Walk me through the mind of nikkas that create single mothers or cheat on their wives

[Biscayne]

nobodys missed the point, people been getting married and cheating since the beginning of time.

The reason is people like to fukk

you sound like your experiences on the matter are mostly hypothetical

We live in the most Sexually expressive time ever. Not being married isn't frowned upon like it once was. There was a time where men and women were seen as social outcast after a certain age. But why in 2020, would ppl choose to get married if they know their will is weak? Ppl been getting married and cheating since forever, because ppl were getting trapped into marriage by societal pressure. Now? Ppl are just selfish. They want tradition but they want all that entails 2020 societal freedoms. It's just selfish. And excuse making. Divorce is higher than ever and quite normalized. So you have another out. Maybe I just don't get it. Maybe hypotheticals is my only experience on the matter. Explain to me from your personal experience. Ppl like to F***, just makes me wanna rebutt Then why get married? You say it's that simple and not that deep, but why isn't rebuffing marriage and just deciding to take a break not so simple and "too complicated"?

Also, ppl don't get married right after the engagement. It's usually a 5-6month even 12month process. Why wait so long spend the bread, and build the relationship just to tear it all down over a nut? You had so many opportunities to just run.

 

[Biscayne]

Cause men usually have one women they really like or love and care about which becomes their girlfriend/wife.

Meanwhile we still want to fukk other hoes

You think you love her. Sometimes you gotta sacrifice that nut for the person you love. Even if easy p*ssy falls into your lap. Why go through the process of marriage just to tear it down? I wish brehs had pre-nut clarity. Brehs can't be overly dominated by their heart(Wives/GF's) and their dikk(hoes they wanna smash). Just be a bachelor or set up a FWB relationship with the woman you love. Y'all can talk chill and do all the things you want, and be guilt free.

 

[WaveGang]

Abundance of p*ssy mindset

lol but seriously. The mother of my child decided to have a baby off the rip, we wasnt together I wasnt even hitting it like that at alll. So thats a question you gotta ask her. She lives half way up the country so she super wild. I got a DNA test and I love my daughter. But yh it is what it is.

As for cheating, boiii. Women throw p*ssy at me bruh, hard not to catch that shyt.

 

[DreadBrown]

We live in the most Sexually expressive time ever. Not being married isn't frowned upon like it once was. There was a time where men and women were seen as social outcast after a certain age. But why in 2020, would ppl choose to get married if they know their will is weak? Ppl been getting married and cheating since forever, because ppl were getting trapped into marriage by societal pressure. Now? Ppl are just selfish. They want tradition but they want all that entails 2020 societal freedoms. It's just selfish. And excuse making. Divorce is higher than ever and quite normalized. So you have another out. Maybe I just don't get it. Maybe hypotheticals is my only experience on the matter. Explain to me from your personal experience. Ppl like to F***, just makes me wanna rebutt Then why get married? You say it's that simple and not that deep, but why isn't rebuffing marriage and just deciding to take a break not so simple and "too complicated"?

Also, ppl don't get married right after the engagement. It's usually a 5-6month even 12month process. Why wait so long spend the bread, and build the relationship just to tear it all down over a nut? You had so many opportunities to just run.

People are selfish you right. You trying to rationalise and deconstruct this thing but its really not that deep.

People need love and companionship, but they also like to fukk.

It’s not about being ‘weak willed’ or ‘societal pressure’. It’s human nature.

 

[Cynic]

I know a bunch of y'all roam on here.

Two very common things that I've never been fully able to comprehend. Why get a lifelong commitment with a woman if you're not going to take your vows seriously? Why not just get a divorce instead of cheating?

It's just pure stupidity to me. I haven't gotten married because I know I'm not ready to remain faithful or in other words haven't found a woman that would make me remain faithful.

The creating fatherless homes thing is just pure scumbaggery to me. Bringing a child to this world is an incredibly selfish act so ditching the kid is just pure evilness. Every kid deserves a 2 parent home.

Y'all nikkas are a huge reason why the community is all sorts of fukked up.

Won't comment on the single parenthood because that's a complex issue

but as far as cheating goes - most cases women change from delightful partners to emotional control freaks

There are a lot of men who have dead bedrooms and have to spend money on vacations just to get the cheeks.

The husbands need for intimacy are often discarded for the child or dependant her own mood

So the dynamic of the relationship becomes one of controlling access to sex but on her terms

so men will naturally veer out of frustration ( think escorts/side girls etc... )



It's hilarious to watch men think women will be consistent once they have that contract

either way GMB

 

[Biscayne]

Alot of issues stem from lack of communication.

Imma bold this cuz i need everyone to understand.


WOMEN DO NOT NATIVELY REALIZE HOW IMPORTANT SEX IS FOR MEN. Many say they do, and think they do, but they are truly deluding themselves as theh tend to greatly undervalue it. Any woman reading this, if you arent having sex with your man, yall friends
(assuming you're both able to slam ass)

Now for the other shoe...

