What is your definition of masculinity?
- Thread starter King Jae
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Basically...everything else is negligible.
Just admit y'all never thought about this topic in depth...it's ok..thats y I made the thread...to make ppl think..
I think you just gotta be a pop to your kid and a positive mentor to younger kids that have no positive logical men around them. I think if you're dealing with a nikka that grew up around women they're doomed to just be nikkas who make decisions on emotion until they get into their 30s and realize themselves that acting on emotions are traits of a female
I mentioned something like this. Parents should teach their boys how to be respectable men and girls how to be respectable women.I think you just gotta be a pop to your kid and a positive mentor to younger kids that have no positive logical men around them. I think if you're dealing with a nikka that grew up around women they're doomed to just be nikkas who make decisions on emotion until they get into their 30s and realize themselves that acting on emotions are traits of a female
One issue is that a lot of our young boys grow up in single parent homes and don't have an active fulltime father to learn from. Then also some with fathers may have to be around their moms a lot because their pops work so much so it still can be difficult for a young boy to get enough guidance and knowledge from his pops.
Bobby Lashleys eyebrows
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let's hug it out bruh...ur trolling sucks agent....I'm trying to have an honest dialogue with black men about masculinity and u added absolutely nothing...get the fukk out my thread...
...Yea real masculine... shake my hand like a man...
Bobby Lashleys eyebrows
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One with full confidence and assertiveness in his masculinity does not ask for the definition of it because he encompasses it. Shake my hand or get these hands bruh.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Gotta be a leader and don't let a woman walk over you.
Its not letting pain get in the way of anything (physical or emotional)
Its not backing down from a fight
Its about showing no fear(didnt say you couldnt have fear)
Its about keeping your word, and following through with everything no matter the cost
Its not backing down from a fight
Its about showing no fear(didnt say you couldnt have fear)
Its about keeping your word, and following through with everything no matter the cost
BaldingSoHard
Banned
Never leave your woman or progeny unprotected.
uh bruh.. do u know how many young misguided black men are out there? u know how many probably read the coli? Its not for me...its for them... A lot of them want guidance but wont ask for it.. its a passive aggressive way to help them..they may not ask for help but they will read these posts and may gain something from it..that was the entire purpose of this thread.. I had a father that schooled me growing up..alot of bruh didn't have that luxury...sure we can square up.... what gym u want to meet at? Handle this like gentlemen...lets get in the ring... the loser buys the beer...
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Bobby Lashleys eyebrows
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My bad bruh, read your thread the wrong way. I'm not gonna knock you out today.
Being masculine is having thick skin to bounce back from failures and not letting them be your defining moments but your stepping stools. Not lowering your standards to what society deems or whatever is in your social construct. Essentially, not giving a fukk and just being and accepting you with boldness and confidence.
Yeah, I have. And masculinity takes many different forms. For me fatherhood is a very masculine thing in all its forms. Braiding you daughters hair YOURSELF as her father doesn't make you less of a man or father...
Being in control of ones emotions is another thing. Flying off the hinges over some bullshyt is NOT manly.
Being open and honest is manly, being cold/callous/uncaring is not.
Most of these things fall under "acting like a lil bytch".