We Are the Generation That Doesn’t Want Relationships

[NotaPAWG]

Speak for yourself

 

[BmoreGorilla]

This is the laziest most selfish generation ever. We live in our own bubbles controlled by social media where if we receive any type of criticism or adversity we can just log off. There's also other factors like women these days don't need men the way they used to since many of them make just as much or out earn us. Women have no pressure to find that man to support them

 

[At30wecashout]

I've done most of these things, with friends, alone, and randoms. I can say without a doubt they all would have been more fulfilling if I had someone I truly cared about doing it with me. I've travelled all over the world alone and with friends, and no matter how good of a time I have the thought creeps into my head at times that I wish I had someone to share these experiences with that I had a deep/er connection with. Not saying I don't enjoy myself, it's just...different.

What fun is it remembering a trip or something funny only to have no one to chat about it with because the friend you made isn't really a friend just an associate you picked up at a hostel or online? Idk...I just don't agree with you.

All of this. What irritates me the most is how other people always suggest taking friends or family to do things...been there, done that.

It's a wholly different experience, and lacks a ton of the intimacy involved in discovering and sharing with someone who cares about you on a romantic level.

A ton of experiences are so much more enjoyable when you have someone to hug up with before, during, and after, and grow closer as a result.

 

[:-)]

 

[Woman of god]

I've done most of these things, with friends, alone, and randoms. I can say without a doubt they all would have been more fulfilling if I had someone I truly cared about doing it with me. I've travelled all over the world alone and with friends, and no matter how good of a time I have the thought creeps into my head at times that I wish I had someone to share these experiences with that I had a deep/er connection with. Not saying I don't enjoy myself, it's just...different.

What fun is it remembering a trip or something funny only to have no one to chat about it with because the friend you made isn't really a friend just an associate you picked up at a hostel or online? Idk...I just don't agree with you.

That's a fair enough critique. I suppose in my mind a fulfilling relationship can take u from good to great, not from bad or mediocre to great. U have to get to at least "good " on your own

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I would love a good healthy relationship but most people are emotionally and mentally incapable of this. Women get a ton of flack for it but men have it so bad too.

 

[MikelArteta]

im sur emost poeple would want to be in relationships, but all the stress it brings, people not wanting to give up exes, people leavng at the first sign of trouble

 

[2CT]

too late to try to have these types of discussions now, it's only gonna get worse so either get in where you fit in or get out

 

[Woman of god]

All of this. What irritates me the most is how other people always suggest taking friends or family to do things...been there, done that.

It's a wholly different experience, and lacks a ton of the intimacy involved in discovering and sharing with someone who cares about you on a romantic level.

A ton of experiences are so much more enjoyable when you have someone to hug up with before, during, and after, and grow closer as a result.

This was actually really, really sad to read

 

[At30wecashout]

This was actually really, really sad to read

It's a sad damn life to lead. I stopped going out with my peoples some time back when I saw they were all hooked up with someone. I'm not gonna be the 7th wheel

watching people do something I admittedly would love to be doing myself, which is hugging up on some lady. Made me go back to what I know: stay alone. It perpetuates its own

issue

 

[Woman of god]

It's a sad damn life to lead. I stopped going out with my peoples some time back when I saw they were all hooked up with someone. I'm not gonna be the 7th wheel

watching people do something I admittedly would love to be doing myself, which is hugging up on some lady. Made me go back to what I know: stay alone. It perpetuates its own

issue

how old r u?

 

[At30wecashout]

how old r u?

29 in a month. I'm so set in my ways, though

 

[Woman of god]

29 in a month. I'm so set in my ways, though

That's still young. Don't give up hope !

 

[Athenna]

This thread seriously makes me want to ask my best friend some things..

 

[At30wecashout]

That's still young. Don't give up hope !

Hope.