Want to break up with my girl, struggling to find the right time to do it. HELP!!!

[Fill Collins]

I'm a selfish person, so take my advice with a grain of salt but rip the fukking bandaid off, do it now damn it, now

You ain't happy, she ain't happy, mf's wanna bottle shyt up and stress themselves out for ppl they ain't married to

Longer you linger the worse it'll get

 

[Pressure]

Cheat.

 

[chief_keef_stan]

“International playa”

 

[Fillerguy]

I've legit only heard women say this stupid shyt.

 

[analog]

Unless you're living with her, you're making this way harder than it needs to be.

Have respect for yourself, and your time. If the relationship isn't working for you, then let her know. Otherwise you're wasting both y'all time.

Start with a text message, or email if you want, then give her a time you're free to talk things through.

You're going to have many more breakups, may as well start working on handling it the right way

 

[Born Rich]

you’re doing your girl and yourself a huge disservice prolonging it, OP…

i’ve ended every relationship i’ve ever been in so trust i know how you’re feeling…

two things will happen immediately following the break-up…1) you’ll feel like a weight has been lifted but you’ll also feel guilty and question if you’re actually a heartless piece of shyt…

2) your girl will initially be hurt, but over time she’ll appreciate and respect you for being man enough to end things when both of you were unhappy…

eventually y’all will both move on with your lives and hopefully be happier for it…

 

[Mordith]

at the cognitive dissonance between OP's Username and this thread.

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

nikka aint no playa then

fair enough

 

[Laidbackman]

Wait for the next time she messes up, then keep it moving

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

Theres never a "right time" just tell the bih its over.

 

[MikelArteta]

Just do it

 

[Sterling Archer]

You sound like a punk. Just break it off. Damn

 

[Laidbackman]

We been dating for 8 months, we are both not happy & forcing things, no one wants to end it because they don't want to be the "bad guy" who ended it.

I'm ready to end things but struggling to find the right timing, I don't want to mess up things going on in her life.

She is preparing for a big 100k+ job interview this week, She got a friend visiting her next week. She arranged for a cookout with another couple we know the week after. Over a month of things planned

When should I end things?

What's the problem? Is it you or her? Are y'all too good for each other, or what?

 

[hitmonlee]

I wanted to end a 4 yr and it lasted to 6

My advice is do it asap or it’s gonna drag

You only been together 8 months for crying out loud!!

 

[Amo Husserl]

Tell her you wanna have a threesome with Coi Leray and Brittany Renner.