What is your definition of masculinity?

King Jae

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One with full confidence and assertiveness in his masculinity does not ask for the definition of it because he encompasses it. Shake my hand or get these hands bruh.

Yeah, I have. And masculinity takes many different forms. For me fatherhood is a very masculine thing in all its forms. Braiding you daughters hair YOURSELF as her father doesn't make you less of a man or father...

Being in control of ones emotions is another thing. Flying off the hinges over some bullshyt is NOT manly.

Being open and honest is manly, being cold/callous/uncaring is not.

Most of these things fall under "acting like a lil bytch".
So why couldn't u just say that from the beginning?
 

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Be a man about your fukkin business. Keeping your word. Not this status quoi wishy washy ghosting culture we got now.

Accepting and taking responsibility for how your life plays out. Not this p*ssy ass blaming women for your failures in dating and relationships or blaming cacs for your failures in career or business. shyt is bytchmade:scust:

Being bold enough to live the way you want to live without giving two shyts about what the next man thinks of you
 

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These are actually the most masculine nikkas out there. Them rich uppity hipster folk in silicon valley move and do what they want :sas2:

nikka please, ain't shyt masculine bout looking at a damn screen all day and figuring out ways to fukk people outta their jobs/homes because you getting kickbacks by the US Government. Save that for someone who falls for the okie doke.

"I know how to code, I overcompensate by going to the gym and calling other dudes fakkits, respect my masculinity" head ass boi
 

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nikka please, ain't shyt masculine bout looking at a damn screen all day and figuring out ways to fukk people outta their jobs/homes because you getting kickbacks by the US Government. Save that for someone who falls for the okie doke.

"I know how to code, I overcompensate by going to the gym and calling other dudes fakkits, respect my masculinity" head ass boi
Money, influence, wealth, building a legacy for your family, knowing that your children and the one that follow she after will have an easier life than you did because of the work you put in is the definition of masculinity to me :sas2:. All them nikkas drove fancy cars, owned multiple houses, happily married with kids that was being set up to do the same thing, that's the type of shyt I want one day :sas1:. But I guess being a so called nerd and being the only ones with a future outside of people that work on medicine or teach is not masculine.

I'mma let you cook :mjlol:
 

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Money, influence, wealth, building a legacy for your family, knowing that your children and the one that follow she after will have an easier life than you did because of the work you put in is the definition of masculinity to me :sas2:. All them nikkas drove fancy cars, owned multiple houses, happily married with kids that was being set up to do the same thing, that's the type of shyt I want one day :sas1:. But I guess being a so called nerd and being the only ones with a future outside of people that work on medicine or teach is not masculine.

I'mma let you cook :mjlol:

I mean you're helping in further fukking over poor/working people.

But as long as you got it that's all that matters :mjgrin:anything to prove you're a man to people you look down on who actually work for a living.
 

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I mean you're helping in further fukking over poor/working people.

But as long as you got it that's all that matters :mjgrin:anything to prove you're a man to people you look down on who actually work for a living.
All technology is supposed stop advancing and mankind should stop evolving just because they don't have any useful skills and get outdone by a machine :jbhmm:? It's the government's job to take care of the people, not multibillion dollar corporations. Working just to live is retarded anyways and was never going to be sustainable forever. Don't worry breh, those without useful skills will receive checks from the government that is paid for by taxing the rich and cutting down on military funding :obama:

The transition is going to be painful but y'all going to be aight :salute: :mjlol:
 

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I can't define masculinity. I think only men can do that.
I can say how it makes me feel as a woman.

-Safe, cherished and protected. It's not an explicit thing. Most really masculine men, even the extroverts aren't loud or obnoxious or OUT THERE. They are friendly, amicable, funny. But very self-assured and that confidence creates an AOE that either rubs people the wrong way b/c they feel convicted by the hoe in their hearts or appreciative. Masculinity ain't trying to start shyt, but best believe will finish the job if tested. The overwhelming majority of men have cool heads IMO.

-Calm. As a female we are constant frantic bundles of energy. Yeah we sleep a lot but that's b/c we doing a lil bit of everything at once. I'm actually on cooldown on a treadmill while writing this post and I've got my phone on mute b/c I'm on a conference call about a team study with my advisory team. Despite my ADHD, every amazing man I've met in my life was able to impart tranquility into my life. They put u at ease. shyt that seems SO stressful is LITERALLY nothing in the presence of a man.

-Challenged. There are very few men in my life that I feel better than. And no I'm not talking from
the perspective of someone who has low-self esteem. I like me. I'm aware of my strengths and limitations. Somehow whether randomly or unconsciously, I have been surrounded by men who I feel are not only my equal but also sources of inspiration and growth. They keep you on ur toes. They accept you, but will not accept ur complacency.

-Convicted. All because of masculine fortitude. I know a man whose car put him down. So he took the bus to work. No complaints. Didn't miss not one day. Asked no one for help. Took it in stride until he got another one. Meanwhile I would have been inconsolable, stressed, frantic. The masculinity I've been blessed to be around carried with it a spirit of fortitude that rejected the futility of negativity in favor of solutions. How the hell you complaining when it's real dudes outchea doin the most quietly. I hope he know I don't let little shyt like that pass my notice. I see.

-Loved. We drive em in-fukking-sane. But they love them some us. Sometimes I don't even KNOW why, but they do. They love women. They want u to smile. They wanna know how u smell between ur legs. They like hearing u laugh. They like the smell of ur hair. The way the light hits ur eyes. How u snort and hold ur stomach when it's really funny. How u look like a deer in headlights when he say filth in ur ear.

Like I said, I can't define masculinity. I can only describe the effects of it on me.
 
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