MEN DO NOT NATIVELY REALIZE HOW IMPORTANT SECURITY IS FOR WOMEN. And not just physically, this is also mentally, spiritually, financially, and most importantly emotionally. And emotionally is where we men usually drop the ball, i know i do all the time. Im just not used to dealing with sensitive people so i look at my wife sometimes like "Man up "


A woman will cheat and feel vindicated if she doesnt feel secure with u (financial, emotional, physical etc)

A man will cheat if he feels a lack of respect for his sexual needs. If your man asks you to try something new in the bed and you laugh at it... he gonna find someone who will

Makes sense to me.

People are selfish you right. You trying to rationalise and deconstruct this thing but its really not that deep.

People need love and companionship, but they also like to fukk.

It’s not about being ‘weak willed’ or ‘societal pressure’. It’s human nature.

You right.

 

[Peak]

I’m willing to bet that it’s due to the fact that your penis feels very good when it enters a new vagina.

Edit: I do not endorse this. If you're married stay loyal.

 

[Mensch Fontana]

Your only as loyal as your options

 

[LiveFromLondon]

The creating fatherless homes thing is just pure scumbaggery to me. Bringing a child to this world is an incredibly selfish act so ditching the kid is just pure evilness. Every kid deserves a 2 parent home

If its their body, their choice then why is it the onus placed on men. Single mothers create themselves by letting nikkas nut in em initially and for the most part THEY KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THEY'RE DOING WHEN THEY GET PREGNANT.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You think you love her. Sometimes you gotta sacrifice that nut for the person you love. Even if easy p*ssy falls into your lap. Why go through the process of marriage just to tear it down? I wish brehs had pre-nut clarity. Brehs can't be overly dominated by their heart(Wives/GF's) and their dikk(hoes they wanna smash). Just be a bachelor or set up a FWB relationship with the woman you love. Y'all can talk chill and do all the things you want, and be guilt free.

A lot of guys want to "own" women too. The thought of her moving on to another man is unbearable.

 

[FcKuPaYmE]

Bunch of shytty excuses thrown around in this thread when there is none for leaving your kid fatherless.


Now as far as not letting it get to that point in the first place. Sadly women make horrible choices in men. Just horrible decision makers.

 

[Luck]

Either a idiot or kid but it really isn’t rocket surgery...

Just like crime, most cheating is from opportunity which is why work is where a lot of mfs do dirt. And hormones are a crazy thing, depending on the timing, relationship status, etc...if the right person is throwing it at you most people will take it.

Now leaving a single mother is a different story but the same common sense principles apply, sometimes people fukk but don’t get along at all. Not really that hard a concept to understand. You’ll meet people that you get along with fine at first then once y’all get past that surface level bs you see that y’all really ain’t that compatible.

And I don’t want to hear about self discipline from broke, sloppy nikkas

Yea you can turn down some ass / dikk from an undesirable but if you bank account dry, you look like shyt and a bum that has accomplished nothing then no one gives af about your over valuations of sex. You get no awards for that shyt

 

[Serious]

It's not always on the man... Remember, she will leave you eventually. I used to think just like you... I got humbled this year my man

It's not always as one sided as its commonly betrayed. At least my grandma case. She got pregnant young from sneaking around with an older family friend who she knew was married but here's the kicker. He was only married to a woman so that she could live the US legally. He really wanted to be with my grandma, but my grandma continually pushed him away. He tried several times to be in mom's life, yet all she dad was threaten my granddad to stay from her and my mom.

The real fukked up part is that my mom only just now found out about this maybe 3-4 years ago. So she's been in the dark about the whereabout of her dad for 97% of her life. If you know my grandmother, then you know this is just one of my self centered and self sabotaging things shes done in the past.....


So yeah don't always believe the single mother narrative. It totally happens but its not always as cut and dry, as dude smashes, then runs away. There;s legit women that push men away and want to raise children on their own. And for the record my grandmother sisters were the one's who told us this.

 

[Serious]

Lack of self control & self discipline.

Tell me why I was talking online to a chick that had a one and 2 year old....

Nah get this, she said she aint been in a relationship in two years.

That type of math aint adding up

 

[Serious]

This in bold. Also some of these kats got to be young or don't work in the workforce with adults cause if you do. You would see the fukkery with married women. Especially the ones that make money..(Actually they did a study the more money men and women make the more likely they are to cheat)..

Man oh man oh man. There are a shyt load of married women who cheat. Just had an issue in a department I worked in last year where two mangers (married man and a married women) were messing around. Come to find out another manager a married woman was also messing with the married male manager. But the other married female manager was telling folks she was messing with the married male manager.

HR got wind and made them jokers all leave the department and go to seperate departments. Come to find out all of them came clean to their spouses now both female managers are going through a divorce with their husbands. One female manager walking around sad cause her husband trying to get the kids, house and child support. And the male manager been kicked out his house by his wife...

You think women aint fukking or hooking with people on tinder, when they're on their business trips or at conferences / conventions for 3-5 days.

Especially if the conference ends at 4 or 5pm....

After being in conferences all day, you think everyone just retreats to their room for the rest of the night, and awaits for the next part of the program.

Also there's a lot more women in high positions in the workforce now too.