What has changed in America where nobody can stay married?

[MikelArteta]

Marry women from broken home brehettes

I just came from a memorial service for my friends father, his parents were married 52 years, he's been happily married to his wife now 10 years.

I think it's pretty important for people to actually see how a marriage works, so a man or woman that comes from a stable family is more likely to have a stable marriage themselves because they know what it takes and saw an example of it a large portion of their life.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

I dunno really. I see couples like the neeleys divorcing and im taken aback. I did find them a lil over the top mushy . I got and stayed married for all the wrong reasons the first time and ended up paying him to sign the divorce papers cuz he wouldnt sign them otherwise. I see alotta infidelity in marriages that look perfect from the outside. And i see divorces from ppl who you would think are happy. I took my time getting married again. I would have been ok without the legalities. But i also didnt wanna live in sin for the rest of my life either. Im actually in a happy place, i aint getting beat on, or taken advantage of so only way out of this marriage is death or prison.

 

[Diondon]

I dunno really. I see couples like the neeleys divorcing and im taken aback. I did find them a lil over the top mushy . I got and stayed married for all the wrong reasons the first time and ended up paying him to sign the divorce papers cuz he wouldnt sign them otherwise. I see alotta infidelity in marriages that look perfect from the outside. And i see divorces from ppl who you would think are happy. I took my time getting married again. I would have been ok without the legalities. But i also didnt wanna live in sin for the rest of my life either. Im actually in a happy place, i aint getting beat on, or taken advantage of so only way out of this marriage is death or prison.

Them two cooking ass nikkas?
I thought dude was a huge simp though

 

[KinksandCoils]

women just dont need men like they use to. why live under a mans "rule" if you're both economically equal.

and if the man is better off financially, she can still live off his dime in the divorce.

Yup this is a huge factor. I've heard plenty of old couples 65+ who said their spouse cheated but they stayed because of what would be said about them, and basically MONEY.

If I didn't have any money and I was married I might would stay longer too if I had no choice. But let my husband cheat on me and I'm balling.

He is gone!

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

GENDER ROLES PRETTY MUCH.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Ikr my husband dont eem allow me to come in the kitchen when he cooking so they prolly got on each others nerves but was puttin on a front for the show

Them two cooking ass nikkas?
I thought dude was a huge simp though

 

[Diondon]

Ikr my husband dont eem allow me to come in the kitchen when he cooking so they prolly got on each others nerves but was puttin on a front for the show

Must be
I was like damn, you gotta do all that ass kissing to have a successful marriage?
Apparently not

 

[SHO-NUFF]

Impressive.

Oh, I forgot to mention, no Degrees, no Certs, nothing; just a bunch of call-center experience, actually that's how we met....
we both partied too hard, and flunked out of OU, and before I met her I went into the Army, which just made me worse
We both just grew up together, and fought, made up, partied, scraped up money, fought some more, and all that, and about6 or 7 years in, things started to click.....

Sometimes, the only thing we could do right was love each other...

Patience is the game, but you GOTTA GET WITH SOMEBODY THAT MAKES TIME FLY....
that's my #1 advice

 

[SHO-NUFF]

Wait till she hits 35 and younger fit dudes at work giving her attention

which leads me to my #2 advice; being married ain't no reason to get ...... I feel better now, than I did at 30.....

 

[InDePickWest]

What @The Maverick said.

Nobody cares.

Women just want the security (money) that comes with marriage, bragging about their ring, but eventually want new dikk and freedom
Men want a slave that does as he says as he continues to live the single life outside the family home


Money ruined my parents marriage though.

 

[AntiHero]

Imagine how many women cheat and never say anything .

 

[SHO-NUFF]

Word my wife and I were broke when we got married. 8 years later we like...

You know how many beautiful weddings we been to\a part of, only to find out fukkery was afoot not even a week later?

 

[Makavalli]

Life move to fast for this ADD generation. They want to hit the main and side the same damn day and expect not to get caught.

Not to mention these kids growing up in a single parent home never a stable marriage. The fictional shyt dont even exist on tv anymore like the Banks cosbys or winslows

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

You know how many beautiful weddings we been to\a part of, only to find out fukkery was afoot not even a week later?

Maybe getting married broke is the key.

I'll never forget how wifey stood by my side and believed in me when no one else did. Loved me for the sake of love and no other benefit. We've been through so much together. That kinda bond is hard to break.

 

[baracka zulu]

Marriage on a whole are just as shytty as they've always been.

Just cuz muthafukkaz stuck around with more frequency back in the day doesn't mean they were happy. They just had less options.

It's just easier and more beneficial for muthafukkaz (hoes especially) to get out of 'em nowadays & more ways of the average person finding out about all the failures via news/social media/etc, so it seems like a bigger deal than it is.