Ironically, that article helps my theory the american society works against black men to keep us as second-class citizens so the black men won't hoard all the women.
real shyt
A rule of thumb when dealing with people:
If their ex's 'wasn't shyt', and they stayed with that person for a significant period of time, then they are damaged goods. They likely have poor judgment and perpetual victimization syndrome. Dont get attached. Trust me, I know from experience.
If their ex's 'wasn't shyt', and they stayed with that person for a significant period of time, then they are damaged goods. They likely have poor judgment and perpetual victimization syndrome. Dont get attached. Trust me, I know from experience.
I'm learning that now, remember talking to her about the ex and she said she was about to bounce back with the nikka before we exchanged digits
Forced it way too early, even when smashing, that doesn't give you insta-relationship. Serious relationships don't happen until your late 20s-30s anyway as women in that age bracket don't have a clue about themselves let alone sustaining relationship.
Dust your shoulder off cancel this one and run through them as they are disposable right now.
Dust your shoulder off cancel this one and run through them as they are disposable right now.
You were already in a relationship dummy...
and you blew it asking for a relationship like a female does..
'..baby so are we doing..?'
nah I wasn't in a relationship, she said she wasn't ready for no relationship.
did you read my OP? lol
*looks at avi* *looks at the bolded/underlined text* *looks back at avi*
I see what you did there, 
nah but real talk, I see where you coming from.
what made you want to define things so quickly??
i know people desperate for a green card who wouldn't move that fast
no matter what the coli tells you..
it's NORMAL to have feelings for a new woman you are seeing
but 10 days is way too fast to be overcome by strong love
instead of fixating on your emotions
observe her- talk to her- get to know the real human being
not some idealized version of her
here's a specifc tip- don't let new people monopolize your time
spend time with them, then take a break to digest the experience before seeing them again
spending long blocks of time with new people,,
without pausing to reflect on what happened,,
..is a brainwashing technique
i know people desperate for a green card who wouldn't move that fast
no matter what the coli tells you..
it's NORMAL to have feelings for a new woman you are seeing
but 10 days is way too fast to be overcome by strong love
instead of fixating on your emotions
observe her- talk to her- get to know the real human being
not some idealized version of her
here's a specifc tip- don't let new people monopolize your time
spend time with them, then take a break to digest the experience before seeing them again
spending long blocks of time with new people,,
without pausing to reflect on what happened,,
..is a brainwashing technique
nah but real talk, I see where you coming from.
Ha ha New Jack City quotable ha ha
I respect all that,
and we've had interactions and shyt before the situation so when we finally started fukking with each other I thought she had some solid qualities but like I said in the OP, that was that "good foot forward first" shyt that caught me slipping.
Why u so thirsty for a title
Just go with the flow
not "thirsty" for a title, I was "thirsty" for a chick I could build with and have someone in my corner to support a nikka. it's not a title I was after, if you and other users assume that the title is what I was after, we seeing shyt from different angles.
I'm learning that now, remember talking to her about the ex and she said she was about to bounce back with the nikka before we exchanged digits
