No its not these women make it real hard for actual rape survivors to get any real justice.
We need to have a discussion….. because this IS NOT SEXUAL ASSAULT…
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Joe Budden
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Ok your coworker did this to you. Would you feel different about if it’s sexual assault or not?
But this is not a random man on the subway.
Doesnt matter if she came over to your place
Doesnt mean you gotta stick ur tongue down her throat and then be like
" oh i read the wrong signal"
You've never misread signs? Do you ask for permission everytime? Assuming you are not an incel.
If I left a group gathering with a gay co-worker, walked him home, agreed to his invitation to come upstairs for "coffee", no I would not feel different about it.
Females want that type of action from guys they are attracted to. How would the guy know if she's attracted to him you might ask? Easy. He has to read for non verbal signals that may differ from woman to woman and just know. That part of it has always been there but the difference now is that there is no such thing as an honest mistake.
To answer your question, women don't want things to be where men are scared to make a move. But at the same time, they want that power available for them in case they need it.
Well, I can only speak from my own experiences, but is it hard to misread signs to the point where you're shoving your tongue down a woman's throat in a forceful manner, pressing her against a couch?
If you're going in with that intent and force, it's usually reciprocated by the woman at the same time, by her being forceful too. If you're just sitting there next to her, putting your hand over her shoulder, and she doesn't reciprocate that energy, you go in slowly do you not? You don't just force yourself on her without reading her body language. If you feel her reciprocating the kiss, then you go for more, but never before.
Theres levels tho
Cant go from 0 to 100..from sitting next to her and then next minute sticking your tongue down her throat lol
What happen to hand touch
Or try to escalate slowly
Sticking your tongue is after you get someone kind of positive response from her that shes into you
Joe Budden
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What if it wasn’t clear that he was gay. What if you knew nothing of his sexuality?
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It isn't hard to ask "do you mind if I kiss you?"
You got to know how to read them. If you two are on the couch just make eye contact, smile, and ask if it's ok if you get closer.
It isn't rocket science.
You got to know how to read them. If you two are on the couch just make eye contact, smile, and ask if it's ok if you get closer.
It isn't rocket science.
Thurgood Thurston III
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No that's definitely assault. There would be zero context.
How about both of you alone, late at night, at your place, sitting close enough for you to quickly make that move?
Maybe it's still sexual assault, but it's definitely a better comparison than "at work during lunch"
Coli brehs who refuse to make any physical contact or touch the girl during the date
And then finally bring her home and they have their dikk out right away
Thats how you get sexual assault cases thrown at u
Me personally by the time i bring a girl her to my house
We have already kissed and holding hands
Fred
And then finally bring her home and they have their dikk out right away
Thats how you get sexual assault cases thrown at u
Me personally by the time i bring a girl her to my house
We have already kissed and holding hands
Fred
Ain't That Something
Superstar
The same women that have hissy fit when high level executive say they don't spend time with women not their wife's in a setting alone.
First, this is her account. Name names so the dude can defend himself. I wouldn't be surprised if this scenario is made up to sell a book.
Some dudes are socially and sexually awkward. Doesn't help that scenarios have been built into our heads for decades in movies/books aimed at women on how men that take charge are rewarded for their boldness.
How many times have we watched Rom Coms aimed at women, where the main guy and girl's sexual tension builds up until it is finally broken when the guy makes a bold move and they start passionately kissing? Happens in almost every single cheesy Romcom.
Also, If this dude's intention was to assault her, why would he stop when she said no? Not to mention she went to his apartment at night for "coffee". It's like when it comes to certain scenarios, women are absolved of all responsibilities and are treated like helpless children.
There was never a rapport, only women fearing what could happen to their careers if they didn't keep quiet.
