's just pure stupidity to me. I haven't gotten married because I know I'm not ready to remain faithful or in other words haven't found a woman that would make me remain faithful.

The creating fatherless homes thing is just pure scumbaggery to me. Bringing a child to this world is an incredibly selfish act so ditching the kid is just pure evilness. Every kid deserves a 2 parent home.

Y'all nikkas are a huge reason why the community is all sorts of fukked up.

They way I view it is women are single mothers because of their stupidity. I'm talking about women who are not raped or that have mental health issues. A lot of times they know these dudes ain't shyt but let them bust all kind of nuts in them. I think your question should be asking why do they do that?

As far as marriage. People get comfortable and stop doing what they used to do. Like look good and fit for their partner. They stop having sex. Male and female are guilty of this. But I see it more with women. They get their man, get fat and/or stop wanting to have sex. It's like they got what they wanted and feel they don't have to do anything. But American women especially, are fukking retarded when it comes to relationships. The logical isn't there. They think that a man is never going to cheat on them. When they do. They come with all types of drama and holds everybody else accountable except themselves.


Most men can't afford the fukked up lopsided favor of divorce. That's where you get the saying. It's cheaper to keep her.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

You're comparing leading people who have no emotional or financial obligation to you to leading people who depend on you. Big difference. How can a man with low discipline and morality lead his wife in morality in any way? shyt is hypocritical and fake. And most men are not natural leaders. If they were they wouldn't be in the situations they're in.

we'll have to agree to disagree...

i will say this...most PEOPLE arent natural leaders...not just men

its why being a leader pays so well

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

You gotta have the juice to understand.

but I do agree that leaving your kids hanging is some fukk shyt.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

It's not always on the man... Remember, she will leave you eventually. I used to think just like you... I got humbled this year my man

So because you got left, everyone will

 

[semicko82]

Some people don't get married off of being in "love" anywhere.
I think some people get hitched because of the benefits, and being married looks good whenever you are getting promotions in your career field ( corporate, politics, military)
People get in these sham marriages and realize they're not in to each other, and that's how the ball gets rolling on the cheating shyt.
And before you come at my neck, that's some married couples not all

As far as getting someone pregnant that falls on both parties

You have a variety of birth control for a reason

 

[MoveForward]

So because you got left, everyone will

Not everyone but a majority of men will, stats prove it.

I get b1tches and all that but any reasonable man knows women change like the weather and they wake up out of the blue thinking about leaving your ass sometimes.

 

[ThatTruth777]

Selfishness

 

[Tommy Knocks]

people grow apart after some time (are you the same person at 17? 22? ) and monogamy isn't as natural as you'd think, its a recent invention.

 

[International Playa]

OP is clearly inexperienced. In longterm relationships many women tend to le themselves go ( gain weight, dress less sexy, nagging etc) & tend to have less sex.

Many guys end up having side action

80% of divorces are initiated by women

 

[Jeshaman]

Funny thing is when i was a prim and proper do gooder...i walked around with a dry dikk or i was being cheated on. Minute i started acting like an ass, my game improved and guess what...no woman ever left me. Even when they knew i kept a whole harem.

This life is funny. Women hate cheating men but are not necessarily attracted to or respect faithful men.

I have no answers though. I dont enjoy cheating and do my best to avoid it...but from experience being faithful as a Man does not necessarily come with rewards

 

[I'm Blackman]

Sometimes the little head out thinks the big one

Yeah this.


But I agree with OP.

 

[The ADD]

I don't think you can find many men that make a thought out and planned decision not to participate in their kids lives for zero reason. It happens but good luck finding that answer.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

we'll have to agree to disagree...

i will say this...most PEOPLE arent natural leaders...not just men

its why being a leader pays so well

What is there to disagree about? I'm sure you wouldn't let a broke person tell you how to get rich but somehow a liar and a cheater should be the voice of morality? Well idk you maybe you would. But seems to me someone who can't successfully keep it in their pants shouldn't be an authority on the matter.

I agree about people not being leaders in general which is why it makes no sense to let another person especially a man "lead" you (general) automatically.